Do you ever get too excited in a session and bust a nut too early? Lol

[CydoniaNights]

To add, i’ve talked about my PE alot on this forum over the years. I think it has kind of become my safe space to discuss it. It’s comforting knowing alot of other men experience the same issue.

I’ve had sps ( i wont name names to keep their privacy) personally dm me as well saying they find it hot when men bust too fast, cause it feels empowering that they can get a man to lose control and it makes them feel more attractive and desirable.

 

[twenty4seven]

I’ve had sps ( i wont name names to keep their privacy) personally dm me as well saying they find it hot when men bust too fast, cause it feels empowering that they can get a man to lose control and it makes them feel more attractive and desirable.

That's something I wish I had in my toolbox tbh, bc I cum only at the end, but I'd love to be able to bust in the heat of the moment and then jump back in to the action shortly after.

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

Twice. Once, I was both under the weather (that was my first mistake) and rather backed up. Busted after 2 minutes of thrusting. Second time, I was so into devouring this chick's ass as she sat on my face and gave me a handjob that was a bit too much on the aggressive side that I couldn't hold it in.

 

[Anong]

any tips for lasting longer?

Do not fuck that is what i do to not come fast. lol

 

[Hmmm…]

What always surprises me is the level of respect and professionalism all these women have towards clients. Of course respect and kindness is reflected back, but I've never seen anyone who would comment poorly on my hideous looks or performance or speak badly of other clients unless they were absolutely terrible (drunk, pushing limits). I've never heard a SP laugh at a previous client for being too fat, too old, too naive or being too fast. Every provider seems willing to want to provide a good service and make accommodations whether your pace is fast or slow, hard or soft.

 

[Ducon]

You can't "nut too early" when you're a customer.
There is no expected duration. You nut when you nut.
You owe the woman respect, good hygiene, of course money, but you don't owe her performance.
If anything, I suspect they're more annoyed when you take too long.

 

[Alucard87]

any tips for lasting longer?

Improve your cardio.

The better shape I got in the better I lasted with the wife. Not like Ronaldo or something but way better than before which was regular I guess. As for my times with escorts, try as much as I did I couldn't finish. Only once when the girl just tugged me to completion. The other times it was a mental block I think as I was so new to the scene, and have never been a fuck at first sight kind of guy.

 

[LeDodo]

have never been a fuck at first sight kind of guy.

That's what I found out too.

But I found tricks!

 

[Alucard87]

That's what I found out too.

But I found tricks!

For me I think it's just a fuck it mentality and getting more comfortable with it. We shall see, haven't partaken in a few months. But I most certainly will

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

You can't "nut too early" when you're a customer.
There is no expected duration. You nut when you nut.
You owe the woman respect, good hygiene, of course money, but you don't owe her performance.
If anything, I suspect they're more annoyed when you take too long.

It's not just that no woman likes a two-pump chump, you should also be thinking about literally getting...more bang for your buck. If you finish in 2-3 minutes, it'll feel like a waste of $200+. Whereas if you get a good stroke game going in a couple of positions, you'll be going home with a deeper sense of satisfaction.

Warrants mentioning that nobody should feel pressured to fuck for 20 minutes with no break because they saw that in a porno, those things are fake as can be with jump cuts to give the actors time to recollect themselves. Some cinematographers are more skilled at hiding the jump cuts than others though.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

What always surprises me is the level of respect and professionalism all these women have towards clients. Of course respect and kindness is reflected back, but I've never seen anyone who would comment poorly on my hideous looks or performance or speak badly of other clients unless they were absolutely terrible (drunk, pushing limits). I've never heard a SP laugh at a previous client for being too fat, too old, too naive or being too fast. Every provider seems willing to want to provide a good service and make accommodations whether your pace is fast or slow, hard or soft.

This is correct and true among providers too, at least in my experience. I'm not saying providers don't talk about clients and don't complain about being poorly treated, because that would be a lie.. but I've almost never heard anyone make fun of a client's looks, performance, dick size, age, weight or anything that men seem to worry about here. That's why I'm always shocked to see people who worry so much about these things.. because we literally just want to be well treated.

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

any tips for lasting longer?

Mentioned it in a separate thread but it bears repeating. Dark chocolate. Improves blood flow, you'll stay stiff for longer but should also pace yourself as usual to prevent busting early.
Rubbing one out the day of might make things more difficult for some guys (I often have a high sex drive and can last rather long if I know what I'm doing but once I nut, In usually lose any interest in coitus until the next day), but doing so the night before might prove more effective.

 

[twenty4seven]

Mentioned it in a separate thread but it bears repeating. Dark chocolate. Improves blood flow, you'll stay stiff for longer but should also pace yourself as usual to prevent busting early.
Rubbing one out the day of might make things more difficult for some guys (I often have a high sex drive and can last rather long if I know what I'm doing but once I nut, In usually lose any interest in coitus until the next day), but doing so the night before might prove more effective.

I agree. 2 nut per day now, 3 if I push it, and I'm fine with that, so as long as there's 8-10 hours in between it's optimal for lasting as long as I can, usually right to the end.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You can't "nut too early" when you're a customer.
There is no expected duration. You nut when you nut.
You owe the woman respect, good hygiene, of course money, but you don't owe her performance.
If anything, I suspect they're more annoyed when you take too long.

I'm not annoyed as in ''I can't wait for him to leave or get off me'' if that happens, but if it starts to hurt because the guy is holding back from cumming, it's a problem...

It's not only that as a client you don't owe me performance, it's also that I think the obsession with performance can actually ruin a nice session. I've had bookings when guys really wanted to get a certain number of ''shots'' or wanted to go as long as he could, and it didn't seem like they were enjoying themselves at all. Once again, this is supposed to be a fun and relaxing experience, not a contest or a marathon.

In the past clients have looked so embarrassed and apologized to me because according to them they came too fast and I really didn't understand why. I'm not here to judge.

 

[Anong]

I've never heard a SP laugh at a previous client for being too fat, too old, too naive or being too fast

I never heard either from any SP about other clients but some of them giggle when get hard time to find my dick. lol

 

[Vardhan945]

Improve your cardio.

The better shape I got in the better I lasted with the wife. Not like Ronaldo or something but way better than before which was regular I guess. As for my times with escorts, try as much as I did I couldn't finish. Only once when the girl just tugged me to completion. The other times it was a mental block I think as I was so new to the scene, and have never been a fuck at first sight kind of guy.

Ive got almost the same issue, kind of the opposite of most guys here.
I can "perform" throughout the session but sometimes cant finish. 80+% of the time I have to finish with a help from my hand.

Sometimes I feel bad for the poor girl to the point where if we're running short on time Ill just wrap it up without coming.

Recently in my personal life - the very infrequent times Ive had the opportunity - I either come too fast or cant get it up...which is part of the reason I see SPs (enjoying it without pressure to perform and also to get "better" at sex)

Its very bizarre because even though the SPs I see are usually more attractive and more skilled than any civilian women Ive met, I have a hard time finishing even after 30-50 min if penetration/bbbj/other stuff.

Maybe stress manifests itself differently with SPs vs civilians? idk

 

[Vardhan945]

I'm not annoyed as in ''I can't wait for him to leave or get off me'' if that happens, but if it starts to hurt because the guy is holding back from cumming, it's a problem...

It's not only that as a client you don't owe me performance, it's also that I think the obsession with performance can actually ruin a nice session. I've had bookings when guys really wanted to get a certain number of ''shots'' or wanted to go as long as he could, and it didn't seem like they were enjoying themselves at all. Once again, this is supposed to be a fun and relaxing experience, not a contest or a marathon.

In the past clients have looked so embarrassed and apologized to me because according to them they came too fast and I really didn't understand why. I'm not here to judge.

theyre just projecting their insecurity. Think of it more as apologizing to himself for not being their ideal version of themselves.

one time when i came fast my instinct was to do the same and make feeble excuses and apologize despite being aware she didnt give a fuck haha

 

[LeDodo]

Ive got almost the same issue, kind of the opposite of most guys here.
I can "perform" throughout the session but sometimes cant finish. 80+% of the time I have to finish with a help from my hand.

Sometimes I feel bad for the poor girl to the point where if we're running short on time Ill just wrap it up without coming.

Recently in my personal life - the very infrequent times Ive had the opportunity - I either come too fast or cant get it up...which is part of the reason I see SPs (enjoying it without pressure to perform and also to get "better" at sex)

Its very bizarre becauze even though the SPs I see are usually more attractive and more skilled than any civilian women Ive met, I have a hard time finishing even after 30-50 min if penetration/bbbj/other stuff.

Maybe stress manifests itself differently with SPs vs civilians? idk

I got the same issue and/or questioning. And lot of theories, try and error, etc. lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

theyre just projecting their insecurity. Think of it more as apologizing to himself for not being their ideal version of themselves.

one time when i came fast my instinct was to do the same and make feeble excuses and apologize despite being aware she didnt give a fuck haha

It's just that I don't feel like I'm here to engage in this performance of pornographic sexuality and often I am under the reference that this is the point of reference. I understand that people are booking for the fantasy but to me it makes more sense to offer an organic experience

 

[Vardhan945]

It's just that I don't feel like I'm here to engage in this performance of pornographic sexuality and often I am under the reference that this is the point of reference. I understand that people are booking for the fantasy but to me it makes more sense to offer an organic experience

I get it but any dude** is going to be irritated with themselves if he busts in 2 minutes lol. Even if its a chill sesh, not engaging in a pornographic performance.

I know I would be even if I felt very comfortable and not judged by her.

**obviously I cant speak for all guys but Cumming early as something to be embarassed about has been etched into the male psyche imo