A woman's perspective
I know many use dating apps as an alternative to find quick hookups or perhaps even an arrangement. I wanted to share with you some advice and what could potentially work if you're trying to attract a woman. I hope this post won't be too long, for the sake of it I'll probably just put the "important" points in bold.
Most women aren't impressed with your hunting/fishing photos as they're not into that themselves. Yes some women are into those hobbies so who knows you might find a hunting partner on Tinder.
It's great to see a photo of you with a friend or two so that we know that you are social. Don't use a group photo as your first one because we won't know which one you are.
Your bio should to be short and give a good idea of who you are, try to avoid listing the things you like/dislike in a woman as it sounds negative and it usually doesn't really make people want to swipe right. Leave it for after you guys have a match.
If you're just looking for sex, please say it. It sucks to go on a date with someone, to think that they're looking for something serious only to end up being someone looking for a fwb.
If you're looking for an arrangement don't mention it on the app itself as most of them will ban you from using it. You'll have to get the other person's phone number and ask them if they've been into that kind of relationship or if they're familiar with it.
I've had a match with a man about a year ago, he never mentioned wanting an arrangement but whenever we would go out, I'd never have to use my own card. Whether it was for a coffee, a pair of shoes or even a new phone. This could be good if you're not the kind that likes to give an allowance.
I had another man on the other end straight up telling me he wanted to give me money for an evening with him and that he wanted it to be a regular thing. Just go with whatever you're comfortable with and be honest.
Now, I can't really help you with the profiles you should avoid because I don't swipe through women. Maybe some of you will want to add to this thread.
I tried to keep it short but if you have any questions feel free to ask here or in private.
Bisous
I know many use dating apps as an alternative to find quick hookups or perhaps even an arrangement. I wanted to share with you some advice and what could potentially work if you're trying to attract a woman. I hope this post won't be too long, for the sake of it I'll probably just put the "important" points in bold.
Most women aren't impressed with your hunting/fishing photos as they're not into that themselves. Yes some women are into those hobbies so who knows you might find a hunting partner on Tinder.
It's great to see a photo of you with a friend or two so that we know that you are social. Don't use a group photo as your first one because we won't know which one you are.
Your bio should to be short and give a good idea of who you are, try to avoid listing the things you like/dislike in a woman as it sounds negative and it usually doesn't really make people want to swipe right. Leave it for after you guys have a match.
If you're just looking for sex, please say it. It sucks to go on a date with someone, to think that they're looking for something serious only to end up being someone looking for a fwb.
If you're looking for an arrangement don't mention it on the app itself as most of them will ban you from using it. You'll have to get the other person's phone number and ask them if they've been into that kind of relationship or if they're familiar with it.
I've had a match with a man about a year ago, he never mentioned wanting an arrangement but whenever we would go out, I'd never have to use my own card. Whether it was for a coffee, a pair of shoes or even a new phone. This could be good if you're not the kind that likes to give an allowance.
I had another man on the other end straight up telling me he wanted to give me money for an evening with him and that he wanted it to be a regular thing. Just go with whatever you're comfortable with and be honest.
Now, I can't really help you with the profiles you should avoid because I don't swipe through women. Maybe some of you will want to add to this thread.
I tried to keep it short but if you have any questions feel free to ask here or in private.
Bisous
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