What's something you wish more SPs provided?

[philonius]

Here's an honest, if not fully fleshed out, idea: I love the idea of FMTY/vacation with an sp but the two things I can't get around are the cost (no shade on pricing, it's a ton of time/logistics/money-earning potential lost by an sp so I fully get it) and the fear that maybe a week/weekend is too long to spend together (unless you've frequented this person at length in the past). Recently I've seen a couple providers taking their own holidays but posting the dates and places and being available to work while vacationing and that seems way more doable, even with some extra cost built into the hourly rates. Like, they plan to go to Germany for example, these cities on these dates, post it well in advance and maybe you line up your vacation to intersect and can steal them away for a couple awesome nights or something.
I realize as I'm typing this that it's simpler on paper but I have geniunely been tempted to go somewhere I've always wanted to visit sooner than I'd planned specifically because an sp was going to be there.
IDK, does any of this make sense?

 

[jeffmathers]

Here's an honest, if not fully fleshed out, idea: I love the idea of FMTY/vacation with an sp but the two things I can't get around are the cost (no shade on pricing, it's a ton of time/logistics/money-earning potential lost by an sp so I fully get it) and the fear that maybe a week/weekend is too long to spend together (unless you've frequented this person at length in the past). Recently I've seen a couple providers taking their own holidays but posting the dates and places and being available to work while vacationing and that seems way more doable, even with some extra cost built into the hourly rates. Like, they plan to go to Germany for example, these cities on these dates, post it well in advance and maybe you line up your vacation to intersect and can steal them away for a couple awesome nights or something.
I realize as I'm typing this that it's simpler on paper but I have geniunely been tempted to go somewhere I've always wanted to visit sooner than I'd planned specifically because an sp was going to be there.
IDK, does any of this make sense?

Other than time, logistics, money earning potential at risk, there is also stress for the provider. If you use google flights you can see the cheapest trips in the next several months to various cities, go there, see SPs, do tourist stuff, and then head home for greater ease than having someone spend a significant length of time working. Plenty of providers don't really do FMTY or longer than 4 hours because it's exhausting for them or the stress is too much.

These prices are in USD but these are the cheapest flights from Montreal to Vancouver and Victoria for the next 6 months. 236 USD is 323.68 Canadian Dollars so it's possible to do a quick trip and get back to Montreal for less than 900 CAD if you see a provider on the lower end of the range and stay in one of the cheapest lodgings. I feel busses and trains are usually the cheapest between Montreal and Toronto.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Me, if I am on vacation in a foreign country, I prefer to sample the locals. I go all exotic, otherwise, I dont see the point.

 

[philonius]

Other than time, logistics, money earning potential at risk, there is also stress for the provider. If you use google flights you can see the cheapest trips in the next several months to various cities, go there, see SPs, do tourist stuff, and then head home for greater ease than having someone spend a significant length of time working. Plenty of providers don't really do FMTY or longer than 4 hours because it's exhausting for them or the stress is too much.

These prices are in USD but these are the cheapest flights from Montreal to Vancouver and Victoria for the next 6 months. 236 USD is 323.68 Canadian Dollars so it's possible to do a quick trip and get back to Montreal for less than 900 CAD if you see a provider on the lower end of the range and stay in one of the cheapest lodgings. I feel busses and trains are usually the cheapest between Montreal and Toronto.

Maybe I didn't explain it well. Provider goes on their own trip (because they want to, and are going to regardless), announces they will be available/working at least part of that trip, dates/times and takes prebookings during their time away. I like this provider (and likely have seen this provider already), and ALSO want to go to the place they're going and would rather see them (together in this cool ass place I want to visit) than a rando in a foreign city/country, even if I pay a little more than if I just wait until they're back home.

Like I'd love to take someone to Japan, but can't justify turning a potentially $5000 vacay into a $30000+(?) one, even if it's with the girl of my dreams. But, if she decides to go to Japan of her own volition, and decides to open up a couple days then I'm booking flights and like...

I know this already happens, I've been seeing it more and more, I'm just spitballing here on how to make it more accessible. FMTY time-share type deal or something. Not comparing any provider to a condominium but there's a few I'd love to put a condom-in-them overseas (jesus, that's bad, but I couldn't help myself)

 

[jeffmathers]

Maybe I didn't explain it well. Provider goes on their own trip (because they want to, and are going to regardless), announces they will be available/working at least part of that trip, dates/times and takes prebookings during their time away. I like this provider (and likely have seen this provider already), and ALSO want to go to the place they're going and would rather see them (together in this cool ass place I want to visit) than a rando in a foreign city/country, even if I pay a little more than if I just wait until they're back home.

Like I'd love to take someone to Japan, but can't justify turning a potentially $5000 vacay into a $30000+(?) one, even if it's with the girl of my dreams. But, if she decides to go to Japan of her own volition, and decides to open up a couple days then I'm booking flights and like...
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I know this already happens, I've been seeing it more and more, I'm just spitballing here on how to make it more accessible. FMTY time-share type deal or something. Not comparing any provider to a condominium but there's a few I'd love to put a condom-in-them overseas (jesus, that's bad, but I couldn't help myself)

Oh I misunderstood.

 

[Jordd]

Yes and that's why we dont provide YOUR choice of premium luxury 80$ a box condom. The point was that if you want expensive specific condoms instead of the ones provided then you can pay for it. No one is claiming that the client should always pay for the condom. Reading is fundamental.

Escorts typically carry multiple sizes and latex free condoms, but you can't expect every escort to include high end expensive condoms in her selection.

Agree with you. Not sure what I misread…

 

[Jordd]

I have hired male SPs before, butt not for anal. Not something I care for and I've never really understood the appeal.

Not my thing. To each his own.

 

[Jordd]

My incall often has skyns brand but they're not always available.. I did notice that men prefer those, so I get them for myself when I go on outcall dates. However yes they are expensive and boxes are small. Most of us get condoms in bulk from organizations for SW'rs and sadly we don't receive the fancy brands..

SKYNs get my vote!

 

[Jordd]

Maybe I didn't explain it well. Provider goes on their own trip (because they want to, and are going to regardless), announces they will be available/working at least part of that trip, dates/times and takes prebookings during their time away. I like this provider (and likely have seen this provider already), and ALSO want to go to the place they're going and would rather see them (together in this cool ass place I want to visit) than a rando in a foreign city/country, even if I pay a little more than if I just wait until they're back home.

Like I'd love to take someone to Japan, but can't justify turning a potentially $5000 vacay into a $30000+(?) one, even if it's with the girl of my dreams. But, if she decides to go to Japan of her own volition, and decides to open up a couple days then I'm booking flights and like...
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I know this already happens, I've been seeing it more and more, I'm just spitballing here on how to make it more accessible. FMTY time-share type deal or something. Not comparing any provider to a condominium but there's a few I'd love to put a condom-in-them overseas (jesus, that's bad, but I couldn't help myself)

It all sounds way more complicated than it should be. First of all what makes you think SP wants to see you on HER private trip?
If you are already a good client, you could ask her what she thought about it.
As you pointed out, taking SP to Japan would not make sense. Why don’t you just see girls from there?
If you are really keen to go on a trip with your favorite SP, I would start by going somewhere close for 1 or 2 nights.

 

[Georgy07]

Even the most basic of sex acts still requires consent. And anal isn't as basic as you're making it out to be but let's pretend it is for a second :

What about chefs/restaurants that dont serve breakfast? Eggs and bacon are pretty basic after all?

Artists that don't sell acrylic paintings? So much easier than many other mediums!

See how bizarre it sounds to expect service people to offer the exact same services?

Never said you had to do it, i just wish it was offered more often. And honestly, anything can be learned. I understand that some people dont like it and just dont do it and its OK but i just think it could be something more SPs could offer. It would make the scene a bit more kinky and open minded. I never talked about doing anything non-consensual, ever. Wtf....

To use your example, its as if someone started a thread asking what you wish restaurants offered more and then i said : "Bacon and eggs" and then you're like : "Well not everyone is confortable offering bacon and eggs!!! Are you trying to force them into making bacon and eggs?!"

I mean, why did we have to go down this path....

 

[jeffmathers]

Never said you had to do it, i just wish it was offered more often. And honestly, anything can be learned. I understand that some people dont like it and just dont do it and its OK but i just think it could be something more SPs could offer. It would make the scene a bit more kinky and open minded. I never talked about doing anything non-consensual, ever. Wtf....

To use your example, its as if someone started a thread asking what you wish restaurants offered more and then i said : "Bacon and eggs" and then you're like : "Well not everyone is confortable offering bacon and eggs!!! Are you trying to force them into making bacon and eggs?!"

I mean, why did we have to go down this path....

"And honestly, anything can be learned. " It's not like learning to throw a javelin. There are physical limitations like IBS and other issues some providers have. Even if someone does get used to anal there are a wide variety of potential health complications like anal fissures and issues with the rectal muscles that can result. Even some gay male couples don't do anal or do it very sparingly due to the many complications.

In cinema anal looks easy or like it's just a matter of comfort or needing to loosen up with toys but in practice anal is not really possible for many providers and most providers aren't willing to divulge their full health/medical info to illustrate how anal is not really a matter of learning.

It's ok to have not known this. Everyone has things they can learn.

 

[philonius]

It all sounds way more complicated than it should be. First of all what makes you think SP wants to see you on HER private trip?
If you are already a good client, you could ask her what she thought about it.
As you pointed out, taking SP to Japan would not make sense. Why don’t you just see girls from there?
If you are really keen to go on a trip with your favorite SP, I would start by going somewhere close for 1 or 2 nights.

I know some sps that go on trips for pleasure and still work (and announce it). Would they rather see a rando in a foreign country (whose laws/treatment of sws/enforcement may differ from ours) rather than a regular they've seen before in their home country? Maybe, but it seems likelier that they would rather deal with a known commodity. As for why I would rather see someone I know rather than a rando in a foreign country, that's a preference I guess. I'm not looking to fuck everyone around the world. If I have a great time with an sp here, and there's a mutual connection, each subsequent visit gets hotter and hotter. Add a cool new place to explore together and I think that's the ultimate GF experience, no?

The sp is already visiting someplace they want to go, they get to offset some of their trip expenses by working a bit, AND with someone they *hopefully* already enjoy spending time with. IDK, seems like a win all around.

 

[LC18]

If a provider goes to another country and advertises it, isn’t it just touring?

Not going to lie it doesn’t sound convenient but the places I want to visit aren’t so popular I’m afraid

 

[philonius]

If a provider goes to another country and advertises it, isn’t it just touring?

Not going to lie it doesn’t sound convenient but the places I want to visit aren’t so popular I’m afraid

Yeah, like I said, it's already a thing. Do more of that, please. All over the world so I can fly-myself-to-YOU.

 

[Lans]

Is this serious? Come over, I’ll be waiting for you with a fresh cucumber

I Prefer eggplant

 

[LeDodo]

If a provider goes to another country and advertises it, isn’t it just touring?

Not going to lie it doesn’t sound convenient but the places I want to visit aren’t so popular I’m afraid

What places do you want to visit? You might have surprises!

 

[LC18]

What places do you want to visit? You might have surprises!

I’m unfortunately too private to share that publicly

 

[luxurystacy]

Never said you had to do it, i just wish it was offered more often. And honestly, anything can be learned. I understand that some people dont like it and just dont do it and its OK but i just think it could be something more SPs could offer. It would make the scene a bit more kinky and open minded. I never talked about doing anything non-consensual, ever. Wtf....

To use your example, its as if someone started a thread asking what you wish restaurants offered more and then i said : "Bacon and eggs" and then you're like : "Well not everyone is confortable offering bacon and eggs!!! Are you trying to force them into making bacon and eggs?!"

I mean, why did we have to go down this path....

You should go and read your previous comments. Here Im gonna help you; you said : <Anal for sure, i really don't understand why an SP wouldnt offer it... i mean it's your job ! Why don't you do it fully ?> and <And as a sex worker i guess you could try to offer variety and get used to those things. You dont have to do it all the time but at least having it on the menu....>
So you are contradicting yourself now. Again, its OUR BODY your talking about. My job is not do to anal and I dont need to learn to love it either. And like : @jeffmathers said, there are physical limitations too. Im glad he mention IBS because I have it. Tell me how I can learn to not poop on your dick with IBS. Im waiting

 

[LC18]

Im glad he mention IBS because I have it. Tell me how I can learn to not poop on your dick with IBS. Im waiting

Who cares about IBS? He wants anal and we should all offer it no question asked

I’m totally joking

 

[luxurystacy]

Who cares about IBS? He wants anal and we should all offer it no question asked

I’m totally joking

I should do it one time with a client who insist just to traumatize him and surely he will never ask that again lol