How important is chemistry for you in a session?
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Many times and it really sucks. Its like being on a bad date, your just going through the motions at dinner and just cant wait for it to be over and you can drop her ass off. It would be great if we could book through Amazon, they are really good with returns...
Both the sex and the chemistry are. When there is no chemistry, there is an awkwardness. Chemistry is why I become a regular
The subject of chemistry with escorts is complicated because it's not like running into someone at a party and developing a mutual attraction. Chemistry is psychological in my opinion, and it can develop over time. I know I will have good chemistry with a client if he chose me not only for my looks & ''spinner'' body but because he knows that we have interests in common and compatible personalities. Chemistry happens when personality types, needs and interests are compatible. You sometimes know right away when you vibe with someone. But if you book a SP with a highly skeptical attitude and already feel unhappy and resentful, chances are chemistry won't develop. I don't think chemistry is something that happens right away, it takes more than a half hour meet to know if you have chemistry with a SP.
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Maybe a more relatable word would be complicity more than chemistry?
I think that makes 100% more sense in this context.. I think for me chemistry seems vague. A certain body language and certain actions and words can be interpreted as chemistry by the client, but that doesn't mean it's real. Do I have real complicity and chemistry with a lot of my clients? Absolutely! But it's not about something chemical necessarily, it's about our personalities meshing well together.. The sexual enjoyment comes after that, or at the same time. I think even when you meet someone you have chemistry with in your civilian life, it can take a while to realize you have chemistry with somebody. It's not necessarily an instant thing like in the movies. And the context of booking a SP and meeting her for the first time in a certain environment changes things.
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Chemistry for me is the most important part in a session. It can literally make or break how a session goes & usually be the deal breaker if i’ll chose to repeat. It’s been so crucial to my enjoyment of this hobby for many, many years! But luck in finding a compatible partner sometimes often helps. And i’ve also found that chemistry can be developed & improved over time. Once i saw a very popular sp named Marie-Eve & felt we had no chemistry. I figured I wouldn’t see her again. Then a year later i wanted to see someone at the last minute & everyone i wanted to see was unavailable. The only familiar name working that evening was Marie-Eve. Since i was horny as hell i figured why not see her again. Who knows maybe two times is the charm. When she arrived she immediately asked me why i had waited an entire year ti see her again. I was bluntly honest & told her i felt we had no chemistry & we basically had just went through the motions. She was surprised to hear this since she had a total opposite memory of our first encounter. As for me i was surprised she even remembered me. Anyways to make a long story short we had a wonderful time & ended up seeing one another two dozen times over the years. We became friends & developed absolutely great chemistry over time, Sometimes it takes time.
Yes that's exactly what I'm saying! Sometimes it can take a little longer to build chemistry.
Sometimes there is passion right away, but it's not always the case, and I think it's normal because we are all vulnerable in this situation.Random recent thought what if a SP that you book with, is super hot but there's zero chemistry/compatibility, then what?
Is it gonna impact the session?
Is it gonna impact the session?
When it comes to this hobby, if she's "super hot", her looks are what matter the most to me
If anything, I like the transactional aspect of encounters that have no chemistry, and if the girl is good looking, that is more than enough for me.
BJ might not feel the best or or passionate, but I'm looking at a hot princess.
For the action, she could lay there bored I wouldn't care (to be honest, I think I'd appreciate her being honest, instead of pretending to enjoy it). She let's me do what I need to do to please myself while enjoying the sight and attaining my orgasm.
So I think for me, it just becomes a different type of session, and I find a way to still enjoy it in another way.
Well looks is what gets the door open but it is the personality is what makes you stay. Now if all parties involve are able to make the whole encounter feels like a real date than there is chemistry right there. It is not forced. I mean just because there is money involved upfront does not mean the encounter has be that way. I mean this was how I approach the SP. If you are not happy with all that is going on you are free to leave no need to lose your self respect and dignity just to make a few bucks.
Chemistry is important. But I think that behind this vague concept hides a more chemical concept such as the increase of oxytocin, the love hormone.
It's associated with social bonding, attachment, and intimacy.
Which might explain why chemistry is important.
Personally I tend to overthink and makes having a connection more of a long process. Someone just being hot is not enough but I appreciate that for others it's enough.
Fun fact: motherhood and breastfeeding are powerful trigger to oxytocin
It's associated with social bonding, attachment, and intimacy.
Which might explain why chemistry is important.
Personally I tend to overthink and makes having a connection more of a long process. Someone just being hot is not enough but I appreciate that for others it's enough.
Fun fact: motherhood and breastfeeding are powerful trigger to oxytocin