I'm a very shy person, likely on the autism scale to some degree. I've had one situation where no sex happened. It was still a great night and I have no regrets about it, but it did leave me somewhat confused and was perhaps a slight hit to my ego. It was a complicated situation though. IDK if we became too friendly and sex felt weird (we'd seen each other a few times and got along great as friends IMO), or if that was a cover story for something else. The problem with being autistic (assuming i am) is that you never really know what to believe and the thoughts just run around in your brain like hamsters on a hamster wheel. One second I'm thinking one thing, the next I'm considering a different angle. IDK, maybe this scene just isn't for me. Or maybe I need some ADHD meds or something that will help me get outside of my own head.