According to my research, the most common sexual fetish is a foot fetish afflicting 3% of the total male population...
I have written a book on how I developed a severe chronic foot fetish. I was sexually abused by my 10 year older half sister.. Although many men especially foot fetishists would not consider this sexual abuse. According to psychology & man made criminal laws this was most definitely sexual abuse. At the time it started I was just 2 years old when my half sister began giving me a bath & placing her feet in the water bath with me. She was 12 years old when it started & 20 years old when these incidents ended. There were also at least 100 incidents between the age of 2 & 10 where I found myself in bed with my half sister fondling her feet & toes with my soldier.. At the time I considered myself the luckiest little boy being pleasured by my half sister's feet.. Little did I know the severe impact these incidents would have on my later life..
You can buy my book in e-book format if you go to my website to read the full impact of what my half sister did to me.
I will share some excerpts from the conclusion of my book here > The dictionary’s definition of a fetish is as follows; an object or bodily part whose real fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression. The dictionary further defines a fetish as an association of sexual feelings with a part of the body or an article of dress. The word fetish originates from the Latin word “facticius” which means artificial or manmade. It also means an object that has supernatural powers over others. A foot fetish in psychology terms is called “paraphilia”, meaning above and beyond friendship and love. In psychology terms “paraphilia” means an association with a non-sexual object, action or thing. Foot fetishism, foot worship, or podophilia is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is also the most common form of sexual preference for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts.
Bottom line, people develop sexual associations with what turns them on and as long as there are mutually consenting adults that are both understanding and willing to fulfill another individual’s fetish and fantasy, then there is no harm done. The only harm can come when someone is unwillingly forced to participate in someone else’s fetish, which is very wrong.
I began writing my book with the most basic theory about psychology, why do we behave the way we do? To refresh this most basic theory, the dramatic and powerful events and experiences that occur during our childhood years shall have a profound impact on us later on as adults. Through my research I have uncovered some of the most common reasons why men will develop a foot fetish. Most young little baby boys by nature are naturally quite curious, crawling along the living room or kitchen floor as their mother and perhaps some of her friends might be having tea or just chatting. But to the young little boy, all he sees as he’s crawling along the floor are women’s feet, sometimes dangling outside of the shoe, as he is drawn to the shape and perhaps to the movement of these dangling feet. This is just another example of how a young little boy can first encounter women’s feet, becoming somehow fascinated by them and leading him to develop a foot fetish later on in his adult life. Another common example of how young little boys go on to develop a foot fetish sometimes occurs rather innocently in the following manner. A mother or perhaps a sister places her young baby son or baby brother on the top part of their feet in an innocent playful fashion, allowing the young boy to ride horsy on top of either his mother’s or his sister’s foot. The young little boy, feeling his penis rub against the feet of either his mother or his sister becomes somewhat sexually aroused, henceforth a foot fetishist is born.
Definition of incestuous abuse include any sexual contact defined as touching with the intention to sexually arouse the child, fondling of the genitals or other parts of the body in a sexual manner, manual stimulation of the genitals.
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