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    Should this be considered cheating?

    A man in a relationship watching a random couple who he met on the net have sex in their

    bedroom without getting involved in no way whatsoever including masterbation.

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    Last edited by CS Martin; 12-25-2009 at 05:10 AM.

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    Is he hiding the fact that he did this from his partner? Why?

    If he has to lie and sneak, then it is cheating.

    Ronnie,
    Naughtylady
    They will forget what you said,
    they will forget what you did,
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    Quote Originally Posted by naughtylady View Post
    Is he hiding the fact that he did this from his partner? Why?

    If he has to lie and sneak, then it is cheating.

    Ronnie,
    Naughtylady
    At the root of the question here is exactly how much does a spouse have to share? Does the individual have any right to privacy? Everyone has a secret...

    If this guy is not involved, he is watching a show...right? Is it cheating if he goes to a strip club? Views porn? So whats next...telling his partner he's viewing the "highlight reel" in his mind while they are having sex? Hell, I wish all women had open minds and men could share everything but unfortunately for some jealousy and insecurity rule...just my 2 cents...

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    Quote Originally Posted by master_bates View Post
    A man in a relationship watching a random couple who he met on the net have sex in their

    bedroom without getting involved in no way whatsoever including masterbation.
    Cheating always start with yourself.

    I know I'd be cheating myself just looking a couple having sex without having any or even like u said masterbate. Unless I'm in the middle of a very good 'karma inspiration kinda sh*t yoga meditation' of some sort and that I just found out I could have a real swinging time with my brain by not having any urge at all.

    Who knows.. maybe this guys wants to be a 'fakir' but I sure know what would be the answer of my girl if I told her 'honey I swear I didn't do anything at all'. She would just say something like....'ya right....!' Not only you think I'm stupid but you're stink at lying ! Or your the stupidest guy I ever met...' What did you do ? play with your stupid drumsticks while watching ?'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maria Divina View Post
    ...I'm not thinking like you about the reasons why some people (not only women...) would prefer that there partner won't have outside affairs.... That's a question of Love...and to think that your lover should a priory, desire you...and be intimate with you...

    If the sex is inexistant between 2 people of a couple, they are in crisis, and they should find a solution...

    A real equilibrate couple share an equilibre exchange between their heads, theirs hearts and theirs body's need... and in this situation, why someone would need to go outside their relationship if they are already all fullfilled???.........
    Relationships are about many choices and compromises. They are also often far more complicated and touch many more lives than just 2.
    And most importantly in the city of Real World (where I live) they are far different than in the village of Perfect...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CS Martin View Post
    He may be cheating himself. Could be a real turn-on for he and his SO.

    thanks for making me laugh today. Good comeback.

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    so the man just watched, and nothing else? is watching a xxx movie cheating in your opinon? this is no different, so i would overwhelmingly say no , it is not cheating




    Quote Originally Posted by master_bates View Post
    A man in a relationship watching a random couple who he met on the net have sex in their

    bedroom without getting involved in no way whatsoever including masterbation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maria Divina View Post
    ...I'm not thinking like you about the reasons why some people (not only women...) would prefer that there partner won't have outside affairs.... That's a question of Love...and to think that your lover should a priory, desire you...and be intimate with you...

    If the sex is inexistant between 2 people of a couple, they are in crisis, and they should find a solution...

    A real equilibrate couple share an equilibre exchange between their heads, theirs hearts and theirs body's need... and in this situation, why someone would need to go outside their relationship if they are already all fullfilled???.........
    Maria,
    This is a little naive to think that your lover will fulfill ALL your needs!!! Everyone have fantasies outside their relationship and this has nothing to do with love...or absence of love. Don't forget we think differently than woman.

    My theory is : "A woman need to be in love to have good satisfying sex, a man need good satisfying sex to be in love..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sire-concis View Post
    Maria,
    This is a little naive to think that your lover will fulfill ALL your needs!!! Everyone have fantasies outside their relationship and this has nothing to do with love...or absence of love. Don't forget we think differently than woman.

    My theory is : "A woman need to be in love to have good satisfying sex, a man need good satisfying sex to be in love..."
    Maybe for some women (I certainly could only speak for my self and not all women) but not me... I have had some amazingly good satisfying sex with clients and other people with whom I have had no emotional attachment, much less love!

    Ronnie,
    Naughtylady
    They will forget what you said,
    they will forget what you did,
    but they will never forget the way you made them feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lgna69xxx View Post
    so the man just watched, and nothing else? is watching a xxx movie cheating in your opinon? this is no different, so i would overwhelmingly say no , it is not cheating
    Exactly, just watch, nothing else

    In my opinion no,watching a xxx isnt cheating just as you said, this shouldnt be any different

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