Clients and providers what are your dream social date ideas?

[LC18]

I won't be free until September but my bucket list social date for 2025 is to take one or more indies out to mini golf, or "mini-putt" as some people call it. What social dates are some of the rest of you hoping to have? Not for 2025 but in the future I want to go on an art museum date at Montreal Museum of Fine Arts. A short paid outdoor excursion after private time can be fun but I haven't done that since 2023 (longer unrushed stuff is more fun).

Oh that kind of social date. I thought you meant strictly social, I would have said that I don’t really like those

I need a balance of both private and public time for it to be a perfect date. I see it as dating with a bonus


To answer your question, I think I would love to help a client shop for new clothes. I would love to know that he’s walking around wearing something I’ve picked and probably remembering all the fun we’ve had while he was wearing it

 

[LeDodo]

Oh that kind of social date. I thought you meant strictly social, I would have said that I don’t really like those

I need a balance of both private and public time for it to be a perfect date. I see it as dating with a bonus


To answer your question, I think I would love to help a client shop for new clothes. I would love to know that he’s walking around wearing something I’ve picked and probably remembering all the fun we’ve had while he was wearing it

Remind me of a young lady in my youth I helped chose clothes for a makeover. That feeling to imagine her wearing it is exciting. You made me feel nostalgic ~

 

[Valentina Amante]

I don’t like social dates

 

[Zero_Six]

A day at La Ronde. I'm an Ontario native and used to go to Canada's Wonderland at least once per summer. I have yet to visit La Ronde.

 

[LC18]

I also like to walk around the city and show my favourite places to men. I like to cook with them, I like to attend weddings and come up with a good fake love story

 

[Giselle Montreal]

A day at La Ronde. I'm an Ontario native and used to go to Canada's Wonderland at least once per summer. I have yet to visit La Ronde.

I loved both, they are quite similar! But La Ronde is close to downtown which is fun.

 

[Zero_Six]

...I like to attend weddings and come up with a good fake love story

I've been curious about this. How often do you find yourself in a situation where you need to "play a role" for the client's friends/family?

 

[LC18]

I've been curious about this. How often do you find yourself in a situation where you need to "play a role" for the client's friends/family?

It happens on dinner dates, galas, weddings or similar events. I would say more often than I thought it would

“We met through a mutual friend” that friend would be my ad

My favourite was “we’ve known each other for a while but just reconnected” to explain why we didn’t know much about each other

 

[philonius]

Dinner or going out to the movies before being intimate is great bc although it's still part of a larger fantasy, I feel you can relax a bit more and be real and get to know each other. Also, a bonus is that if you're moving the conversation/flirting (or hands) in the right direction, by the time you get to the bedroom you should both be excited to get to business. Once had a duo that started with dinner, then walked over to the sex shop and bought some toys, then popped into the strip club for a couple dances. Got pounced on before the hotel door clicked shut and the energy just went through the roof from there.

 

[LC18]

Dinner or going out to the movies before being intimate is great bc although it's still part of a larger fantasy,

It kind of makes it hotter. I like to see people outside of my bedroom, seeing who they are in a normal setting, joking around and getting to know them. Then they’ll say that thing that will make me want to say “How about we just go back to your place right this second?”

 

[philonius]

It kind of makes it hotter. I like to see people outside of my bedroom, seeing who they are in a normal setting, joking around and getting to know them. Then they’ll say that thing that will make me want to say “How about we just go back to your place right this second?”

Agreed. There's nothing like that moment when something clicks into place and you just look at each other with a wicked smile until you catch the waiter's glance out of the corner of your eye and he sees you raise your eyebrows and knowingly comes rushing out with the cheque. Fuck, now I've got to put on my detective hat again and find that thing that makes @LC18 want to skip to the sheets.

 

[Tor1393]

I've done pretty much everything socially with clients... but one thing I haven't and would definitely love, is spending the afternoon or the day on a nice boat (on the water, not just at the marina) lounging, tanning, swimming, (fishing?), having fun!

Damn, my boat is in Aruba. of course its a short flight if youu want. LOL

 

[LeDodo]

Agreed. There's nothing like that moment when something clicks into place and you just look at each other with a wicked smile until you catch the waiter's glance out of the corner of your eye and he sees you raise your eyebrows and knowingly comes rushing out with the cheque. Fuck, now I've got to put on my detective hat again and find that thing that makes @LC18 want to skip to the sheets.

Here a hint me detective: That thing

Thanks me later with an hour GFE!

 

[jeffmathers]

Oh that kind of social date. I thought you meant strictly social, I would have said that I don’t really like those

I need a balance of both private and public time for it to be a perfect date. I see it as dating with a bonus


To answer your question, I think I would love to help a client shop for new clothes. I would love to know that he’s walking around wearing something I’ve picked and probably remembering all the fun we’ve had while he was wearing it

Yeah private and public time mixed is great. In 2024 I tried to have social time with like 4 providers and all of them were busy every time except for one social movie date I had. It was private social time (no intimacy that time). I wanted to go to La Ronde, ziplining, and the garden of lights. I did all of those except La Ronde but not with a provider. I still want to zipline in Quebec City with someone also.

 

[jeffmathers]

Agreed. There's nothing like that moment when something clicks into place and you just look at each other with a wicked smile until you catch the waiter's glance out of the corner of your eye and he sees you raise your eyebrows and knowingly comes rushing out with the cheque. Fuck, now I've got to put on my detective hat again and find that thing that makes @LC18 want to skip to the sheets.

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/dealbreaker-or-not.244950/#post-1748423

 

[philonius]

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/dealbreaker-or-not.244950/#post-1748423

That's once you're between the sheets, and she should already know I'm about that life for sure. @LC18 got that "thanks, but we don't need to look at the dessert menu, just the cheque please" pussy.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

Does a swingers' club count as a social date? I don't charge social rates for that sort of thing but damn it's fun.

I can't imagine turning down a social date (unless it's daytime and outside, there's not enough sunscreen in the world for my pasty white flesh) but I don't think I'll be marketing for that sort of thing either. That being said, glow-in-the-dark mini-putt sounds like an experience I need to have

 

[urquell]

Does a swingers' club count as a social date? I don't charge social rates for that sort of thing but damn it's fun.

I can't imagine turning down a social date (unless it's daytime and outside, there's not enough sunscreen in the world for my pasty white flesh) but I don't think I'll be marketing for that sort of thing either. That being said, glow-in-the-dark mini-putt sounds like an experience I need to have

Go to the one in Cote Vertu. It has a big slide for you to go down.

 

[Halloween Mike]

In my situation i simply can't afford to book social time. I only can book so rarely for the actual ..well why we book lol. But i been lucky to have some social time with SPs off the clock and of course i always really apreciated it.

Lets say for the sake of the thread that i would do it, book social time, well then it also depend on what i have acces to, how much time i book... stuff like that. One scenario wich i would really like is a romantic get away to a cabin. Either in winter near a mountain (so snowboard/ski is possible), then in the evening we could cuddle in front of a fire or such... and ...well ok there would be more than cuddle, so i guess its not 100% a social time date... lol. The summer version is also as much interesting but you replace the mountain with a lake or such, so swimming or other fun water activities.

Another one would be to go to a bar and have the full VIP threatmen and have 2 beautiful SPs (one at each arm) for the evening. But again im cheating because it wouldn't be 100% social. I would like for them to kiss me ocasionally, let me touch them, basically act like they were my "girlfriends" and yes i 100% assume it would include a mental game of me making other customers jealous/envious of me. Because basically i experience it in reverse lol.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I don’t like social dates

Woaaa thats surprising. I tought it was most SPs favorite thing. You basically paid to have fun without having to have actual sex or anything. I mean i would love to be paid to get taken on a vacation or any fun activities lol.