How do you respectfully approach an influencer or OF for a service?

[Obvio-0bvio]

After years of meeting traditional service providers, I’m finding myself craving something a bit different, not because I’ve lost appreciation for them (if anything, the opposite), but simply because I’ve been in the same lane for so long that I’m ready for a new challenge. Lately I’ve been into connecting with someone a little more “out of my league,” such as an influencer or an OF.
My question to the community is: What’s the right way to approach someone in that space without coming across as awkward, disrespectful, or out of line? Any advice, tips, or stories from your own experiences would be extremely appreciated.

 

[twenty4seven]

After years of meeting traditional service providers, I’m finding myself craving something a bit different, not because I’ve lost appreciation for them (if anything, the opposite), but simply because I’ve been in the same lane for so long that I’m ready for a new challenge. Lately I’ve been into connecting with someone a little more “out of my league,” such as an influencer or an OF.
My question to the community is: What’s the right way to approach someone in that space without coming across as awkward, disrespectful, or out of line? Any advice, tips, or stories from your own experiences would be extremely appreciated.

I don't have real-world experience but what's going through my head is that the only right way is that you don't.

They get flooded with these types of requests, likely, and the only way to make content together on most platforms is if you're both registered. Then she'd have to see your content for compatibility. If it's just to create a civi relationship with them then through their sw channels is likely never going to work either. I guess that's the bad news, and all I've got is bad news.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I don't have real-world experience but what's going through my head is that the only right way is that you don't.
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They get flooded with these types of requests, likely, and the only way to make content together on most platforms is if you're both registered. Then she'd have to see your content for compatibility. If it's just to create a civi relationship with them then through their sw channels is likely never going to work either. I guess that's the bad news, and all I've got is bad news.

I agree with you, but with all due respect to all the service providers on this platform, at the end of the day, if you’re in the sex industry or posting provocative content for likes or followers, OnlyFans or influencer ultimately everyone has a price when it comes to offering a service. This generation is driven by money.

 

[Zero_Six]

Don't. My understanding is that OF monitors for people using their platform to escort. All you do by reaching out to them on OF is put them at risk of getting banned.
As twenty4seven mentioned, you could try the "Want to collaborate" method if you're willing to make porn and are verified on OF, but I don't think that's what you're looking for.

Eitherway, they're probably getting a lot of these requests already and ignore 99% of them.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What you could do is write them an email (because you can't talk about in-person anything on OF) letting them know your username on their OF and a polite message explaining your end game, simultaneously sending a tip on their OF to prove your seriousness. I would increase the tip amount everyday. Personally, I would answer your message when you've reach my number, because indeed, we all have a number. But are you willing to discover what it is?

 

[LeDodo]

What you could do is write them an email (because you can't talk about in-person anything on OF) letting them know your username on their OF and a polite message explaining your end game, simultaneously sending a tip on their OF to prove your seriousness. I would increase the tip amount everyday. Personally, I would answer your message when you've reach my number, because indeed, we all have a number. But are you willing to discover what it is?

I agree on that especially on the "tipping" as someone mentioned earlier they have a fan base who is for sure reaching them a lot. You need to stand out to get some attention.

I agree with you, but with all due respect to all the service providers on this platform, at the end of the day, if you’re in the sex industry or posting provocative content for likes or followers, OnlyFans or influencer ultimately everyone has a price when it comes to offering a service. This generation is driven by money.

The catch here is that the "price" is not as clearly set like escorting. And also it's not like a one time payment. OF or the influencer world work in a very different dynamic.

If you really want to have a shot with a OF girl I think patience and an undefined budget would be the bare minimum to begin with. Obviously those parameters will be increased the more the person is "famous".

 

[Wildstar]

After years of meeting traditional service providers, I’m finding myself craving something a bit different, not because I’ve lost appreciation for them (if anything, the opposite), but simply because I’ve been in the same lane for so long that I’m ready for a new challenge. Lately I’ve been into connecting with someone a little more “out of my league,” such as an influencer or an OF.
My question to the community is: What’s the right way to approach someone in that space without coming across as awkward, disrespectful, or out of line? Any advice, tips, or stories from your own experiences would be extremely appreciated.

Well, the first issue you're going to have is Onlyfans has a zero tolerance policy for facilitating escorting or any sort of real life meetup outside the site's content collaboration tools for verified creators. So you'll either need to get set up as a creator, or find other ways to contact these girls off of the OF platform. If you are careful, you can tell them you would like a method to contact them with a business proposal, but avoid any mention of in person anything on OF.

I would avoid any strategy that involves sending a lot of money to an OF girl with the hopes she will eventually be up for a meet. In the first instance because many of them outsource chatting to disinterested third party firms, and in the second because getting guys to send them lots of money for chatting/pictures/videos and nothing more is kind of the business model.

 

[Johnsnarky]

i told an of girl to message me somewhere else. told her i had a proposition and she did. went from there. don’t send « hopeful » tips. waste of money. just be nice about it and explain you want it more as a sugar dating type thing rather than calling it what it is.