Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

Rebaynia said:

Lol... I'm a girlfriend, and the kinkiest stuff is reserved for my master/bf. Clients don't get to enjoy the wildest parts of me. It takes trust and love to make the kink fun rather than traumatic.

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Fradi said:

While everybody has some kind of kink or perceived to be that by others it was not what I was talking about.
Call me old fashioned or a romantic or whatever. I actually believe and lived being totally in love with someone who returned that for over 35 years.
There is absolutely nothing that compares being with the one you love, the one you share your life with, your dreams with, have a family with.
A paid for fantasy with an SP pales in comparison whatever it includes and it is over the minute you walk out the door.
Perhaps I am just not kinky enough lol.

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Fradi said:

While everybody has some kind of kink or perceived to be that by others it was not what I was talking about.
Call me old fashioned or a romantic or whatever. I actually believe and lived being totally in love with someone who returned that for over 35 years.
There is absolutely nothing that compares being with the one you love, the one you share your life with, your dreams with, have a family with.
A paid for fantasy with an SP pales in comparison whatever it includes and it is over the minute you walk out the door.
Perhaps I am just not kinky enough lol.

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Rebaynia said:

LoL. The type of bdsm devotion I am talking about takes the kind of love you are talking about. I just took the vanilla romantic version and translated it to the ultimate M/s relationship idea of the same love.

Some people just have different needs from their life partners. The husband/wife regular style doesn't work for everybody. Some of us find therapy in the insane.

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Rebaynia said:

Lol... I'm a girlfriend, and the kinkiest stuff is reserved for my master/bf. Clients don't get to enjoy the wildest parts of me. It takes trust and love to make the kink fun rather than traumatic.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I feel the same way. There are things I won't do with a client that I'll do with a partner I have romantic feelings for.

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Enjoying life said:

Yet a former female partner would not do certain things as she was not comfortable like talking dirty with fetishes but I found the perfect SP that would and I felt so free without being judged who was very comfortable! Go figure! Just find with my own appetite the over all sex with fetishes is best with an SP

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Enjoying life said:

It’s too complicated with a GF as I do not need that as I need to fully enjoy not partially So I listened to my soul!

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Fradi said:

I don’t understand why you need a girlfriend or an SP.
Seems your good at answering your own posts so why not just answer the calling yourself and save yourself a pile of cash.

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Enjoying life said:

I need an sp just like you do! I saved my pile of cash already

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Enjoying life said:

It’s too complicated with a GF as I do not need that as I need to fully enjoy not partially So I listened to my soul!

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Rebaynia said:

Not everyone is compatible.

You do you. Only you know what works best for you. Enjoy as you see fit. . I'm sure your SP is enjoying the time too. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Have all the fun you want.

I was just suggesting if you have such extreme desires, you were just finding a gf in the wrong place. It is like any other dating, not everyone is compatible. Some have more extreme desires than others. It's about vetting who is compatible, so you don't have that kind of push back, you might even find someone more extreme than even you, to push you further as well.

If you ever are looking for more than SP. But sounds like your choice SPs satisfy your needs pretty well.
It is your life, no one can tell you how to live it.

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LC18 said:

Treating a woman with respect is the bare minimum and doesn’t mean you’re entitled to have sex with her. Just because you held the door open for a woman, it doesn’t mean she needs to give you her phone number

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LC18 said:

That’s bare minimum

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LC18 said:

Why not letting things flow organically instead of reaching out to people and saying “hi I’m looking for a regular” lmao

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