Many times and it really sucks. Its like being on a bad date, your just going through the motions at dinner and just cant wait for it to be over and you can drop her ass off. It would be great if we could book through Amazon, they are really good with returns...
How important is chemistry for you in a session?
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Both the sex and the chemistry are. When there is no chemistry, there is an awkwardness. Chemistry is why I become a regular
The subject of chemistry with escorts is complicated because it's not like running into someone at a party and developing a mutual attraction. Chemistry is psychological in my opinion, and it can develop over time. I know I will have good chemistry with a client if he chose me not only for my looks & ''spinner'' body but because he knows that we have interests in common and compatible personalities. Chemistry happens when personality types, needs and interests are compatible. You sometimes know right away when you vibe with someone. But if you book a SP with a highly skeptical attitude and already feel unhappy and resentful, chances are chemistry won't develop. I don't think chemistry is something that happens right away, it takes more than a half hour meet to know if you have chemistry with a SP.
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Maybe a more relatable word would be complicity more than chemistry?
I think that makes 100% more sense in this context.. I think for me chemistry seems vague. A certain body language and certain actions and words can be interpreted as chemistry by the client, but that doesn't mean it's real. Do I have real complicity and chemistry with a lot of my clients? Absolutely! But it's not about something chemical necessarily, it's about our personalities meshing well together.. The sexual enjoyment comes after that, or at the same time. I think even when you meet someone you have chemistry with in your civilian life, it can take a while to realize you have chemistry with somebody. It's not necessarily an instant thing like in the movies. And the context of booking a SP and meeting her for the first time in a certain environment changes things.
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Yes that's exactly what I'm saying! Sometimes it can take a little longer to build chemistry.
Sometimes there is passion right away, but it's not always the case, and I think it's normal because we are all vulnerable in this situation.Random recent thought what if a SP that you book with, is super hot but there's zero chemistry/compatibility, then what?
Is it gonna impact the session?
Is it gonna impact the session?
When it comes to this hobby, if she's "super hot", her looks are what matter the most to me
If anything, I like the transactional aspect of encounters that have no chemistry, and if the girl is good looking, that is more than enough for me.
BJ might not feel the best or or passionate, but I'm looking at a hot princess.
For the action, she could lay there bored I wouldn't care (to be honest, I think I'd appreciate her being honest, instead of pretending to enjoy it). She let's me do what I need to do to please myself while enjoying the sight and attaining my orgasm.
So I think for me, it just becomes a different type of session, and I find a way to still enjoy it in another way.
Well looks is what gets the door open but it is the personality is what makes you stay. Now if all parties involve are able to make the whole encounter feels like a real date than there is chemistry right there. It is not forced. I mean just because there is money involved upfront does not mean the encounter has be that way. I mean this was how I approach the SP. If you are not happy with all that is going on you are free to leave no need to lose your self respect and dignity just to make a few bucks.
Chemistry is important. But I think that behind this vague concept hides a more chemical concept such as the increase of oxytocin, the love hormone.
It's associated with social bonding, attachment, and intimacy.
Which might explain why chemistry is important.
Personally I tend to overthink and makes having a connection more of a long process. Someone just being hot is not enough but I appreciate that for others it's enough.
Fun fact: motherhood and breastfeeding are powerful trigger to oxytocin
It's associated with social bonding, attachment, and intimacy.
Which might explain why chemistry is important.
Personally I tend to overthink and makes having a connection more of a long process. Someone just being hot is not enough but I appreciate that for others it's enough.
Fun fact: motherhood and breastfeeding are powerful trigger to oxytocin
VERY IMPORTANT!
If there's no chemistry, I don't like it. That's the reason why I like to repeat and appreciate my regulars.
When I repeat with a girl more than twice, that's because I felt a good chemistry.
If there's no chemistry, I don't like it. That's the reason why I like to repeat and appreciate my regulars.
When I repeat with a girl more than twice, that's because I felt a good chemistry.
I guess it's a question of whether chemistry is the right word but I'll go with that for now. FOr me it is essential though I know it's never guaranteed and I might feel like there's chemistry and the SP might not, I'll never know. But if the woman fascinates me, like has a brain that fascinates me, that is a surefire turn on for me. Also if we can laugh together I love that. I don't know if those things are chemistry but they are really important for me.
I've been lucky have had it reciprocal,a few times and currently now, who doesn't work for a agency currently but when I'm up there she will come to the city to hang with me,but are first time together was just awesome,chemistry, connection,attraction, and intimacy...perfect...
Chemistry is important. No doubt about it. One beautiful thing regarding chemistry is the fact that it does not take long at all to surface. Nature speaks by itself. It s like wine, you hate some sort and you like some sort of wine. Nothing you can do about it, it s in your DNA
Although it is important to observe that PLEASURE does not necessarily involve chemistry. even some wine you hate can give you great pleasure (for example when it s the only one you are able to get). And human is more complex than wine. You can have pleasure and fun without chemistry. So no one should be chasing for chemistry when dating SPs. It is not required.
Although it is important to observe that PLEASURE does not necessarily involve chemistry. even some wine you hate can give you great pleasure (for example when it s the only one you are able to get). And human is more complex than wine. You can have pleasure and fun without chemistry. So no one should be chasing for chemistry when dating SPs. It is not required.
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