Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Fradi]

Exactly! Just saying it’s mind blowing when you find the right sp!

Physically yes it can be amazing.
Unfortunately for me it is a quick fix that doesn’t last, but yes it feels great at the time.
There is nothing that compares to being with the one you love especially if she actually enjoys sex as well and initiates it as often as you do.

 

[Enjoying life]

Physically yes it can be amazing.
Unfortunately for me it is a quick fix that doesn’t last, but yes it feels great at the time.
There is nothing that compares to being with the one you love especially if she actually enjoys sex as well and initiates it as often as you do.

Do your best and what you can so enjoy!

 

[Rebaynia]

Sex with a sp is way more wild with than an GF! Actually feelings take way from kinky sex sorry! That’s why many married men go with an sp as it’s just way more exciting

Lol... I'm a girlfriend, and the kinkiest stuff is reserved for my master/bf. Clients don't get to enjoy the wildest parts of me. It takes trust and love to make the kink fun rather than traumatic.

 

[Rebaynia]

I’m having a blast when the chemistry is right with an sp especially a mature one

Just meaning. I know what kind of things you are refering to that you seem to feel emotions or a relationship get in the way of. My point is only that those very same extreme things, actually reach a whole other level than just basic fun and relief when there is a relationship involved.

Fradi's point is basically, rephrased in the kinkster relationship dynamic. What could be better than say,
The SP you have the most chemistry with so far, but not an SP. Having access and their undevided devotion to your desires, and they share in the same kinks you enjoy, you can do what you want, how you want, any day or time, and not have to pay. And in the kink world when it is agreed upon in the relationship, you can have that as well as have it be poly. A soul-mate in the deepest of terms.

But from what I gather it just isn't you anyways. You just seem interested in the kink, not so much the control. Because the control is only enhanced by the devotion of a relationship.

 

[Fradi]

Lol... I'm a girlfriend, and the kinkiest stuff is reserved for my master/bf. Clients don't get to enjoy the wildest parts of me. It takes trust and love to make the kink fun rather than traumatic.

While everybody has some kind of kink or perceived to be that by others it was not what I was talking about.
Call me old fashioned or a romantic or whatever. I actually believe and lived being totally in love with someone who returned that for over 35 years.
There is absolutely nothing that compares being with the one you love, the one you share your life with, your dreams with, have a family with.
A paid for fantasy with an SP pales in comparison whatever it includes and it is over the minute you walk out the door.
Perhaps I am just not kinky enough lol.

 

[Alucard87]

While everybody has some kind of kink or perceived to be that by others it was not what I was talking about.
Call me old fashioned or a romantic or whatever. I actually believe and lived being totally in love with someone who returned that for over 35 years.
There is absolutely nothing that compares being with the one you love, the one you share your life with, your dreams with, have a family with.
A paid for fantasy with an SP pales in comparison whatever it includes and it is over the minute you walk out the door.
Perhaps I am just not kinky enough lol.

Yes I agree with you it's always best with someone you're in love with. So after my first time with an SW I went for an emotional ride for the rest of the weekend. Hard to separate sex into a commodity.

Doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it, or wasn't thankful and appreciative of her time and efforts. Hell I'm going to see her again soon and can't wait. Just going through the mental wrangling of a noob not used to this world.

 

[Rebaynia]

While everybody has some kind of kink or perceived to be that by others it was not what I was talking about.
Call me old fashioned or a romantic or whatever. I actually believe and lived being totally in love with someone who returned that for over 35 years.
There is absolutely nothing that compares being with the one you love, the one you share your life with, your dreams with, have a family with.
A paid for fantasy with an SP pales in comparison whatever it includes and it is over the minute you walk out the door.
Perhaps I am just not kinky enough lol.

LoL. The type of bdsm devotion I am talking about takes the kind of love you are talking about. I just took the vanilla romantic version and translated it to the ultimate M/s relationship idea of the same love.

Some people just have different needs from their life partners. The husband/wife regular style doesn't work for everybody. Some of us find therapy in the insane.

 

[Enjoying life]

LoL. The type of bdsm devotion I am talking about takes the kind of love you are talking about. I just took the vanilla romantic version and translated it to the ultimate M/s relationship idea of the same love.

Some people just have different needs from their life partners. The husband/wife regular style doesn't work for everybody. Some of us find therapy in the insane.

I had an Asian girlfriend as the sex was good but for some reason feelings took away from the excitement compared to my latest encounter with an sp who it was just pure lust for both of us! Just find my orgasms the best with an sp with good chemistry as that’s the way it works for vs having deep feelings!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Lol... I'm a girlfriend, and the kinkiest stuff is reserved for my master/bf. Clients don't get to enjoy the wildest parts of me. It takes trust and love to make the kink fun rather than traumatic.

I feel the same way. There are things I won't do with a client that I'll do with a partner I have romantic feelings for.