Are agency dates discreet/private?

I think this fear that we will share your personal information as indies is not really founded even if I can understand somehow. What would I have to gain from doing this? Screening is important for my safety but there are different protocols and we're not asking for your social insurance number. I've never shared people's private information and unless you are doing intending on harming somebody you have nothing to worry about in my opinion...

jabbee said:

My concern is quite the opposite, in fact I trust Tryst indies but feel like my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information I don't mean Id, name or whatever - I don't even give that to Tryst indies, often choosing a big deposit instead. For me, when I'm meeting, who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

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But another woman knowing this "information" is fine...?? I don't understand. This is a business transaction why are you so uncomfortable at the thought of a male agency owner knowing youre meeting with one of the agency girls? What makes it okay if she's a female agency owner?

It feels like you think being a client is emasculating and you're intimidated by the idea of another man knowing you do this. It's a little irrational regardless of the thought process in my opinion. I'm not trying to be judgemental I'm just genuinely puzzled and think you should ask yourself the right questions haha

LC18 said:

Are agency dates discreet/private?

No, they come to your hotel with a voice amplifier and neon lights I AM COMING HERE TO SUCK THIS MAN’S DICK

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I tought about making that joke for a second but decided not to, but then i noticed someone actually did it


OP, seriously you just parano. Like everybody i saw movies when i was younger and yeah my first time i was nervous thinking maybe it was a police sting or whatever because i was young, inexperienced, and i only had been on this board for a few days, but after virtually EVERYONE telling you that you overbloat things for nothing, you should get the hint.

If you worry for "privacy" to the point of being worried a driver or a random booker that will only see a number and a text could be a concern, then maybe this hobby is simply not for you. You think Indies don't do "networking" behind the scenes... A lot of them are friends with each others and pass the infos. Every location you gonna visit, be it hotel or incall condo, has a good chance of being equiped with cameras in the lobby/exterior so your face is recorded.

The reality is its 2025... Unless you some ultra mega rich dude that will have everything handled by his "personal concierge", while bringing the SPs on your boat for the fun time, the reality is its impossible to not leave "some traces" at all.

jabbee said:

my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

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There is pretty much 3 persons total that will know this "information". The provider itself (duh!), the booker, and potentially a driver if you use outcall and the lady don't drive herself (wich can happen). Thats it. 2 of these peoples will never see your face... And a driver is really just doing his job and won't care where he dropped the SP once his shift is over. If its a common spot (like Chabrol for instance), its even less "personal" as they likely drop women there so often anyway.


Guys or Gals booker is completely irrelevant in a day of texting IMO. Back then when i had to call i won't lie i was even more nervous/intimidated if the booker was a woman. I felt it was easier to talk to "one of us". But during the last 10 years i probably talk to a booker on phone maybe 2-3 times and it was because there may had been some misunderstanding or i got lost trying to find the incall. You don't really talk to them any more... Its all done in a few texts.

Anyway ultimately you do whatever you want, but this thread really look silly to me. Do you know that even known peoples when they book in high end agencies (for pornstars or influencers for instance) they need to provide name and other screening infos? And yet they have a lot to lose if that get discovered. But these agencies are pro and unless something very unfortunate happen (like FBI busting or such) your infos won't be pass around.

jabbee said:

My concern is quite the opposite, in fact I trust Tryst indies but feel like my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information I don't mean Id, name or whatever - I don't even give that to Tryst indies, often choosing a big deposit instead. For me, when I'm meeting, who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

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Are you a politician? Are you an actor? If not, no one knows you. I could understand the concerns of you were well known, I would think about it twice if I were famous and needed companionship

Please, pick someone that advertises on merb, very professional and personable. You can even read reviews and if there was any security breach you’d know

Don’t take it the wrong way but no one cares about you and who you see. No one will follow you, no one will even notice that you’re entering a building to see someone. Other people have their own lives and they’re busy

From my opinion.
Indy or agency girls.
Some could not care less who you are. Some are REALLY good at finding you on linkedin or facebook afterwards.
For those it has just been curiosity. Never had anything bad happen

Maybe this hobby isn't for you...

Nothing to worry about with Indies or agencies. Agencies have 1000s of clients, they’re busy with bookings, managing schedules, SPs, etc.

They have many things to do besides caring about your private info. lol!
Everyone is telling you the same thing. But if you’re still worried, this hobby is not for you.
Or stick to Indies, like you’re doing.