To each their own I guess. According to those kinds of people we are the losers
The Tea App: Toxic Femininity Goes Tech
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100% but some people are ready for everything just to be married or in a relationship even to humiliate themselves I learned with time I won’t tell you what to do and leave you alone. And you do the same with me lol. There are also some conservative cultures when it’s looked down upon when they divorce. Could be the case with your friend?
Smart parents respect to them. Yes many don’t want to die alone. In his case it’s worse than dying alone she’s eating him alive! Lol. That’s a common excuse many people love to say I don’t want to die alone it’s crazy
Many marriages and relationships are unfortunately transactional. No love no friendship it’s what can you do for me. Yep can’t negotiate desire.
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This app is the natural progression of gossip, which has it's origins in women/marginalized groups finding subtle ways to protect each other from dangerous men, and that's why some guys hate it. A lot of shitty dudes are real happy today that the "let's talk about shitty dudes" app just got exposed. No one likes to be talked about behind their back but it exists for a reason (and it's not going away, it'll just evolve to a new platform).
I wouldn't call it modern feminism. Misandry is not feminism. The other providers here are about feminism, not misandry. Yes we can still call a bad person out for being a bad person without it being called misandry, or misogyny. People who do bad things, deserved to be called out for their bad behaviors.
The other providers here are not extremists or misandrious. They are just viewing their point of equality without putting men down. Since when did a woman choosing not to be in a relationship become concidered misandry? She/they have every right to choose not to need a partner aswell. Not to mention we are in a field where the worst of the worst have access to us, meaning often it is likely truths being said, and not misandry comments. None of them group any group together as a collective, be it race sex or ability.
LOL! Some SP’s behaviour says otherwise.
I’m speaking from recent personal experience with that kind of extremism. I’ve also had clients tell me about their own run-ins with certain SPs - where things quickly spiralled into full-on misandrist rants against them…? Obviously the clients never saw these misandrist / extremist SPs ever again hahaha.
So yeah they’re very present here.
I spoke about this before but there is a subreddit for escorts were clients can't post. Im not sure how i became a member. Either i joined by mistake thinking it was a review subreddit or (its my guess) it was hijacked after reports. In any case im there but apparently you can't post unless you are an escort. So i don't and just observe.
You would be surprised what i read there... The client's hating/bashing at worst but not just that... Lots of posts on simply seeing them as walking wallets/whales. I know its a business and they speak among themselves... But its really saddenining for a client like me to read some of this stuff.
Lets just say some of these women's view of us are not great ...
* Note that its an US subreddit, not Canadian
I know its not every SP view of course but my point is beyong "closed doors" (or in this case a barely hidden window) it can be shocking what can be said.
Even tough at its CORE this app may had been full of good intentions, im sure it had its fair share of toxicity and controversies.
Of course i want women to be safe, but this seem to me like a pandora's box fully openned.
Sydney Sweeney is a national treasure. Heck a planetary treasure ! Absolutely love her.
Omg this and "tagthesponsor" ...
Its where i learn about "yathing" and "dubai porta potties" ... :-/
I have access to the group myself, and have seen what you are talking about. I think anyone can see the posts, only those part of the group can reply. It is why I choose to converse and communicate here. But our providers here aren't the ones you are seeing this talk from. Yes there are very likely providers who fall under misandry, like mentioned before, some of us come from difficult backgrounds, and some don't have screening processes to avoid the worst ones, meaning someone's viewpoints could be scewed by who they meet.
I would think it inexcusable to talk about people who are helping me to survive that way. Unfortunately not everyone thinks the same way. Personally I try and talk in a way where at any moment I could show the person I am talking about, what I have said about them, and have.
Keep in mind though, you are refering to SPs all over the world in 1 location, yes they may be talking like that, but it could just as easily be someone in US, Australia, UK, Canada... ect, anywhere, not necessarily the ones you are actually seeing here in Montreal.
Just saw this part.
Everyone has a tendency to say shocking things behind closed doors. It isn't new for either side to gossip and make up stories, or tell stories about their bad behavior of the past and pronounce it proudly like it was a flex to be able to be disrespectful like that, In the good old days.
Well from the sounds of it, the app wasn't just women in the end, sounds to me like there were quite a few people who found a way around the screening. Looking to see what was being said.
@Rebaynia
Just wanted to say thank you for bringing thoughtful discussion and healthy debate and not only on this current topic but many others across this board. I’ve seen you add to a lot of debates elsewhere and you always kept your cool with everyone.
Conversations like these are important - it helps shed light on things that matter to everyone whether we agree or disagree on XYZ. The goal of healthy exchange isn’t to be right. It’s to be heard.
So thanks. It’s appreciated.
Just wanted to say thank you for bringing thoughtful discussion and healthy debate and not only on this current topic but many others across this board. I’ve seen you add to a lot of debates elsewhere and you always kept your cool with everyone.
Conversations like these are important - it helps shed light on things that matter to everyone whether we agree or disagree on XYZ. The goal of healthy exchange isn’t to be right. It’s to be heard.
So thanks. It’s appreciated.
Too bad debate team was a verbal & public affairs. I would have done well if it was strictly a written situation.
Debate is ment to be I hear what your views are, here is how I can best express my views. We don't have to agree, but it helps to try and understand what someone else's point of view is.
It is how I have learned to understand others as a whole. I like getting to know different people all the time, because I find others facinating. Everyone believes in different things. Solutions, resolutions, understanding, comes from building bridges, not trowing hate. Being able to share ideas without attacking eachother.
Is she « l’autre fille de l’UQAM » ?
Yes its mostly American Providers. The culture is different over the there in general on many front. Well technically the US is such a big country and there is so many providers that you can find all type of peoples in the business. I think this group is mostly very high end providers who are use to not just high fees but also getting taken on travel, receiving expensive gifts, big dinner dates in fancy restaurants etc, so this lead to more "entitlement".
The thing is, as you say, its not completely behind closed doors. They must know some clients read this. Altough im willing to listen to advices and such on how to make things easier for providers, i noticed a lot of what i see in this group is harsh "bashing". I even saw some providers who were nicer get harsh replies because of that. Anyway. Of course i know these peoples are not representative of every providers.
The sps are super here like luna and valentinaYes its mostly American Providers. The culture is different over the there in general on many front. Well technically the US is such a big country and there is so many providers that you can find all type of peoples in the business. I think this group is mostly very high end providers who are use to not just high fees but also getting taken on travel, receiving expensive gifts, big dinner dates in fancy restaurants etc, so this lead to more "entitlement".
The thing is, as you say, its not completely behind closed doors. They must know some clients read this. Altough im willing to listen to advices and such on how to make things easier for providers, i noticed a lot of what i see in this group is harsh "bashing". I even saw some providers who were nicer get harsh replies because of that. Anyway. Of course i know these peoples are not representative of every providers.
Her and the big red feminist toxic to the max, i would be scared having both infront of me.
