A SP I met recently told me something that really upset me (I'm still mad as I am writing this) and, of course, I don't want to go into the details of this private conversation but I figured I need to remind something to the clients who think they can abuse SW's.
If you think you have control over a SP because you threathen to tell her friends and family of her life as a SP, think again. She has way more control over you.
If you inform her family and friends of her life as a SP, she will be embarassed for a while but that will probably not last, she will get over it. However, the consequences for the abuser will last a long time.
Remember that paying for sex is criminal and, worst yet, threatening a SP to out her to obtain sexual favors that she doesn't offer (CIM, Greek for example) is a serious criminal offense, typically classified as extortion. If she is upset enough, you will end up in jail.
SP's should get nothing but respect from their clients. Respect in general but respect of their private life and boundaries in particular. If one SP doesn't offer something you want, go elsewhere, there is plenty to choose from.