Lack of talent?

[Jacob Israel]

Underlying fundamental of all this. The convergence of dating and the hobby. The spread has never been this narrow. With social media legitimizing prostitution and also shitting on dating/relationships at the same time. So girls are prostituting themselves while thinking they are not prostituting because she is not sucking dick. Then on the dating front both women and men see all of this as a business transaction.

So in retrospect both civilian dating and the hobby has gone down further down the shitter.

Correct me if I am wrong!

People trying to mix the 2 or confuse them is another reason why it is becoming shitty.
Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that. They try to idealize the prostitute hence why many want “no tattoos”. I think that is the reason why some don’t want to leave bad reviews or walk on eggshells. They don’t want to “hurt” her reputation when she doesn’t give a fuck about the client. A good chunk wouldn’t even say hi to them on the street if they were to see them while they get defensive when someone “attacks” the professional gf.
Can actual real relationship happen; yes but it’s a minute tiny percentage like really really small.
The way towards it is to treat as it is a business transaction. It baffles me that some get attached to someone they don’t know their real age, real name or real origins.
The prostitute game is trying to get as much money from the client. The client tries to get as much mileage as he can.
The second you idealize is when you fuck up and we are seeing this more and more.
P.S: I am not anti the profession you just gotta know and understand how to navigate it or else you are screwed.

 

[$rockstar1985]

We always tend to romanticize the past, but it sure feels like that these were simpler, and perhaps happier, times.

No just facts, one thing I've never done ever is b******* and exaggerate something that happened in my life to make it sound better than it was. I never do that never have never will. But the fact is, Eleganza had the best escorts then, and even what they have today, here in Montreal, John was awesome, who ran that company. He knew how to pick them for sure , no duds , ever

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that.

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to financially exploit these vulnerable clients as well by feeding into their illusions.

 

[$rockstar1985]

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to exploit these vulnerable cleints for financial gains as well by feeding into their illusions.

Agree, some men read women better than others and some men are naive and some men have not had a lot of women in the real world. Other than SP world. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. You're not gonna always have a good time. When that door opens just the way it is. Take it for what it is and pick something you like.And go for it , don't worry about anything else, when she walks in you get about forty five minutes unless you blow more time talking about whatever...no pun intended...

 

[Jacob Israel]

Often these guys will suffer from a lack of affection or be in a vulnerable affective state (for various reasons). They may have been left by a girlfriend and did not have success finding a new one. They get attached easily. "Chemistry" happens naturally (the mysteries of human attraction...). They may become attached easily. It's a two-way street, too. Some escorts may be willing to financially exploit these vulnerable clients as well by feeding into their illusions.

It is a game at the end of the day. You just gotta understand it.

 

[Jacob Israel]

No just facts, one thing I've never done ever is b******* and exaggerate something that happened in my life to make it sound better than it was. I never do that never have never will. But the fact is, Eleganza had the best escorts then, and even what they have today, here in Montreal, John was awesome, who ran that company. He knew how to pick them for sure , no duds , ever

That’s a lesson in life: Enjoy the present moment. Always always.

 

[$rockstar1985]

That’s a lesson in life: Enjoy the present moment. Always always.

Hey Jacob , if you don't mind me asking, have you ever Been married or in a serious relationship... That's when you find out how a woman can go from 0 to 100 in b**** minutes i can tell you from experience.Haven't been in 7 serious relationships and lived with all of them.You never know a person truly to you live with them for around a year,Very true,habits, tendencies, maybe some past comes out of the closet...a whirlwind of a ride for sure...good luck my man

 

[Jacob Israel]

Hey Jacob , if you don't mind me asking, have you ever Been married or in a serious relationship... That's when you find out how a woman can go from 0 to 100 in b**** minutes i can tell you from experience.Haven't been in 7 serious relationships and lived with all of them.You never know a person truly to you live with them for around a year,Very true,habits, tendencies, maybe some past comes out of the closet...a whirlwind of a ride for sure...good luck my man

Never married relationship yes. I see what you mean and you are right.But it’s irrelevant to the conversation. Let’s stay in the conversation which was lack of talent. You sure never know someone until you live with them and even less in one hour.

 

[Wildstar]

Take Luna of Luxury as an example. Eleganza level in terms of looks. Service and personality wise reading from the reviews? Like WTF is this.

I can assure you, "WTF is this" was a very common thought I had during her, uh, service.

People trying to mix the 2 or confuse them is another reason why it is becoming shitty.
Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that. They try to idealize the prostitute hence why many want “no tattoos”. I think that is the reason why some don’t want to leave bad reviews or walk on eggshells. They don’t want to “hurt” her reputation when she doesn’t give a fuck about the client. A good chunk wouldn’t even say hi to them on the street if they were to see them while they get defensive when someone “attacks” the professional gf.
[...]

One of my first reviews here, a poster with a very strong affection for girl I reviewed misread/misunderstood my very positive review and went on a tirade about how bad the review was, how amazing the provider was, and then shared a whole bunch of cringe facts about himself and his interactions with the provider.

Unfortunately (?), these exchanges are lost to posterity as the mods understandably cleaned the thread, but it was an illustrative for how attached (delusional) some people get over what are commercial transactions at the end of the day, not Romeo and Juliet.

So on the one hand, we have white knights riding to the rescue, and on the other, we have guys who are not candid in reviews whether for fear of hurting the girl, hurting their relationship with the booker, or whatever.

A very unfortunate mix, setting aside the quality/quantity issues that prompted this thread.

 

[Salbandini]

Agree, some men read women better than others and some men are naive and some men have not had a lot of women in the real world. Other than SP world. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. You're not gonna always have a good time. When that door opens just the way it is. Take it for what it is and pick something you like.And go for it , don't worry about anything else, when she walks in you get about forty five minutes unless you blow more time talking about whatever...no pun intended...

You can tell by the reviews that alot of the men on this site havent had women in the real world. And not just on this site people who frequent escorts in general . Some are cheaters, i dont some dont wanna hear that but thats a fact. And others lonely. I think another poster brought that one up. The gfe is that. Its pretend , but alot of people cant differentiate fantasy to real life like jacob said

 

[Salbandini]

Underlying fundamental of all this. The convergence of dating and the hobby. The spread has never been this narrow. With social media legitimizing prostitution and also shitting on dating/relationships at the same time. So girls are prostituting themselves while thinking they are not prostituting because she is not sucking dick. Then on the dating front both women and men see all of this as a business transaction.

So in retrospect both civilian dating and the hobby has gone down further down the shitter.

Correct me if I am wrong!

This is an excellent point. Well said . Especially the part “With social media legitimizing prostitution and also shitting on dating/relationships at the same time. So girls are prostituting themselves while thinking they are not prostituting because she is not sucking dick. Then on the dating front both women and men see all of this as a business transaction.”

 

[EastWind]

People trying to mix the 2 or confuse them is another reason why it is becoming shitty.
Some guys try to find a “professional girlfriend” and “chemistry”. I really cannot understand that. They try to idealize the prostitute hence why many want “no tattoos”. I think that is the reason why some don’t want to leave bad reviews or walk on eggshells. They don’t want to “hurt” her reputation when she doesn’t give a fuck about the client. A good chunk wouldn’t even say hi to them on the street if they were to see them while they get defensive when someone “attacks” the professional gf.
Can actual real relationship happen; yes but it’s a minute tiny percentage like really really small.
The way towards it is to treat as it is a business transaction. It baffles me that some get attached to someone they don’t know their real age, real name or real origins.
The prostitute game is trying to get as much money from the client. The client tries to get as much mileage as he can.
The second you idealize is when you fuck up and we are seeing this more and more.
P.S: I am not anti the profession you just gotta know and understand how to navigate it or else you are screwed.

One thing the hobby taught me is once you reach that ultimate with a woman you have to let her go. So I would never get into some sort of quasi-relationship with an SP like see her multiple times for years. For me three times is the max with the final is the goodbye dinner. Thank you for coming into my life but you have to move on. The hobby is to fill that time of void but would never replace a an actual relationship. May help you to get your mojo back if you properly manage this. Well that is how I approach the hobby.