I spoke about this before but there is a subreddit for escorts were clients can't post. Im not sure how i became a member. Either i joined by mistake thinking it was a review subreddit or (its my guess) it was hijacked after reports. In any case im there but apparently you can't post unless you are an escort. So i don't and just observe.
I have access to the group myself, and have seen what you are talking about. I think anyone can see the posts, only those part of the group can reply. It is why I choose to converse and communicate here. But our providers here aren't the ones you are seeing this talk from. Yes there are very likely providers who fall under misandry, like mentioned before, some of us come from difficult backgrounds, and some don't have screening processes to avoid the worst ones, meaning someone's viewpoints could be scewed by who they meet.
You would be surprised what i read there... The client's hating/bashing at worst but not just that... Lots of posts on simply seeing them as walking wallets/whales. I know its a business and they speak among themselves... But its really saddenining for a client like me to read some of this stuff.
I would think it inexcusable to talk about people who are helping me to survive that way. Unfortunately not everyone thinks the same way. Personally I try and talk in a way where at any moment I could show the person I am talking about, what I have said about them, and have.
Keep in mind though, you are refering to SPs all over the world in 1 location, yes they may be talking like that, but it could just as easily be someone in US, Australia, UK, Canada... ect, anywhere, not necessarily the ones you are actually seeing here in Montreal.
Lets just say some of these women's view of us are not great ...
* Note that its an US subreddit, not Canadian
Just saw this part.
I know its not every SP view of course but my point is beyong "closed doors" (or in this case a barely hidden window) it can be shocking what can be said.
Everyone has a tendency to say shocking things behind closed doors. It isn't new for either side to gossip and make up stories, or tell stories about their bad behavior of the past and pronounce it proudly like it was a flex to be able to be disrespectful like that, In the good old days.
Even tough at its CORE this app may had been full of good intentions, im sure it had its fair share of toxicity and controversies.
Of course i want women to be safe, but this seem to me like a pandora's box fully openned.
Well from the sounds of it, the app wasn't just women in the end, sounds to me like there were quite a few people who found a way around the screening. Looking to see what was being said.
