When I first saw this thread I thought to myself "oh no.." lol I'm nervous to comment because apparently commenting in the lounge about our opinions is being a whiny time waster and going on useless tangeants, or just mentioning social time, in the lounge, is trying to force clients to book us for it lol. It's puzzling to me because the advertising section is elsewhere in this forum, and we are just chit chatting here. Same thing with ad websites like tryst and leolist lol they are not forums where people discuss their opinions and feelings.. I guess I don't understand the logic here.
I'm not very complicated for social dates, obviously I'd love to be taken on a day trip up north.. I'd love to go swimming. An opportunity to be in nature would be wonderful. The spa sounds fantastic too.. and yes I love dinner dates lol
But I also like simple things like going out for breakfast or lunch, doing a picnic or just hanging out at the park, even going out for drinks or coffee at a cute place. I'd like to go to the cat cafe. High tea would also be lovely.. going to see a show we're both interested in it or to a museum. Doing something creative together would also be amazing. I love Rosie's idea of playing video games. A movie date would be lovely.. I've actually been taken on social dates to the movies and watched movies with clients at my incall or their hotel room.. it was really nice.
That being said I don't want to pressure anyone to book me for it and I doubt there's a conspiracy to brainwash naive clients into booking for social time. Anyways not one that I'm aware of lol and I'm not known to be someone who pressures people into doing certain things.
I'd like to note that clients who book social time are not losers who can't find people to hang out with for free, they just find it convenient to have someone around no strings attached in both social and intimate contexts. This is common with people who are traveling or on a business trip or people who don't want to bother using a dating app.
I think some mean "a man is a loser to pay to hang out with a prostitute" because we are to them human beings of lower value lol that's their opinion and I'm not going to try to change it. I'm also well aware that most clients just want a 30 min to 2 hour incall session and I'm not trying to change that.
I also know many SP will hang out with their favorite client after or between sessions for free and that's their prerogative, there's nothing wrong with it. I have the privilege to like most of my clients so if I went for drinks, coffee, lunch, the park for free every time I get along with a gentleman I wouldn't have time for myself anymore..
I hope this clarifies certain things. I'll chat between bookings sometimes but to me if I went out with clients outside of bookings there's a boundary that would be crossed and things might get confusing for both of us... I hope that makes sense.
I'm not very complicated for social dates, obviously I'd love to be taken on a day trip up north.. I'd love to go swimming. An opportunity to be in nature would be wonderful. The spa sounds fantastic too.. and yes I love dinner dates lol
But I also like simple things like going out for breakfast or lunch, doing a picnic or just hanging out at the park, even going out for drinks or coffee at a cute place. I'd like to go to the cat cafe. High tea would also be lovely.. going to see a show we're both interested in it or to a museum. Doing something creative together would also be amazing. I love Rosie's idea of playing video games. A movie date would be lovely.. I've actually been taken on social dates to the movies and watched movies with clients at my incall or their hotel room.. it was really nice.
That being said I don't want to pressure anyone to book me for it and I doubt there's a conspiracy to brainwash naive clients into booking for social time. Anyways not one that I'm aware of lol and I'm not known to be someone who pressures people into doing certain things.
I'd like to note that clients who book social time are not losers who can't find people to hang out with for free, they just find it convenient to have someone around no strings attached in both social and intimate contexts. This is common with people who are traveling or on a business trip or people who don't want to bother using a dating app.
I think some mean "a man is a loser to pay to hang out with a prostitute" because we are to them human beings of lower value lol that's their opinion and I'm not going to try to change it. I'm also well aware that most clients just want a 30 min to 2 hour incall session and I'm not trying to change that.
I also know many SP will hang out with their favorite client after or between sessions for free and that's their prerogative, there's nothing wrong with it. I have the privilege to like most of my clients so if I went for drinks, coffee, lunch, the park for free every time I get along with a gentleman I wouldn't have time for myself anymore..
I hope this clarifies certain things. I'll chat between bookings sometimes but to me if I went out with clients outside of bookings there's a boundary that would be crossed and things might get confusing for both of us... I hope that makes sense.
