Perils of this hobby

[Tor1393]

No...

You know first hand she's a SW and that her time should be compensated. Not having to compensate her for her time on a trip is a privilege; you will know if you are the lucky one. You can't assume you won't have to pay her.

She can ask to be compensated sure, and I can politely decline. In the end, that is what happened.
However, when the above mentioned SW talks alot about how she would love to come along on a ski trip and I make it clear that I wont ski with her during the day except for an hour so she doesnt feel abandoned, etc. She keeps asking if she can come along, I guess I assumed she would not expect to be compensated for 8 hours a day. But I agree she has to "right" to ask and I have the right to say no thank you.


All I said is it might be construed as "dangling". Just like in the reverse.

ultimately, you and I both agree.

 

[Tor1393]

Lesson learnt: ask about her compensation while out of town/not working.

LeDodo
yes indeed. Having said that, I was already in Europe skiing. She wanted to join the second week of my 4 week vacation. In truth nothing lost since I did not plan on actually skiing with her to any degree. And we all know about the FKK scene in Europe so........

 

[Halloween Mike]

No...

You know first hand she's a SW and that her time should be compensated. Not having to compensate her for her time on a trip is a privilege; you will know if you are the lucky one. You can't assume you won't have to pay her.

In his case there it seem she was the one asking about it and wanting to come along. He didn't inquired for a travel booking. SPs and clients are human as much as anyone and its not because SPs have sex for money that they can't decide to do activities with peoples who happen to be clients... In this specific case the guy was willing to pay her travel, her hotel, probably her food too, thats already a lot of money... He basically was giving her a free vacation but she wanted 21k on top of that... while SHE asked if she could join him. I think its kinda bold.

If im seeing an SP for a 1 hour incall booking and for X reason i mention im gonna go for diner at restaurant X, and she says "oh its been so long that i got there, can i join you", i would say "sure of course" but would not expect this to transform into another paid hour or 2... Im not booking her escort services in this case, im simply telling a human that yeah she can join me if she want.

 

[cpp433]

. I think its kinda bold.

Kinda bold? Brah thats the understatement of the year!

 

[LC18]

And that’s why I would never invite myself anywhere, because that means free time and I don’t want to give that

I’d rather wait to be invited