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Halloween Mike

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Oui j'ai lus ca. genre le groupe de 40 qui on annuler car ca leurs "tentais pus". Esti que c'est chien ! Le depot c'est 10$ mesemble ca va etre. Mieux que rien mais on s'entend que c'est peut-etre la moitié d'un repas de base (et sans breuvage, sans dessert genre).
 

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Le depot c'est 10$ mesemble ca va etre. Mieux que rien mais on s'entend que c'est peut-etre la moitié d'un repas de base (et sans breuvage, sans dessert genre).

Je pense que le fait de donner un vrai nom lié à une vrai carte et un vrai numéro, ça risque de calmer bien des gens... mais pas tous.

C'est en effect dégueulasse de ditcher la réservation.
 

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Il y a une différence entre un no show à un établissement comme un restaurant et une personne qui est travailleuse autonome et s'est préparée, a changé son horaire pour un RDV...
Oui. Ce que je voulais mettre en relief, c'est l'attitude de certains clients, qui est la même que ce soit les clients d'un restaurant ou d'une escorte: un je-m'en-foutisme et un égocentrisme que l'on voit trop fréquemment dans notre société moderne.
 

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Oui. Ce que je voulais mettre en relief, c'est l'attitude de certains clients, qui est la même que ce soit les clients d'un restaurant ou d'une escorte: un je-m'en-foutisme et un égocentrisme que l'on voit trop fréquemment dans notre société moderne.
Je suis d'accord, mais je pense qu'il y a un manque de respect particulièrement dérangeant envers les travailleurs autonomes en particulier parce qu'il s'agit d'un individu et non une entreprise.

Ici on parle des no show et des ''time wasters'' mais l'attitude méprisante, égocentrique et violente de certains clients (ce n'est pas la majorité, mais en tant qu'escorte nous devons faire face à ces clients parfois) en général, envers les travailleuses du sexe, est vraiment anormale, voire presque pathologique. :)
 

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Well I’m going in a different direction I booked today for 1130 I confirm this morning everything is fine. As the sp is about 20 minutes away I confirm again at 1100 she’s says I’m waiting for you. Great I arrived text I’m here. The reply sorry but I’m not able to see you until 5pm omg what a waste of time. I understand things change but a simple text at any point and I would have understand. Now I’m horny want a girl and upset not a good mix.
 

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Perso ça me dérange quand les gens précisent qu'ils sont blancs en intro parce que c'est absolument pas dans mes critères de sélection, la couleur de peau d'un client, et ça ne m'indique rien de très utile.
I seen many ads where the SP is asking to indicate your race in the intro, so if they are White he will say he is white because the ad asks to state it. I personally avoid ads that ask to state your race. I am brown and we are a victim of stereotypes.
 
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Well I’m going in a different direction I booked today for 1130 I confirm this morning everything is fine. As the sp is about 20 minutes away I confirm again at 1100 she’s says I’m waiting for you. Great I arrived text I’m here. The reply sorry but I’m not able to see you until 5pm omg what a waste of time. I understand things change but a simple text at any point and I would have understand. Now I’m horny want a girl and upset not a good mix.
I'm really sorry this happened, however I'll offer a different perspective. If you are told that you can't go to work for a few days, for no reason, and you won't get any paycheck, how are you going to feel? Is it different from being frustrated because you're horny?

Both clients and providers look forward to bookings, it's fun to meet someone new or hang out with a person you're getting to know or developed a relationship with, the difference is that this is our job. :)
I seen many ads where the SP is asking to indicate your race in the intro, so if they are White he will say he is white because the ad asks to state it. I personally avoid ads that ask to state your race. I am brown and we are a victim of stereotypes.
Yes but our ads don't ask for that information. It's unnecessary. Really often guys will introduce themselves as "white, 40".. I always ask them "Is your name white?" A lot of them refuse to offer a name lol. If you read my ads you saw that I don't discriminate.
 
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Yes but our ads don't ask for that information. It's unnecessary. Really often guys will introduce themselves as "white, 40".. I always ask them "Is your name white?" A lot of them refuse to offer a name lol. If you read my ads you saw that I don't discriminate.
I know you do not do that as I seen your ads. I meant there are others who do that. They will write, state your name, date, length of appointment, and race. So if I where White, as per the ad I would write my race even if White. Me personally, I would avoid booking with a SP that want to know your race.
 
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Last time I got cancelled I left early to park downtown (was on a sunday) and I had just found a spot after 10min of driving around when I got the message lol.

I wasn't happy with this.
 
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I know you do not do that as I seen your ads. I meant there are others who do that. They will write, state your name, date, length of appointment, and race. So if I where White, as per the ad I would write my race even if White. Me personally, I would avoid booking with a SP that want to know your race.
Yeah I know but my point is if somebody offers this information it shows they have not read my ad.. and it shows they think it's going to reassure me that they're white, which is suspicious to me.
Last time I got cancelled I left early to park downtown (was on a sunday) and I had just found a spot after 10min of driving around when I got the message lol.

I wasn't happy with this.
I can only speak for myself but if I have to cancel an appointment it's because there's been an emergency, or I'm very sick. As providers we have to maintain a good reputation.. so I can only assume that's the case with her too.

Otherwise I'm sorry this happened. :(

I just want to note that even if we love our job, being a provider can be challenging and you can't provide a good service unless you are in a good place mentally and healthy.
 
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Yeah I know but my point is if somebody offers this information it shows they have not read my ad.. and it shows they think it's going to reassure me that they're white, which is suspicious to me.
Yes in the context of your ad, I agree with you. If the ad does not ask to state your race, then saying you are White is not needed.
 

hob12

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Otherwise I'm sorry this happened. :(

I just want to note that even if we love our job, being a provider can be challenging and you can't provide a good service unless you are in a good place mentally and healthy.
I understand that and tbh as long as I didn't start moving towards the location, I don't really mind the cancellation all that much. That one was just especially irritating after I fought the whole town during 10min to look for parking lol.
 
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I seen many ads where the SP is asking to indicate your race in the intro, so if they are White he will say he is white because the ad asks to state it. I personally avoid ads that ask to state your race. I am brown and we are a victim of stereotypes.

Yeah I understand that, was just saying that it's weird to volunteer that information when it isn't asked for (like when the ad doesn't mention it). I was giving my opinion regarding the people who say it systematically for no reason, but of course I understand saying it if the person you're asking wants to know!
 

Halloween Mike

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Saw a provider today on Insta (work account) who posted that a guy litterally made her waste her time on purpose. He litterally got a kick at doing it. And she is right it then all fall on us serious clients later because it lead to deposits or other things that i wish would not exist (in an ideal world). Really felt bad for her.
 

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Pour revenir à la question initiale: il y a eu plusieurs articles dans les médias sur le phénomène des "no shows" en restauration. Les restaurateurs observent la même chose: une hausse des gens qui ne se présentent pas pour leur réservation, sans aviser. Le gouvernement a passé une loi qui permet maintenant d'exiger un dépôt (sounds familiar?)

Cela s'inscrit dans la dégradation générale des normes sociales que l'on observe depuis les dernières années. En gros, le monde n'a plus de respect.
Oui .. mais encore ce n'est pas la majorité qui veuillent en donner... on perds beaucoup de clients quand on demande des dépôts
 
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