I had a long debate with a friend on getting extras from strippers during a lapdance. I wondering if one wanted to get more from a stripper should one try to get more by doing in a gentle manner or should one just ask for it the direct way. Example if I want a french kiss from a stripper do I inch by kissing her on her necks, ears, and slowly towards her lips. Or should I just ask her straight up during my lapdances that I want to have a french kiss?
Not sure which is the better way and which method would have more success. Any opinions?