Dealbreaker or not?
- Thread starter LC18
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For me, it's an integral part of the encounter. I've had ladies say to me after munching down and feeling satisfied say....wow.....I wasn't expecting that!!! I mean if they are feeling good, it's kinda natural to return the favour.Plus it also implies that they enjoy what they do, if your allowed to go to "lunch "down there
I feel the same way because in my personal life I noticed most guys didn't really like doing it but as a provider most clients really go for it lol
I don't agree with that! A lot of women don't enjoy daty in general. I like it but personally I prefer giving than receiving. Some girls told me they just don't like the sensation.
Also, it's a risky activity. You can get an STI from it. From what I've heard it's more risky to get an STI from daty as a woman than it is from BBBJ.. some may just want to limit exposure to infections
Its risky for stds and its very personal. I prefer when these encounters are transactional.
Plus I just dont like it - neither do most people i know.
I am not sure to understand how giving DATY makes it non-transactional. Can you explain your thought? Do you mean you want to receive and not give since you are the client?
"I want the risk and the pleasure to be one-sided so I can square this in my mind like I'm ordering pizza" is how I read this, which is a wild take, but everyone's looking for something different I guess.
DATY and L/DFK is a requirement for me BECAUSE it can be mutually enjoyable and makes it feel less transactional. Every time I've seen a provider and it felt transactional it was a no-repeat (which fortunately isn't often).
I dont do bbbj either but yes, because im the client I'm ok with receiving cbj and not giving in return. Money for services, thats how the world works. I dont see anybody offering their hairdresser a haircut lol.
That does not make me a bad client as any SP I encountered can testify to. I show up looking good, smelling good, polite, charming. But if the girl doesnt O, I won't lose sleep over it.
That does not make me a bad client as any SP I encountered can testify to. I show up looking good, smelling good, polite, charming. But if the girl doesnt O, I won't lose sleep over it.
Let's go back to the basics. Sex is a thing that two people do together.
I understand if you partake in the industry to receive. Clients are all looking for something different, there's no wrong answer.
Let's go back to the conversation, BJ is not
