Your definition of “consent”

[E.B.]

How do you define consent in everyday life, as well as in a sexual context with a partner or date and in a setting when engaging with an escort you’ve arranged a rendezvous with?

 

[CenterofNH]

How do you define consent in everyday life, as well as in a sexual context with a partner or date and in a setting when engaging with an escort you’ve arranged a rendezvous with?

Consent is when an adult in command of her / his faculties agrees to a proposal. A minor, a chemically impaired adult, be it alcohol or drugs, or a person with cognitive disabilities is unable to give consent.

 

[LC18]

Money is to be considered too in the equation

You might say women have consented to seeing clients so they shouldn’t complain about being beaten up but the truth is that they probably feared financial loss if they didn’t see those clients. They only consented out of fear

 

[CenterofNH]

Money is to be considered too in the equation

You might say women have consented to seeing clients so they shouldn’t complain about being beaten up but the truth is that they probably feared financial loss if they didn’t see those clients. They only consented out of fearRespect

Money is to be considered too in the equation

You might say women have consented to seeing clients so they shouldn’t complain about being beaten up but the truth is that they probably feared financial loss if they didn’t see those clients. They only consented out of fear

I guess I hadn't thought of that because I can't imagine beating a provider. Beating a woman goes beyond issues of consent and is an immoral, reprehensible act committed by an animal. I certainly hope you have never had to experience this.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Money is to be considered too in the equation

You might say women have consented to seeing clients so they shouldn’t complain about being beaten up but the truth is that they probably feared financial loss if they didn’t see those clients. They only consented out of fear

I agree

 

[Lunaseraphim]

To me consent is very complex, but in a way it's very simple. If someone is fully capable of understanding the impact of a decision they make with another person and if they are not being coerced, if they say they consented, then it's true. I also think it's different depending on the situation

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

The way I understand consent in the context of sexual actvities is that it is the voluntary agreement between two partners to engage in specific agreed upon acts. In practice, the way I do it is literally to ask permission before every act. (This is how it is taught in schools in 2026.) For example: "Would you like to...?" ",Shall we...?" "May I...?" If the answer is "yes", free of coercion and with a partner who is not intoxicated, then consent has been established.
For some who may be of a certain age the above may sound silly, to which I will reply: keep up with the times...

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think when it comes to a relationship between an escort and a client, which is relevant to this forum, consent means that certain things were discussed prior to the dates, and that during the date they are being discussed again before engaging

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For instance, if we agreed on a GFE date and you start yanking my hair and trying to GREEK me, that is not consensual lol. But if we said before the date I would bbbj you, if you aren't sure you would ask if I am up for it, and I would probably say yes.

 

[LeDodo]

I think when it comes to a relationship between an escort and a client, which is relevant to this forum, consent means that certain things were discussed prior to the dates, and that during the date they are being discussed again before engaging

In the industry, consent can be easy to be stepped on (or over).
Sometimes it's easy to forget that paid companionship doesn't necessarily mean access to everything.

Like this ...

For instance, if we agreed on a GFE date and you start yanking my hair and trying to GREEK me, that is not consensual lol. But if we said before the date I would bbbj you, if you aren't sure you would ask if I am up for it, and I would probably say yes.