Am I alone? Mental discomfort at the sight of scantily clad women in public.

[Lunaseraphim]

And she’s back…

I'm admiring different fashion trends

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Those are also amazing

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

You'll be surprised how this a usable argument in a court ...

Not so much anymore, judges have stopped admitting these as a proof of anything.

 

[adeliakitty]

Nobody is bullying anybody. It seems disagreeing is equal to bullying here.
We don’t really need the same victim message or spreading awareness as you call it repeated over and over again in every thread and each one being turned into how horrible men are and how bad they treat women.

There is a simple solution however.
Like millions of other women who don’t like their line of work or feel perhaps unsafe doing it. Why not try a different line of work.
I strongly believe that you make your own luck in life and blaming others for your problems is not the solution.

or maybe, s*x workers can keep advocating for better work conditions and autonomy so that the industry is safer for all? the client experience would be bettered by it too, with more willing girls providing a better service.

a quick skim on this board shows that most threads are indeed not man hating or self victimization.

in any case, i doubt you can work for years as an escort while hating men. it’s a bit foolish to think so.

personally, i think my experience as an escort gave me a more polarized view of men. i met so many interesting, kind and intelligent men from all walks of life, some of whom i have remained friends with. i respect them a lot and they have taught me a lot about life.

i’ve also met very, very questionable characters who seemed to have a true hatred of women, and wanted to take it out on a vulnerable target.

the way i see it, we are indeed the weaker sex physically. this leaves us more vulnerable to assault, abuse and agression, and not only as SPs but as women. so to some degree, it’s the responsibility of the good kind and respectful men to protect us and stand up to the violent ones.

and again, saying "men could treat women better" doesn’t offend the men that already do.

 

[Fradi]

or maybe, s*x workers can keep advocating for better work conditions and autonomy so that the industry is safer for all? the client experience would be bettered by it too, with more willing girls providing a better service.

a quick skim on this board shows that most threads are indeed not man hating or self victimization.

in any case, i doubt you can work for years as an escort while hating men. it’s a bit foolish to think so.

personally, i think my experience as an escort gave me a more polarized view of men. i met so many interesting, kind and intelligent men from all walks of life, some of whom i have remained friends with. i respect them a lot and they have taught me a lot about life.

i’ve also met very, very questionable characters who seemed to have a true hatred of women, and wanted to take it out on a vulnerable target.

the way i see it, we are indeed the weaker sex physically. this leaves us more vulnerable to assault, abuse and agression, and not only as SPs but as women. so to some degree, it’s the responsibility of the good kind and respectful men to protect us and stand up to the violent ones.

and again, saying "men could treat women better" doesn’t offend the men that already do.

You see this is a whole different approach that makes sense and is easy to agree with.
I think you skimmed way too quickly though.
Contrary to what is being said most of us were brought up to respect and to protect women and perhaps that is the reason why this spreading of awareness constantly is becoming annoying especially from women who make their living from these same men.

We can all treat each other better.

 

[Fradi]

and again, saying "men could treat women better" doesn’t offend the men that already do.

Treating women better is not exactly the same as implying and using the word rape is it now.and this thread went all the way there.