Is Hobby-ing a word? If Hobbyist is, I don`t see why Hobbying can`t be.
Hello, everyone. I am John (not really, but that`s what I go by here). I figure it would be a great idea to have a do/avoid list for successful Hobbying.
What I mean is, how to have the most pleasant time possible. Sometimes a SP and a Client click, sometimes they... well... don`t. But like anything else on earth, there is (always) a factor in the so-called ``clicking`` or lack-of-it.
Ok, I am fairly new to this world, so be gentle (some of my suggestions may sound stupid).
1. Be clean, dress well, smell good (the BIG 3).
2. Be nice and gentle (in my experience, girls don`t like rough sex in the real world).
--- Don`t talk down to the SPs, avoid unpleasant words even if it somehow turned you on.
3. Bring a gift or tip (Flower, chocolate, even $20 for a job well done).
4. Be on time (Arriving and Leaving).
5. Don`t try to coerce a SP into doing things by offering money or asking 2000 times (Unless she has it as an option).
6. Be open with what you want, ask directly (preferably before the session). That way there are no unpleasant surprises.
--- This can be hard with Agencies, because they don`t know Every girl`s restriction (so, you can only ask when you see her... which in most cases are too late to back out from).
7. Be safe... ``could`` be dangerous. BBFS is just CRAZY.
1. Be clean, dress well (sexy), smell good (the BIG 3).
2. Speak both languages... (it`s very important to be able communicate with BOTH groups of clients)
3. Be ``into it`` or at least ACT that way (I am not talking straight-up GFE, but generally warmer. If we want to have sex with a dead fish... we could for free? lol)
4. Communicate (surprise, sometimes some of us CARES what you want. It helps to communicate because if you`re happy, our session will be better. Tell the client what you like, even asking for it is fine. Some SP loved my DATY technics and they repeatedly asked for it, I LOVED IT.)
5. Open minded (well, there is a REASON we came to you and not our girl friends. We probably want to try something new or want to test out a position).
6. FOREPLAY !!! (I want FOREPLAY ! Mainly because some of us have problems with our real life lover and we NEED emotional bandage... not a hole to stick our tool.)
7. Don`t be too greedy (Asking for extras for DATY or LFK is ridiculous. It`s not an extra burden for you. I understand extra for Greek or . For other things, either you don`t mind it, or you do mind it for some personal reason. Charging for it only makes you look greedy)
8. Instead of taking off your clothes, take off your clients (and let him do yours). It really is more intimate and it relaxes the client.
As you can see the SP side is better developed. Because I gathered complains and general info around the forum and composed it. Since SPs don`t come and complain about clients (lol)... the Client side ISNT as well thought out (most of it is just things I like do out to politeness and decency).
Any contribution is more than welcomed. We can all learn from this thread if enough of us contribute. To the greater cause of better no-strings sex ! Onward, women and men of the https://merb.cc !