I like DKF a lot but not necessarily a deal breaker if not offered. More chance that I repeat if offered and I usually connect better with girls that are good kisser.
I dont perform Daty often, mostly on girls I repeat with and i'm not very good at it. So no deal breaker.
For BBBJ, it depend on how attractive the girl is. If she is a top-model, I dont mind no BJ and go only for sex. Specially in Summer/Autumn when my cardio and libido are better than the rest of the year. If I find the girl less attractive, I except her to perform better in BJ and if possible FF,DT,BLS,CIM,COF ect. And no interest in BBBJ if the girl isnt my type at all.