Am I alone? Mental discomfort at the sight of scantily clad women in public.
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Not so much anymore, judges have stopped admitting these as a proof of anything.
or maybe, s*x workers can keep advocating for better work conditions and autonomy so that the industry is safer for all? the client experience would be bettered by it too, with more willing girls providing a better service.
a quick skim on this board shows that most threads are indeed not man hating or self victimization.
in any case, i doubt you can work for years as an escort while hating men. it’s a bit foolish to think so.
personally, i think my experience as an escort gave me a more polarized view of men. i met so many interesting, kind and intelligent men from all walks of life, some of whom i have remained friends with. i respect them a lot and they have taught me a lot about life.
i’ve also met very, very questionable characters who seemed to have a true hatred of women, and wanted to take it out on a vulnerable target.
the way i see it, we are indeed the weaker sex physically. this leaves us more vulnerable to assault, abuse and agression, and not only as SPs but as women. so to some degree, it’s the responsibility of the good kind and respectful men to protect us and stand up to the violent ones.
and again, saying "men could treat women better" doesn’t offend the men that already do.
You see this is a whole different approach that makes sense and is easy to agree with.
I think you skimmed way too quickly though.
Contrary to what is being said most of us were brought up to respect and to protect women and perhaps that is the reason why this spreading of awareness constantly is becoming annoying especially from women who make their living from these same men.
We can all treat each other better.
Treating women better is not exactly the same as implying and using the word rape is it now.and this thread went all the way there.
I don’t make a living from those men. 90% of my income comes from people that don’t participate in forum culture. Some of them read it but don’t interact
We are being accused of having a victim mentality everytime we give our opinion in a thread. Even if the thread is about women
I joined merb because I was seeing a lot of funny opinions and I thought ‘maybe they’ve never asked a woman’
I joined merb because I was seeing a lot of funny opinions and I thought ‘maybe they’ve never asked a woman’
No just every time you keep bashing men and taking it to extremes like implying rape lol
A really far stretch from looking at a sexily dressed woman.
You act as if none of us have ever known a woman before or been in a loving relationship, perhaps you should try that some time, it is actually the most fabulous experience in the world when 2 people can share their lives, their hopes and their dreams.
Hey si ça te concerne pas passe par dessus ou répond et passe à autre chose. I’m asking a question you can answer yes or no without being offended.
Do you think the way someone is dressed is a good reason to be raped?
No, I don’t and actually I find the question very extreme
You’re right, sorry the subject just led me to ask but maybe I shouldn’t have
But instead you get very offended and call it men bashing and accuse women on this forum of being eternal victims. Who has victim mentality again? You see something not even about yourself and you’re offended on the behalf of predators
Now you are just trying to dig yourself out.
Why bring rape into a thread that was about a guy who was saying he was uncomfortable around scantily dressed women in public.
What on earth has rape got to do with that.
I don’t get offended by scantily dressed women, I am European and not a prude, there is nude sunbathing everywhere on the beaches and women often change into their swimming attire without covering up, and nobody bats an eye or gives a shit that someone is looking at them or thinks of or accuses anybody of rape.
Because to me it was the next step, people saying that women dress sexy only to please men or to get their attention when about 4-5 different women told you that they dress for themselves is only a few steps away from believing that a woman that’s dressed provocatively is looking for sex (consensual or not)
Who really cares why women dress sexy and btw only they know, have you ever had a guy come up to you and ask you why, I am almost sure not.
We or should I say I don’t care, I enjoy the view if I find her attractive and consider it to be a lucky day and I won’t look away as there is no law against looking at someone.
Do some men think that they would perhaps like to have a relationship or be lucky enough to be able to have sex with the gorgeous woman dressed sexily, probably, that is human nature and I am sure women have similar thoughts when they see an attractive guy, but that is a far cry from wanting to rape someone.
Men and women fantasize about actors/ actresses singers celebrities yes even politicians( I have no idea why ) all the time but that has nothing to do with wanting to rape someone.
It’s been a long winter and should have taken vacation somewhere warm
First hot day where I live and saw a young woman wearing cut off jeans outdoors and felt very stimulated. First thing that recall in my mind was Daisy Duke
The younger generation probably doesn’t know what a Daisy Duke short is
Je pense que c’était pas mal le sujet initial du thread non?
Il y a quand même des gens qui pensent que c’est une bonne raison et je voulais savoir s’il y en avait ici
Effectivement it has nothing to do with wanting to rape someone parce que ça pas rapport. Je parlais de justifier le viol à cause l’habillement pas des fantasmes de Pierre-Jean-Jacques qui trip sur Marie-Mai
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