The Bitching thread
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All my plans in Toronto were cancelled and I mostly just saw clients and stayed in my room. 
I'm usually not looking forward to getting back to Montreal but I know I'll be seeing some friends by the end of the week.
I'm usually not looking forward to getting back to Montreal but I know I'll be seeing some friends by the end of the week.
Wow thats a tough break. Sorry to hearAll my plans in Toronto were cancelled and I mostly just saw clients and stayed in my room.
I'm usually not looking forward to getting back to Montreal but I know I'll be seeing some friends by the end of the week.
Yeah, I should have made other plans but one of my friends ditched me multiple times during the weekend and I was waiting around on them. I went out on Friday at least
Didn't you go to the falls tho? That's always a blast.
Sam Neill dying really sucks (as does all the actors I grew up with passing away). Watched Jurassic Park today in memory. So great.
A SP I met recently told me something that really upset me (I'm still mad as I am writing this) and, of course, I don't want to go into the details of this private conversation but I figured I need to remind something to the clients who think they can abuse SW's.
If you think you have control over a SP because you threathen to tell her friends and family of her life as a SP, think again. She has way more control over you.
If you inform her family and friends of her life as a SP, she will be embarassed for a while but that will probably not last, she will get over it. However, the consequences for the abuser will last a long time.
Remember that paying for sex is criminal and, worst yet, threatening a SP to out her to obtain sexual favors that she doesn't offer (CIM, Greek for example) is a serious criminal offense, typically classified as extortion. If she is upset enough, you will end up in jail.
SP's should get nothing but respect from their clients. Respect in general but respect of their private life and boundaries in particular. If one SP doesn't offer something you want, go elsewhere, there is plenty to choose from.
If you think you have control over a SP because you threathen to tell her friends and family of her life as a SP, think again. She has way more control over you.
If you inform her family and friends of her life as a SP, she will be embarassed for a while but that will probably not last, she will get over it. However, the consequences for the abuser will last a long time.
Remember that paying for sex is criminal and, worst yet, threatening a SP to out her to obtain sexual favors that she doesn't offer (CIM, Greek for example) is a serious criminal offense, typically classified as extortion. If she is upset enough, you will end up in jail.
SP's should get nothing but respect from their clients. Respect in general but respect of their private life and boundaries in particular. If one SP doesn't offer something you want, go elsewhere, there is plenty to choose from.
We don't have more control than our clients... Hence why there is this type of violence in this industry. But yes everything else is good advice, don't abuse people.......
Did someone from MERB "abuse" a SW? Who? What happened? Who was the victim? When did this happen? Where did this happen?
Without any details or any suggestion that anyone from MERB was involved, posts by one client reminding all other clients not to out escorts to their friends and family are meaningless. Did anyone here say that he did that or would do that? How would someone even know who are the friends and family members of an escort?
We don't need any more "reminders" like this.
Well well well, see how a nap during the day fucks up my circadian rhythm
Did someone from MERB "abuse" a SW? Who? What happened? Who was the victim? When did this happen? Where did this happen?
Without any details or any suggestion that anyone from MERB was involved, posts by one client reminding all other clients not to out escorts to their friends and family are meaningless. Did anyone here say that he did that or would do that? How would someone even know who are the friends and family members of an escort?
We don't need any more "reminders" like this.
I hesitated for a long time before writing the comment above that the Capt refers to. One reason was that I felt I sounded like a preacher. I don't like preachers, but it seems I have to admit that I might be one myself, sorry.
Another reason was that I knew the clients on MERB are all perfect gentlemen and that this comment couldn't possibly apply to any of them (no, I just made that up).
If this comment helps even one SP to quickly silence a harassing client, or make even one client think twice before doing something they might regret, then it will have been worthwhile. Otherwise, it will have been nothing but empty words that will soon be forgotten, so no harm done then.
I believe that it's not difficult in the age of social media to find personal information about a SP. I'm pretty sure I could easily find personal information on every SP's I've met more than once (and there are several).
That is all I have to say about this subject.
