Am I changing or is the industry changing?

[Lunaseraphim]

I stated that the arm candy girls need a different section if that’s what they’re mostly wanting to get booked for and to not impose onto men that this may be the new norm.

It makes it harder for guys to sift through to get to the intimacy offers because now it’s become complicated to find girls who want to provide the “down and dirty”

idgaf about what girls do. Just don’t clog ads with your “2H minimum champagne on planes” bullshit in the “working girls” space that offer HH or 1H SUCKY FUCKY guaranteed.

Why does it bother you? These girls probably get less business than we do.. it's not taking anything away from us. I understand your anger because it sucks seeing ppl receiving things we wish we had... But it is what it is.. I'm not going to complain about it. You said dinner dates are not your thing. That's totally fine. If you advertised it surely someone would book you for it because you're hot and intelligent. And I'm saying this despite you insulting me lol

 

[Jacobisrael]

Absolutely! Totally disgusting and I wonder why they’re even in this industry. They have personal vendettas they’re harbouring against men since ages ago. They bully men into sending them gifts or guilt trip them because it’s their birthday month lmao.
Then no one spoils them with their air fryer within 5 minutes and they post a status “men ain’t shit”
“Men are worthless - they cheat on their wives to come see me. Fuck men” …
… like okay big Bertha i think it’s time for your meds and some therapy.
Then they cry when the don’t get any bookings. These woke idiots are ruining this industry. No men wants to fkn approach you, you dumb bitch.

Let me just give you an other example of entitlement I saw on text 1 year ago. Disclaimer : not aiming at any girls on the thread. I met Julia and Valentina in the past an they were great. Luna and the others seem like good people. So when inquiring about rates: a girl said do you have 1400 bucks just like that without even giving details. Needless to say I didn’t see her. Those types of situation would never have happened before. Another case was a girl I saw that was extremely shy and anxious (not blaming her) but a 18 year old ago 10 years ago was way less shy and more friendly. That again is caused by social isolation and spending too much time on TikTok and believing people that claim that are rich when they are not. TikTok is one of the reason for this entitlement that is ridiculous. These younger girls (18-22) live through social media and think real life is like that when it’s not. @CLOUD 500 I think I know who u are talking about for bbbj. She’s a lost cause lol.

 

[Valentina Amante]

Why does it bother you? These girls probably get less business than we do.. it's not taking anything away from us. I understand your anger because it sucks seeing ppl receiving things we wish we had... But it is what it is.. I'm not going to complain about it

Again. My point is - it deters clients. I don’t get what’s so hard to understand. All this over saturation of women doing XYZ. Clients want to bang 95% they will be turned off by sifting through all this.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Again. My point is - it deters clients. I don’t get what’s so hard to understand. All this over saturation of women doing XYZ. Clients want to bang 95% they will be turned off by sifting through all this.

I get your point. But I'd like you to advertise your birthday month and see what happens

There's no one forcing anybody to do anything

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Let me just give you an other example of entitlement I saw on text 1 year ago. Disclaimer : not aiming at any girls on the thread. I met Julia and Valentina in the past an they were great. Luna and the others seem like good people. So when inquiring about rates: a girl said do you have 1400 bucks just like that without even giving details. Needless to say I didn’t see her. Those types of situation would never have happened before. Another case was a girl I saw that was extremely shy and anxious (not blaming her) but a 18 year old ago 10 years ago was way less shy and more friendly. That again is caused by social isolation and spending too much time on TikTok and believing people that claim that are rich when they are not. TikTok is one of the reason for this entitlement that is ridiculous. These younger girls (18-22) live through social media and think real life is like that when it’s not. @CLOUD 500 I think I know who ur are talking about for bbbj. She’s a lost cause lol.

But we are not these people that's the thing..

 

[Valentina Amante]

I get your point. But I'd like you to advertise your birthday month and see what happens

There's no one forcing anybody to do anything

Lmao no I already sell pussy and ass - I wanna be modest.

 

[Enjoying life]

Lmao no I already sell pussy and ass - I wanna be modest.

Love Valentina

 

[Porshasnow]

I don’t get how you can come here and talk like you know what you’re talking about it’s quite funny actually. This is not relevant to inquiries lmao.

How is it not relevant when you mentionned how other providers made it harder for clients to book because they handle bookings differently, like screening, two hours minimum. You think that’s what is making your business harder, that you complain about btw, that you threaten to quit? Really?

No one on here is advertising to be social time only, that’d be suicide.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

This is a very entertaining thread

 

[Valentina Amante]

How is it not relevant when you mentionned how other providers made it harder for clients to book because they handle bookings differently, like screening, two hours minimum. You think that’s what is making your business harder, that you complain about btw, that you threaten to quit? Really?

Uhh.. I’ve said it many times that if ever I retire it’s because of dumb inquires - there’s nothing to hide - that’s my Twitter and I show the realities that go on in a day sometimes. But it’s not only axed on that…

I guess you only stalked the negative things to come on here since your army sent you. Because again, that’s what you girls do once someone has a different opinion. I’ve never seen you interact here on this forum… pretttty obvious that one of the girls sent you this thread to back them up. But I don’t need to do that. I work alone wonderfully and don’t need “gal pals” for reinforcements.

Don’t know what your point is but I can see through the BS.

No one on here is advertising to be social time only, that’d be suicide.

Didn’t say that.

Anyway, drop your Twitter so I can unfollow you / block you - give yourself a lil plug at the same time

 

[Rebaynia]

I’m not talking about you Luna. As I stated - lots of these new movements have entered SW spaces and a lot of SPs are just dramatic overall with their illusions of grandeur when it comes to self entitlement and men… which deters men from hobbying.

So you came here, a thread designed to point out the positives of the state of affairs in escorting, and the fact that we are able to set our boundaries, to go on a rant about people who aren't even on merb. You completely derailed the positive message and attention this thread was intended to have, buy thowing accusations of entitlement And stuff people unafiliated with merb are doing.



I don't personally go on dates, when asked, I have opted for private dates in the 1 location without the need to travel. Being in public is something I tend to avoid. But I didn't understand OP to mean to try to change the state of things. It was an expression of something they liked being able to appreciate about the change in times.

You are taking someone's positive views on how they see it as a joy, to what? Shame them for expressing they like another aspect than the intimacy, in this business.

We know why they call us. We count on them calling us for that reason, but we appreciate other expieriences we have with our lovelies than just the bedding aspect.

I haven't seen you actually answer what

What do you like about this new era?

We know what you don't like. But that wasn't the question.

 

[Valentina Amante]

Notice how it’s the girls who are disagreeing with me on a forum that is designed to have CLIENTS help them book an escort. The clients agree yet it’s girls that keep going and extrapolating into details.
This can be good infos as a customer service optic but no. It’s attack mode again.

 

[Porshasnow]

Uhh.. I’ve said it many times that if ever I retire it’s because of dumb inquires - there’s nothing to hide - that’s my Twitter and I show the realities that go on in a day sometimes. But it’s not only axed on that…

I guess you only stalked the negative things to come on here since your army sent you. Because again, that’s what you girls do once someone has a different opinion. I’ve never seen you interact here on this forum… pretttty obvious that one of the girls sent you this thread to back them up. But I don’t need to do that. I work alone wonderfully and don’t need “gal pals” for reinforcements.

Don’t know what your point is but I can see through the BS.


Didn’t say that.

Anyway, drop your Twitter so I can unfollow you / block you - give yourself a lil plug at the same time

I don’t know anybody here lmao and I do interact, I’m just not on here everyday.
Just wanted to point out you talk shit about men, like the « crazy liberal women ». You’re no different than any other girl here. The men in this thread might think you’re an angel but you do insult men on X aswell.
You can’t come here, say that nobody understands how to cather to their clientele while you’re doing something that most merb users hate and complain about.

* i didnt stalk you, unfortunetaly my x would be filled with screenshots of your interactions with clients. Of course you post other things, but you can’t say ppl are misandrist or liberal girls when you do the same thing they do, which is criticize the men that participate in the industry.

 

[Rebaynia]

I stated that the arm candy girls need a different section if that’s what they’re mostly wanting to get booked for and to not impose onto men that this may be the new norm.

Dude. Then find the wh*ring section, because escorting is what the damn name of their game is. Technically by offering f*ck only sessions we sully what their job title is. Escorting is the arm candy game. Not the sex only game.

It makes it harder for guys to sift through to get to the intimacy offers because now it’s become complicated to find girls who want to provide the “down and dirty”

Nope we are all over, it is harder to find a high end person, because they have their own places they choose to advertise, merb isn't it.

idgaf about what girls do. Just don’t clog ads with your “2H minimum champagne on planes” bullshit in the “working girls” space that offer HH or 1H SUCKY FUCKY guaranteed.

They are working girls, I don't get why you are choosing not to acknowledge that. It bothers you because you have to pay more to try and stay ahead of everyone? I promise you the clients will find you. Even if you aren't on page 1. They aren't taking clients from you, they don't want your clients, and yours don't want them. And will continue to look till they find you offering what they are looking for.

 

[Valentina Amante]

I don’t know anybody here lmao and I do interact, I’m just not on here everyday.
Just wanted to point out you talk shit about men, like the « crazy liberal women ». You’re no different than any other girl here. The men in this thread might think you’re an angel but you do insult men on X aswell.
You can’t come here, say that nobody understands how to cather to their clientele while you’re doing something that most merb users hate and complain about.

Eash hahah. If only you knew that my tagline was once “most hated SP” I really don’t talk shit about men- if anything I have their backs. I’m always defending men lmao.

I say how people can be so dumb to inquire (usually that happens to be ✨men✨ who inquire lmaoooo) so don’t get it twisted portcha. There’s a major difference. I give you a 3/10 for your attempt to sabotage my reputation. People can see for themselves on my Twitter and validate all this.

For someone who doesn’t know anyone on here you sure know a helluva lot about me all of a sudden.

 

[Valentina Amante]

They are working girls, I don't get why you are choosing not to acknowledge that.

I’ve repeated it time and time again. Yes. I didn’t say they aren’t. I suggested they should advertise in a different section. That is all.

 

[Salbandini]

Let me just give you an other example of entitlement I saw on text 1 year ago. Disclaimer : not aiming at any girls on the thread. I met Julia and Valentina in the past an they were great. Luna and the others seem like good people. So when inquiring about rates: a girl said do you have 1400 bucks just like that without even giving details. Needless to say I didn’t see her. Those types of situation would never have happened before. Another case was a girl I saw that was extremely shy and anxious (not blaming her) but a 18 year old ago 10 years ago was way less shy and more friendly. That again is caused by social isolation and spending too much time on TikTok and believing people that claim that are rich when they are not. TikTok is one of the reason for this entitlement that is ridiculous. These younger girls (18-22) live through social media and think real life is like that when it’s not. @CLOUD 500 I think I know who ur are talking about for bbbj. She’s a lost cause lol.

Id say up to 30 years old not just 18-22 lol

 

[Jacobisrael]

Id say up to 30 years old not just 18-22 lol

ymmv I guess

 

[Salbandini]

ymmv I guess

Ymmv regarding the tik tok?

 

[Porshasnow]

Eash hahah. If only you knew that my tagline was once “most hated SP” I really don’t talk shit about men- if anything I have their backs. I’m always defending men lmao.

I say how people can be so dumb to inquire (usually that happens to be ✨men✨ who inquire lmaoooo) so don’t get it twisted portcha. There’s a major difference. I give you an 3/10 for your attempt to sabotage my reputation. People can see for themselves on my Twitter and validate all this.

For someone who doesn’t know anyone on here you sure know a helluva lot about me all of a sudden.

There’s no conspiracy, I don’t know anyone personally. Not you too, just what I see you tweet, it was legit all of my feed for a while. If you think that’s a major difference ok good for you. You’re still criticizing partakers of the industry, that’s my point.