Social media presence

[Ducon]

Some providers have accounts on Twitter or others,
and I find that they generally do a good job at advertising themselves,
sometimes even advertising each other.
In some cases, their publications made me think "wow, she is awesome, I have to meet her"

But in some cases, it was the opposite.
Examples of publications that made me think "nope" :

• Religious and anti-vax mumbo-jumbo
• Responding to Elon's tweets to tell him how awesome he is
• Bitching about climate activists

 

[philonius]

Some providers have accounts on Twitter or others,
and I find that they generally do a good job at advertising themselves,
sometimes even advertising each other.
In some cases, their publications made me think "wow, she is awesome, I have to meet her"

But in some cases, it was the opposite.
Examples of publications that made me think "nope" :

• Religious and anti-vax mumbo-jumbo
• Responding to Elon's tweets to tell him how awesome he is
• Bitching about climate activists

100%. It's a double-edged sword with online content, and while some girls can get away with being political/personal online it's generally only those whose worldview comes from a place of empathy and kindness and humanity and acceptance of other people/cultures. These are good traits to have in a companion. If they go full rabbit hole, or sidle up to sycophants and fascists, it's a tough sell, regardless of how hot they are.

 

[Halloween Mike]

2 things are a major turn off for me

1) e-begging for gifts and/or trying to show off by posting "suposed gifts"

2) bitching about clients/the job or doxing one

For the second i don't mean warning of a dangerous client or putting a friendly reminder about good behaviors. Thats fine. But really just complaining about random stuff.

As for political ...well i rarely agree on everything with everyone so this is rather secondary to me. Im there to have an hour of fun time, not debate if x dude is a good politician or not...

 

[EastWind]

What really surprises me today is SPs posting their faces in their social media accounts. Something you rarely see before.

 

[LC18]

It’s awesome when SPs post antivax stuff. Clients with the same views can find them instead of booking me and spending 10 mins explaining why they refuse every vaccines

 

[TheJames101]

I think it's probably in a SP's best interest to keep some things a bit closer to the vest - just to maintain a bit of mystery, and also not limit the client base to those who agree/don't agree with a political view or whatever. Some SP (maybe here, maybe elsewhere) really reveal themselves to be loopy people, and therefore also non-bookable, meaning I wouldn't book them even if offered a session for free.
I can work with someone I think is an idiot or morally broke, but I certainly won't be intimate with them.

 

[LC18]

I think it's probably in a SP's best interest to keep some things a bit closer to the vest - just to maintain a bit of mystery, and also not limit the client base to those who agree/don't agree with a political view or whatever. Some SP (maybe here, maybe elsewhere) really reveal themselves to be loopy people, and therefore also non-bookable, meaning I wouldn't book them even if offered a session for free.
I can work with someone I think is an idiot or morally broke, but I certainly won't be intimate with them.

Maybe they do it on purpose because they don’t want to spend time with someone whose views are so far from theirs

 

[TheJames101]

Maybe they do it on purpose because they don’t want to spend time with someone whose views are so far from theirs

It's certainly possible. A blessing in disguise, I guess.

 

[LC18]

It's certainly possible. A blessing in disguise, I guess.

Sure is. I know I often speak on racism on Twitter because I don’t want to meet racists. It doesn’t matter how much they’d be willing to give me. Not all money is good money

 

[LeDodo]

I think it's probably in a SP's best interest to keep some things a bit closer to the vest - just to maintain a bit of mystery, and also not limit the client base to those who agree/don't agree with a political view or whatever. Some SP (maybe here, maybe elsewhere) really reveal themselves to be loopy people, and therefore also non-bookable, meaning I wouldn't book them even if offered a session for free.
I can work with someone I think is an idiot or morally broke, but I certainly won't be intimate with them.

Or it's the opposite, while sharing some clients might find some common points, topics, etc and attract them. It will be easier later for chitchatting. Like I like video games and food, if you show that I'm already half way in her DM haha

And also for that reason too

Maybe they do it on purpose because they don’t want to spend time with someone whose views are so far from theirs

At the end if a client is going to become a regular or vice versa, it will help to do that triage upfront.

 

[TheJames101]

Or it's the opposite, while sharing some clients might find some common points, topics, etc and attract them. It will be easier later for chitchatting. Like I like video games and food, if you show that I'm already half way in her DM haha

Yeah, I guess I was thinking more on the extreme end of opinions on certain topics. But it can go any number of ways, I guess.

 

[LeDodo]

Yeah, I guess I was thinking more on the extreme end of opinions on certain topics. But it can go any number of ways, I guess.

Yep. Or just simply that their account is personal and professional and it's just their right to share whatever they want and that there are not 2 persona

 

[philonius]

I wonder what the breakdown is, in terms of left/right leaning clients and their willingness to fuck the other side. I know many conservatives that would fuck a hot lefty, politics be damned, esp in this industry. SW by default is left-leaning, so it can't be a determining factor for right-wing clients, and I know an sp probably wouldn't go out of their way to deny a good client because of their conservative beliefs, but I don't know that's the same with lefty clients. I've only had one instance where I found out the sp was far-right mid-session and it killed the whole mood for me. I crave connection in these sessions but when you take a wild, dehumanizing stance like that, I'd rather be jerking off at home.

 

[CLOUD 500]

SW by default is left-leaning, so it can't be a determining factor for right-wing clients, and I know an sp probably wouldn't go out of their way to deny a good client because of their conservative beliefs, but I don't know that's the same with lefty clients.

How is it left-leaning? The last time I checked feminists are against sex work. I seen some tweets from a SW on twitter, she is a far-left feminist, she said how she hates Capitalism, etc.. But it is so ironic she says that because selling sexual services is 100% Capitalistic. She is a misandrist yet she is serving male clients. There is so much irony and hypocrisy in that. SW is neither left-leaning or right-leaning because both sides are against it.

 

[CLOUD 500]

For me it is not politics, but I cannot deal with entitled princess feminists that are openly misandrist. They see men as nothing but objects for money and clearly hate them and want to dominate all men. I seen many tweets of this type on Twitter from SWs. Absolutely appalling.

 

[hob12]

How is it left-leaning? The last time I checked feminists are against sex work. I seen some tweets from a SW on twitter, she is a far-left feminist, she said how she hates Capitalism, etc.. But it is so ironic she says that because selling sexual services is 100% Capitalistic. She is a misandrist yet she is serving male clients. There is so much irony and hypocrisy in that. SW is neither left-leaning or right-leaning because both sides are against it.

Just like most ideologies feminism isn't a monolithic bloc. There are many schools of thoughts and quite a few are actually pro-sex workers.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Just like most ideologies feminism isn't a monolithic bloc. There are many schools of thoughts and quite a few are actually pro-sex workers.

True. I should have been more precise, I meant more radical feminists and especially the ones that are openly misandrist.

 

[Valentina Amante]

Some of us advertise ourselves exactly as we are instead of being fake as fuck just to reel in cash. That’s exactly what some people are looking for: the SP that’s their perfect fit.

Making a thread on MERB about this is a bit useless - it’s like comparing apples to oranges or arguing whether pineapple belongs on pizza. ya know what they say about opinions they are like assholes - everyone’s got one. Just find your cup of tea and stick to what you like. Complaining online isn’t going to change anything for clients or SPs. Which, btw SPs use Twitter and MERB to filter out clientele too.

The fact that people feek the need to air out their specific, personal gripes or tastes just proves this isn’t a public discussion - it’s more of a personal diary entry.

What’s that quote again? “I’d rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I’m not.”

That’s the difference between grown-ups and keyboard toddlers.

 

[philonius]

How is it left-leaning? The last time I checked feminists are against sex work. I seen some tweets from a SW on twitter, she is a far-left feminist, she said how she hates Capitalism, etc.. But it is so ironic she says that because selling sexual services is 100% Capitalistic. She is a misandrist yet she is serving male clients. There is so much irony and hypocrisy in that. SW is neither left-leaning or right-leaning because both sides are against it.

SW and feminism go hand-in-hand, historically. Body positivity, gender inclusion, social justice (and social services), body autonomy are core left-wing tenets that most SWs support. Women supporting women is the only reason there is a sex industry that isn't rife with danger in the western world. Men sure as fuck aren't going out of their way to make it more accessible and safe. If you're looking only to the extremes you only see extreme things/opinions/reactions.

 

[philonius]

Making a thread on MERB about this is a bit useless - it’s like comparing apples to oranges or arguing whether pineapple belongs on pizza. ya know what they say about opinions they are like assholes - everyone’s got one. Just find your cup of tea and stick to what you like. Complaining online isn’t going to change anything for clients or SPs. Which, btw SPs use Twitter and MERB to filter out clientele too.

This is literally a website built on opinions, for opinionated people. Good luck moving that needle.