Thinking of having a duo. I've had one before but I wanted to hear your expert opinions. How much time do you schedule for a duo?
How much time for a duo?
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60 to 90 is enough. It can be very overwhelming and from my experience anything above that isn’t really necessary unless you want to take your time and get to know them deeply. Then I’d recommend a dinner duo date or 2 hours
For the first time i’d recommend 90 minutes minimum. Then it could vary depending on how you enjoy your sessions & how your partners are. I’ve enjoyed 1 hour sessions & 2 hr sessions also. I love to talk & take my time so 90-120 minutes is perfect for me. However i’ve also had threesomes where there was zero chemistry & i couldn’t wait for the whole thing to end. Lol
Anything less than an hour is a waste in my opinion.
An hour or two is a good sweet spot, especially if it's your first time meeting either or both of the ladies. Though I do feel like my best duos have been dinner date duos, because they allow everyone to get comfortable with each other before the "main event" haha and good food is honestly a great form of foreplay for me & many of my colleagues.
An hour or two is a good sweet spot, especially if it's your first time meeting either or both of the ladies. Though I do feel like my best duos have been dinner date duos, because they allow everyone to get comfortable with each other before the "main event" haha and good food is honestly a great form of foreplay for me & many of my colleagues.
My advice:
Now, if you want to reach legendary level / no financial constraints:
After this first stage, I book them both for an entire evening — minimum 6h to 12h.
It’s expensive, but the selection is so good that they basically become friends lol.
Now I’m planning the next step: a 2-day duo trip to a chalet or something.
- You don’t know either of them > 1h
- You know one girl only > 1h or 90 min
- You know both of them already > 2h+ (budget permitting)
Now, if you want to reach legendary level / no financial constraints:
- Book them each for 10h spread throughout the month.
This way, you get to know them well enough to sense their vibe, preferences, and sexual orientation.
After this first stage, I book them both for an entire evening — minimum 6h to 12h.
It’s expensive, but the selection is so good that they basically become friends lol.
Now I’m planning the next step: a 2-day duo trip to a chalet or something.
Not under 1 hour honestly. I used to be very shy with duos when I first started but recently I started feeling more comfortable and getting wild. A duo goes by very fast because there's a lot of action.. So I recommend booking 2 hours.. Or a dinner date 
I normally do 2+ hours but with some reason behind it.
When I book duos I only do it with one of a few established Indies with whom I am comfortable already and another, new to me, established Indy who is on their list of preferred duo partners.
For this I expect two experienced people who are comfortable together already, and that has so far borne out to be true.
Another reason for longer duos is that I'm older and I take longer between SOGs, so there's intermissions in between.
Then the real risk is that I won't get along with the other SP, but professionalism tends to prevent that and so far, so good.
Since I'm already with an Indy that I know and trust, they tend to curate things should they not go right.
If it were with new-to-me younger agency girls, I'd keep it to 2 hours or less as I feel the risk of having a bad experience increases with that many unknowns.
And yes it is a very expensive hobby indeed!
When I book duos I only do it with one of a few established Indies with whom I am comfortable already and another, new to me, established Indy who is on their list of preferred duo partners.
For this I expect two experienced people who are comfortable together already, and that has so far borne out to be true.
Another reason for longer duos is that I'm older and I take longer between SOGs, so there's intermissions in between.
Then the real risk is that I won't get along with the other SP, but professionalism tends to prevent that and so far, so good.
Since I'm already with an Indy that I know and trust, they tend to curate things should they not go right.
If it were with new-to-me younger agency girls, I'd keep it to 2 hours or less as I feel the risk of having a bad experience increases with that many unknowns.
And yes it is a very expensive hobby indeed!
Two hours is hardly sufficient for a duo experience. You mentioned having had many duos, would you be willing to share your experience ? I'm currently seeking an exceptional hot duo, but nothing has quite captured my interest yet.
Is there someone who really thinking to book for a 15 min duo? lollll
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Been thinking about this & the best answer that i can give is that there isn’t really a perfect answer. Everyone is different & all situations are different. For example my very threesome happened totally by accident & i have already discussed it in other posts. Two girls showed up instead of one & they were already well over an hour late. By the time they showed up i figured they never would & i figured i’d end my evening by watching something on tv. But when two girls showed up instead of one i was caught way off guard and said “Omg! Am i about to experience my first threesome?” So many things came to mind & yes you can say that i got nervous as hell! I think i must have almost had a panic attack! Lol. By the time we got started the whole thing probably lasted twenty minutes at the most. I was so incredibly turned on my the moment, if you know what i mean! Lol. What i’m saying is that yes indeed one hour can be totally fine depending on the time of scenario that you prefer doing. Personally i like to take my time, relax & take breaks so i’ve enjoyed sessions that lasted more than an hour. But i’ve also had seesions that lasted an hour mostly because my partners couldn’t stay longer. Other times i’d book for 90 minutes or two hours & the ladies would ask to begin minutes after they’d arrived & by the the time we were done we’d have well over one hour left to kill. Often we’d end up crossing over to the adjoining room & meet up with a buddy of mine if he wasn’t ‘busy’. So really…there is no perfect answer.
One time a buddy of mine who never did more than one hour dates (he was a real cheapo!) called me & told me he just a had a threesome & the ladies wanted to come & see me. For what reason, i asked? He said that he had told them about me & they wanted to meet me & try me out. I told him that i was seeing someone in an hour. No problem, he said. He’d send them now. Right now? Why right now? He replied that the girls already had a booking lined up so they could only come now. I was confused so i asked him how that would work. He explained that he had booked them for an hour & since there was still a half hour left he could send them over. “You had a threesome that lasted only a half hour?”, i asked. “Twenty minutes actually.” I thought it over. This was too last minute. It likely meant i barely would have thirty minutes with them & i hated to be rushed. Plus i had a date lined up in an hour & i wanted to be fresh for that date. But the real reason i declined the offer is that my buddy always claimed he had an 11 inch cock & i figured if they saw me right after they’d been with Mr. Big it would make me seem like PeeWee Herman! So i said thanks buddy, maybe some other time! Later that day i admitted to him the real reason why i declined & he laughed his head off! Lol
One time a buddy of mine who never did more than one hour dates (he was a real cheapo!) called me & told me he just a had a threesome & the ladies wanted to come & see me. For what reason, i asked? He said that he had told them about me & they wanted to meet me & try me out. I told him that i was seeing someone in an hour. No problem, he said. He’d send them now. Right now? Why right now? He replied that the girls already had a booking lined up so they could only come now. I was confused so i asked him how that would work. He explained that he had booked them for an hour & since there was still a half hour left he could send them over. “You had a threesome that lasted only a half hour?”, i asked. “Twenty minutes actually.” I thought it over. This was too last minute. It likely meant i barely would have thirty minutes with them & i hated to be rushed. Plus i had a date lined up in an hour & i wanted to be fresh for that date. But the real reason i declined the offer is that my buddy always claimed he had an 11 inch cock & i figured if they saw me right after they’d been with Mr. Big it would make me seem like PeeWee Herman! So i said thanks buddy, maybe some other time! Later that day i admitted to him the real reason why i declined & he laughed his head off! Lol
I have had alot of threesomes abroad and in terms of Mtl, haven't had one in well over 10 yrs. I always take the lead in threesomes, so the SPs are carefully chosen so that they are more submissive in nature and prefer to be lead.
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