Are agency dates discreet/private?

[jabbee]

So first of all, I tried my best looking that up using the search and the guides but didn't find that my question is addressed.. sorry in advance if I missed an obvious post or guide

I was always curious about agency girls but due to valuing privacy and discretion a lot - not married or else lol, just want the information to pass through as few persons as possible - thus only had sessions with indies on Tryst up until now. I'm still curious about agency girls though as I haven't really found what I wanted on Tryst and LL isn't worth the effort to not get scammed for me.

Are there any incalls possible when using an agency? If not, how does it work privacy-wise - meaning who else apart from the booker would know about the session? Are there any women-owned agencies (I don't know about communicating with a guy to get a session with an agency girl, it just doesn't sit right with me and I'd rather not include other men in my session planning lol).

 

[Marsouin]

I don’t know where you get the notion that an Indy will respect your privacy more than an agency or an agency less than an Indy.
Whoever you are dealing with will either respect it or not.

Yes there incall agency ..owned totally or partially owned by women too(even male owner have gf ..guess where they met them ) .
Look at agency advertisers on this board.

 

[jabbee]

I don’t know where you get the notion that an Indy will respect your privacy more than an agency or an agency less than an Indy.
Whoever you are dealing with will either respect it or not.

Yes there incall agency ..owned totally or partially owned by women too(even male owner have gf ..guess where they met them ) .
Look at agency advertisers on this board.

I just mean that typically with a Tryst indy I'll only deal with her, in her own incall place.
For an agency girl, I'll deal with her, her booker, a driver (?), the incall location isn't hers I assume so other people from the agency will be privy to it (security?)

Obviously I assume both of them have the same chances of talking about clients to friends or other SP's or whatever. I'm referring to privacy of the encounter only. Will look at the board, some indeed say incall or outcall only, but how do I know it's woman-owned?

 

[Julia Sky]

I just mean that typically with a Tryst indy I'll only deal with her, in her own incall place.
For an agency girl, I'll deal with her, her booker, a driver (?), the incall location isn't hers I assume so other people from the agency will be privy to it (security?)

Obviously I assume both of them have the same chances of talking about clients to friends or other SP's or whatever. I'm referring to privacy of the encounter only. Will look at the board, some indeed say incall or outcall only, but how do I know it's woman-owned?

What makes a woman pimp a better option than a man pimp from your perspective as a client? They're both just random people who take charge of the booking process or the organization. I don't understand the thought process here. It doesn't really change anything for you? Am I missing something?

Independents often share incall spaces as well so they would know an appointment is taking place at x day and x time at the shared incall. Some have assistants and it's not always public information.

You can never really know for sure I guess is my point but those are irrational worries IMO. This should be relaxing, not stressful haha

 

[Marsouin]

It can be woman-owned and whoever answers the phone can still have a dick or the other way around.
How do you know ? .. well you do or you don’t and whatever people believe is in between.

 

[jabbee]

What makes a woman pimp a better option than a man pimp from your perspective as a client? They're both just random people who take charge of the booking process or the organization. I don't understand the thought process here. It doesn't really change anything for you? Am I missing something?

Idk I guess the power dynamic? And as I said I'd rather not plan my session with another man... but think from the few responses I got I'll just stick to indies

 

[jabbee]

It can be woman-owned and whoever answers the phone can still have a dick or the other way around.
How do you know ? .. well you do or you don’t and whatever people believe is in between.

That's the point, with an indy (most Tryst indies at least) I know I'm texting her and she's the one responding. And for the ones that have assistants it's pretty clear in the merb reviews as that's often acknowledged. Will just stick to indies it looks like.

 

[Flabert]

So first of all, I tried my best looking that up using the search and the guides but didn't find that my question is addressed.. sorry in advance if I missed an obvious post or guide

I was always curious about agency girls but due to valuing privacy and discretion a lot - not married or else lol, just want the information to pass through as few persons as possible - thus only had sessions with indies on Tryst up until now. I'm still curious about agency girls though as I haven't really found what I wanted on Tryst and LL isn't worth the effort to not get scammed for me.

Are there any incalls possible when using an agency? If not, how does it work privacy-wise - meaning who else apart from the booker would know about the session? Are there any women-owned agencies (I don't know about communicating with a guy to get a session with an agency girl, it just doesn't sit right with me and I'd rather not include other men in my session planning lol).

Lots of agencies offer incall. Good for you because you don't expose your place.

Now am going to mess with your mind What about cameras? You can trust your place but not others...

In the end, you need to find someone you trust and be reasonable in your actions. Unless you are unbelievably rich or famous no one will care.

 

[jabbee]

Lots of agencies offer incall. Good for you because you don't expose your place.

Now am going to mess with your mind What about cameras? You can trust your place but not others...

In the end, you need to find someone you trust and be reasonable in your actions. Unless you are unbelievably rich or famous no one will care.

Fair point about cameras but my place is a non-negotiable no go lol. Going to a hotel is asking to get filmed by multiple ones too so I'm conscious about the risk I'm taking by using a SP's incall.

That's actually another sign for me to use an incall that's not shared among multiple girls from an agency and "managed" by an agency, and I guess another reason to stick with trusted indies.

 

[cpp433]

Of course theyre discreet, they wouldnt last long if they weren’t, almost 20 years of using agencies in montreal and ive never had an issue with that, use the well reviewed ones on here and youll have nothing to worry about

 

[Giselle Montreal]

That's actually another sign for me to use an incall that's not shared among multiple girls from an agency and "managed" by an agency, and I guess another reason to stick with trusted indies.

I think you made up things in your mind, but it's normal as you can't know what's happening backstage. It's OK to have fun in this industry within our comfort zone. Maybe one day you'll get some insights and you'll be more comfortable to explore agencies, and beyond. Maybe not. Do what feels right for you at the moment! Being on MERB is already a good start for successful encounters!

 

[Enjoying life]

What makes a woman pimp a better option than a man pimp from your perspective as a client? They're both just random people who take charge of the booking process or the organization. I don't understand the thought process here. It doesn't really change anything for you? Am I missing something?

Independents often share incall spaces as well so they would know an appointment is taking place at x day and x time at the shared incall. Some have assistants and it's not always public information.

You can never really know for sure I guess is my point but those are irrational worries IMO. This should be relaxing, not stressful haha

I think indys and agencies are very cool here!

 

[LC18]

Are agency dates discreet/private?

No, they come to your hotel with a voice amplifier and neon lights I AM COMING HERE TO SUCK THIS MAN’S DICK

 

[jabbee]

Are agency dates discreet/private?

No, they come to your hotel with a voice amplifier and neon lights I AM COMING HERE TO SUCK THIS MAN’S DICK

From my POV, might as well do that if you're gonna have another guy and his staff know when and where I'm seeing an SP..
My tolerance is low for privacy and both what I'm and you're describing exceed my personal threshold.

 

[talkinghead]

I'm sympathetic to the OP since I've always been very cautious when I indulge. That said, @jabbee, I don't understand what "information" you're concerned about, what privacy you feel is vulnerable. Agencies generally require virtually no personal information, though some don't allow internet-based phones. (Get a burner if you're worried.) Most don't even need your name and none ask for an ID, at least that I know of. Most hotels don't care at all whether you have guests, and many don't require keycards. (See the thread on hotel info.) I don't know the incall scene anymore but I imagine it's the same. And my advice is to get over whether the booker is a man or woman, though I can sort of understand that sensitivity. Most of the time these days it's just texting anyway, and believe me they're not looking for lengthy exchanges with a new bff. If you're concerned about your personal information, well-respected agencies are the safest way to go, not because they're discreet but because they don't care.

 

[Enjoying life]

I'm sympathetic to the OP since I've always been very cautious when I indulge. That said, @jabbee, I don't understand what "information" you're concerned about, what privacy you feel is vulnerable. Agencies generally require virtually no personal information, though some don't allow internet-based phones. (Get a burner if you're worried.) Most don't even need your name and none ask for an ID, at least that I know of. Most hotels don't care at all whether you have guests, and many don't require keycards. (See the thread on hotel info.) I don't know the incall scene anymore but I imagine it's the same. And my advice is to get over whether the booker is a man or woman, though I can sort of understand that sensitivity. Most of the time these days it's just texting anyway, and believe me they're not looking for lengthy exchanges with a new bff. If you're concerned about your personal information, well-respected agencies are the safest way to go, not because they're discreet but because they don't care.

I love the bookers at VoG

 

[jabbee]

I'm sympathetic to the OP since I've always been very cautious when I indulge. That said, @jabbee, I don't understand what "information" you're concerned about, what privacy you feel is vulnerable. Agencies generally require virtually no personal information, though some don't allow internet-based phones. (Get a burner if you're worried.) Most don't even need your name and none ask for an ID, at least that I know of. Most hotels don't care at all whether you have guests, and many don't require keycards. (See the thread on hotel info.) I don't know the incall scene anymore but I imagine it's the same. And my advice is to get over whether the booker is a man or woman, though I can sort of understand that sensitivity. Most of the time these days it's just texting anyway, and believe me they're not looking for lengthy exchanges with a new bff. If you're concerned about your personal information, well-respected agencies are the safest way to go, not because they're discreet but because they don't care.

My main concern is how much time any of my information (the what/where/when) changes hand and how much people it reaches. I don't care if it's not personally identifiable information, I just want to minimize it and usually with trusted indies both metrics = 1 while with agencies, I guess there's staffers, a booker, a driver and whatever else I don't know. I also don't want to end up in a situation where I "out" myself in any way - for example for indies in condos, I make sure it's accessible without passing by a reception desk or there's no reception desk at all - with agencies it could be a driver, idk.

But yeah at this point I'm just responding to feed the discussion lol, my mind is pretty much set on continuing with trusted indies as my perceived risk is too big with LL and agencies.

 

[LC18]

Book with someone or an agency that does incall and requires little to no screening. Voila problem solved

 

[talkinghead]

My main concern is how much time any of my information (the what/where/when) changes hand and how much people it reaches. I don't care if it's not personally identifiable information, I just want to minimize it and usually with trusted indies both metrics = 1 while with agencies, I guess there's staffers, a booker, a driver and whatever else I don't know. I also don't want to end up in a situation where I "out" myself in any way - for example for indies in condos, I make sure it's accessible without passing by a reception desk or there's no reception desk at all - with agencies it could be a driver, idk.

But yeah at this point I'm just responding to feed the discussion lol, my mind is pretty much set on continuing with trusted indies as my perceived risk is too big with LL and agencies.

If you're most comfortable with "trusted indies," then that's the ticket. Respectfully, I think your concerns about agencies are misplaced, but everyone has to find their own path, the way that for them balances safety, convenience, cost, and FUN. Enjoy!

 

[Giselle Montreal]

My main concern is how much time any of my information (the what/where/when) changes hand and how much people it reaches. I don't care if it's not personally identifiable information, I just want to minimize it and usually with trusted indies both metrics = 1 while with agencies, I guess there's staffers, a booker, a driver and whatever else I don't know. I also don't want to end up in a situation where I "out" myself in any way - for example for indies in condos, I make sure it's accessible without passing by a reception desk or there's no reception desk at all - with agencies it could be a driver, idk.

You'll never know the extent of our safety protocols. You either play within our rules (and rules of each of us varies as you know), or you don't.