The Confessional

[Michelle Gunn]

Follow up confession : I am embarrassed that I am so obsessed with my physical appearance and extremely self critical and even punishing, and I often worry that I will make my colleagues feel bad when I talk about certain insecurities. A lot of people can appreciate different types of beauty, but I was a child and a teenager during a time period when the beauty standards were horribly narrow and oppressive. Combined with having an obsessive and perfectionist personality and certain insecurities, it was the perfect recipe for developing certain obsessions.

This industry can be really hard for that, I feel scrutinized all the time and compared.. but at the same time, I get so many compliments. I just don't want to depend on compliments to have self worth, and I don't want to feel so affected by all of this. It sucks.

I could have written this exact same post.

 

[DetectiveBOOBS]

Follow up confession : I am embarrassed that I am so obsessed with my physical appearance and extremely self critical and even punishing, and I often worry that I will make my colleagues feel bad when I talk about certain insecurities. A lot of people can appreciate different types of beauty, but I was a child and a teenager during a time period when the beauty standards were horribly narrow and oppressive. Combined with having an obsessive and perfectionist personality and certain insecurities, it was the perfect recipe for developing certain obsessions.

This industry can be really hard for that, I feel scrutinized all the time and compared.. but at the same time, I get so many compliments. I just don't want to depend on compliments to have self worth, and I don't want to feel so affected by all of this. It sucks.

I’m a big fan of Luna!! Beautiful inside out.
In a normal daily life setting many of us clients would have no chance to even speak to ladies in this industry . I feel blessed to have the chance to meet with you and many others.

To those who shame a lady’s apparence, take a good look at yourself in front of the mirror before criticizing the ladies. They are all out of our leagues. It is a privilege to spend some intimate time with those ladies.

 

[madmonkey82]

I’m a big fan of Luna!! Beautiful inside out.
In a normal daily life setting many of us clients would have no chance to even speak to ladies in this industry . I feel blessed to have the chance to meet with you and many others.

To those who shame a lady’s apparence, take a good look at yourself in front of the mirror before criticizing the ladies. They are all out of our leagues. It is a privilege to spend some intimate time with those ladies.

Although I have yet to meet Luna, reading her pists and looking at her visuals i am of the opinion that she is one gorgeous and beautiful woman. And smart too.

 

[LC18]

I have only once dated someone my age, always dated men older than me even as a teenager I would date guys 4-5 years older than me. I would entertain men well in their 30s, today I realize that it was definitely abuse. A lot of people assume that it's daddy issues but I have an amazing relationship with my parents. I guess I was just looking for attention

Only one of the men I,ve seen when I was underage ended up in jail

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I have only once dated someone my age, always dated men older than me even as a teenager I would date guys 4-5 years older than me. I would entertain men well in their 30s, today I realize that it was definitely abuse. A lot of people assume that it's daddy issues but I have an amazing relationship with my parents. I guess I was just looking for attention

Only one of the men I,ve seen when I was underage ended up in jail

I dated an older man as a teenager too and it was absolutely abusive, I didn't realize it at the time tho. A lot of friends had similar experiences.. It was normalized back then, and men would seek out minors and very young girls to take advantage of them and manipulate them, particularly in certain scenes. When you are under a certain age certain power dynamics don't seem so clear. Even when I was 23, I had a boyfriend who was near 40, and looking back on it, the relationship was very unhealthy even if I was an adult.

 

[Julia Sky]

The black sesame ones, I'd love to try! Black sesame ice cream is really one of my favorite flavors, I often get it in the summer but you have to go to specific grocery stores

Its one of my favorite too we should get it together some time!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Its one of my favorite too we should get it together some time!

I have a feeling we'll be eating a lot of ice cream this summer lol

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Its one of my favorite too we should get it together some time!

Ca Lem crèmerie qui était sur Saint-Dominique offrait cette saveur, et plusieurs autres trucs exotiques, comme saveur taro. Je crois qu’ils sont rendus dans NDG sur Sherbrooke.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Ca Lem crèmerie qui était sur Saint-Dominique offrait cette saveur, et plusieurs autres trucs exotiques, comme saveur taro. Je crois qu’ils sont rendus dans NDG sur Sherbrooke.

J'adore cette place! Je ne savais pas que leur succursale sur Saint-Dominique était fermée, c'est dommage.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

J'adore cette place! Je ne savais pas que leur succursale sur Saint-Dominique était fermée, c'est dommage.

Oui, malheureusement, j’aimais beaucoup aussi et c’était très près de chez moi (trop près même! ). Bien que je souffre d’intolérance au lactose, je ne pouvais résister.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Oui, malheureusement, j’aimais beaucoup aussi et c’était très près de chez moi (trop près même! ). Bien que je souffre d’intolérance au lactose, je ne pouvais résister.

Ils en ont sans lactose je pense! J'aime beaucoup Kem Coba dans le Mile End, un style similaire

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Ils en ont sans lactose je pense!

Oui mais, sérieusement, tous les produits sans lactose ne sont que de pâles imitations qui sont loin d’être satisfaisantes en ce qui me concerne. Je préfère prendre le risque, car mon intolérance ne se manifeste pas intensivement à chaque fois.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

J'aime beaucoup Kem Coba dans le Mile End, un style similaire

Je connais aussi, par contre, je ne suis pas très friand des longues lignes d’attente. Unicone sur Saint-Denis est très intéressant mais, là aussi, lignes d’attente assurées.

 

[LeDodo]

Je connais aussi, par contre, je ne suis pas très friand des longues lignes d’attente. Unicone sur Saint-Denis est très intéressant mais, là aussi, lignes d’attente assurées.

La queue à Kem coba a l'air longue mais ça passe crème comme on dit

Sinon Calem ont des succursales un peu partout voire des pop up. Mais ce sont les 2 seules places qui proposent des saveurs "asiatiques"/exotique

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Je connais aussi, par contre, je ne suis pas très friand des longues lignes d’attente. Unicone sur Saint-Denis est très intéressant mais, là aussi, lignes d’attente assurées.

C'est vrai lol moi j'y vais à des moments spécifiques pour éviter la file d'attente. Mon autre coup de cœur c'est Iconoglace. Ils ont des versions veganes pour ceux qui sont intolérants au lactose et ça ne paraît vraiment pas (je ne suis vraiment mais vraiment pas fan de la nourriture vegan)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

La queue à Kem coba a l'air longue mais ça passe crème comme on dit

Sinon Calem ont des succursales un peu partout voire des pop up. Mais ce sont les 2 seules places qui proposent des saveurs "asiatiques"/exotique

Si tu y va au début de la journée pendant la semaine c'est pas si pire.

Mais c'est comme un de mes resto préféré de Montréal, le Izakaya Kazu près de Guy Concordia (tiens tiens.. pas loin de mon nouveau incall en fait) a aussi toujours une très longue file d'attente... Ça m'empêche d'y aller

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Oui mais, sérieusement, tous les produits sans lactose ne sont que de pâles imitations qui sont loin d’être satisfaisantes en ce qui me concerne. Je préfère prendre le risque, car mon intolérance ne se manifeste pas intensivement à chaque fois.

Les sorbets c'est pas la même chose que de la crème glacée mais ça peut être très bon!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Les sorbets c'est pas la même chose que de la crème glacée mais ça peut être très bon!

J’ai grandi près du Bilboquet, je connais très bien les sorbets! C’est délicieux, mais ça ne remplace pas la crème glacée.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

J’ai grandi près du Bilboquet, je connais très bien les sorbets! C’est délicieux, mais ça ne remplace pas la crème glacée.

C'est bien vrai...

 

[PatHibulaire]

I confess that I have been reading the XO thread for the last few days and I am appalled by the lack of empathy by some clients for the challenging working condition of SW's.