Are agency dates discreet/private?

[Julia Sky]

My concern is quite the opposite, in fact I trust Tryst indies but feel like my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information I don't mean Id, name or whatever - I don't even give that to Tryst indies, often choosing a big deposit instead. For me, when I'm meeting, who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

But another woman knowing this "information" is fine...?? I don't understand. This is a business transaction why are you so uncomfortable at the thought of a male agency owner knowing youre meeting with one of the agency girls? What makes it okay if she's a female agency owner?

It feels like you think being a client is emasculating and you're intimidated by the idea of another man knowing you do this. It's a little irrational regardless of the thought process in my opinion. I'm not trying to be judgemental I'm just genuinely puzzled and think you should ask yourself the right questions haha

 

[Halloween Mike]

Are agency dates discreet/private?

No, they come to your hotel with a voice amplifier and neon lights I AM COMING HERE TO SUCK THIS MAN’S DICK

I tought about making that joke for a second but decided not to, but then i noticed someone actually did it


OP, seriously you just parano. Like everybody i saw movies when i was younger and yeah my first time i was nervous thinking maybe it was a police sting or whatever because i was young, inexperienced, and i only had been on this board for a few days, but after virtually EVERYONE telling you that you overbloat things for nothing, you should get the hint.

If you worry for "privacy" to the point of being worried a driver or a random booker that will only see a number and a text could be a concern, then maybe this hobby is simply not for you. You think Indies don't do "networking" behind the scenes... A lot of them are friends with each others and pass the infos. Every location you gonna visit, be it hotel or incall condo, has a good chance of being equiped with cameras in the lobby/exterior so your face is recorded.

The reality is its 2025... Unless you some ultra mega rich dude that will have everything handled by his "personal concierge", while bringing the SPs on your boat for the fun time, the reality is its impossible to not leave "some traces" at all.

 

[Halloween Mike]

my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

There is pretty much 3 persons total that will know this "information". The provider itself (duh!), the booker, and potentially a driver if you use outcall and the lady don't drive herself (wich can happen). Thats it. 2 of these peoples will never see your face... And a driver is really just doing his job and won't care where he dropped the SP once his shift is over. If its a common spot (like Chabrol for instance), its even less "personal" as they likely drop women there so often anyway.


Guys or Gals booker is completely irrelevant in a day of texting IMO. Back then when i had to call i won't lie i was even more nervous/intimidated if the booker was a woman. I felt it was easier to talk to "one of us". But during the last 10 years i probably talk to a booker on phone maybe 2-3 times and it was because there may had been some misunderstanding or i got lost trying to find the incall. You don't really talk to them any more... Its all done in a few texts.

Anyway ultimately you do whatever you want, but this thread really look silly to me. Do you know that even known peoples when they book in high end agencies (for pornstars or influencers for instance) they need to provide name and other screening infos? And yet they have a lot to lose if that get discovered. But these agencies are pro and unless something very unfortunate happen (like FBI busting or such) your infos won't be pass around.

 

[LC18]

My concern is quite the opposite, in fact I trust Tryst indies but feel like my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information I don't mean Id, name or whatever - I don't even give that to Tryst indies, often choosing a big deposit instead. For me, when I'm meeting, who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

Are you a politician? Are you an actor? If not, no one knows you. I could understand the concerns of you were well known, I would think about it twice if I were famous and needed companionship

Please, pick someone that advertises on merb, very professional and personable. You can even read reviews and if there was any security breach you’d know

Don’t take it the wrong way but no one cares about you and who you see. No one will follow you, no one will even notice that you’re entering a building to see someone. Other people have their own lives and they’re busy

 

[Flyingby]

From my opinion.
Indy or agency girls.
Some could not care less who you are. Some are REALLY good at finding you on linkedin or facebook afterwards.
For those it has just been curiosity. Never had anything bad happen

 

[TheJames101]

Maybe this hobby isn't for you...

 

[Gazoo64]

Nothing to worry about with Indies or agencies. Agencies have 1000s of clients, they’re busy with bookings, managing schedules, SPs, etc.

They have many things to do besides caring about your private info. lol!
Everyone is telling you the same thing. But if you’re still worried, this hobby is not for you.
Or stick to Indies, like you’re doing.

 

[Marsouin]

My concern is quite the opposite, in fact I trust Tryst indies but feel like my information is (edit: would be) passed between too many hands when using an agency.
By information I don't mean Id, name or whatever - I don't even give that to Tryst indies, often choosing a big deposit instead. For me, when I'm meeting, who I'm meeting and where I'm meeting is information.

Well don’t ask question if you have already decided beforehand which answer you will accept.
Since you already built a little world in your head about this .. please stop wasting our time.

 

[CydoniaNights]

Not 100% relevant to this thread but many years ago but i once had an sp from a reputable agency tell me that sometimes other agency girls will hangout at the incall during another sp’s session with a client and just chill and watch in secret like a voyeur. She then stated that it wasn’t presently the case and that we were alone. But Idk if this was an isolated case or she was just messing with me but since than i’ve always questioned that its possible im not fully alone.

And no i didn’t have the courage to actually check if someone was with us in the room, if they were they did a good job hiding.

 

[jabbee]

Well don’t ask question if you have already decided beforehand which answer you will accept.
Since you already built a little world in your head about this .. please stop wasting our time.

You're the one wasting your time replying

post #6

but think from the few responses I got I'll just stick to indies

post #7

Will just stick to indies it looks like.

post #17

But yeah at this point I'm just responding to feed the discussion lol, my mind is pretty much set on continuing with trusted indies as my perceived risk is too big with LL and agencies.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Not 100% relevant to this thread but many years ago but i once had an sp from a reputable agency tell me that sometimes other agency girls will hangout at the incall during another sp’s session with a client and just chill and watch in secret like a voyeur.

The Incalls i been to have mostly been "small" like usually its one room that is a kitchen and a living room area, then you got the bedroom and the bathroom. If another SP would hide to be a "voyeur" i wonder where she would be... I never noticed any other presence in the incalls i been to. But those consist of the major agencies in general. Im still "fairly new" to using incalls more often so when it comes to indies i can't say i seen a ton at their incalls but the few i saw were in hotel rooms and again, they were obviously alone.

But to be honest this seem very stretched... Why would an SP waste her own time hiding to watch instead of making money? Only case i can see this scenario being somewhat "plausible" is if 2 SPs share an incall, one is booked and the other is not, so she chill in the living room while her friend receive a client. But those are usually more the likes of Leolist low ends... Not high end indies.

 

[Marsouin]

Mods .. time to put a lock on this thread..

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Mods .. time to put a lock on this thread..

I agree

 

[CaptRenault]

What makes a woman pimp a better option than a man pimp from your perspective as a client?

You never miss a chance to use the disdainful term "pimp" to characterize all agency owners and/or employees. Do you have equal disdain for the clients of agencies...or maybe your own clients?

 

[skarsga]

Privacy is an illusion. Your finger prints (digital and physical) are everywhere.
If you are meeting a relative stranger, anything could happen (though overwhelmingly probably greater than 99% nothing happens when meeting reputable indies/ agencies)
Hate to burst your bubble, but that is true even when meeting one of your trusted tryst ladies.
If you want total safety with a stranger and can't take any chances, you could sit on your hand for a few minutes and pleasure yourself in a dark room...

 

[DouMan]

So first of all, I tried my best looking that up using the search and the guides but didn't find that my question is addressed.. sorry in advance if I missed an obvious post or guide

I was always curious about agency girls but due to valuing privacy and discretion a lot - not married or else lol, just want the information to pass through as few persons as possible - thus only had sessions with indies on Tryst up until now. I'm still curious about agency girls though as I haven't really found what I wanted on Tryst and LL isn't worth the effort to not get scammed for me.

Are there any incalls possible when using an agency? If not, how does it work privacy-wise - meaning who else apart from the booker would know about the session? Are there any women-owned agencies (I don't know about communicating with a guy to get a session with an agency girl, it just doesn't sit right with me and I'd rather not include other men in my session planning lol).

Well at least you seem to have narrowed down your options to your preferred choice.

Please indulge in a little question, if I may ...

When you go to work, how many people do you feel are noticing or watching you?
When you go to meet your accountant for your income taxes, same question?
When you go meet a SW, same question, how do you feel in this case?
Of course this is very subjective but I'm sure you understand the nuance.

Chill out bro and enjoy the privileged moment you are offered.

 

[Halloween Mike]

You never miss a chance to use the disdainful term "pimp" to characterize all agency owners and/or employees.

I really don't like this word either. Especially in reference to the agency owners who we do business that have been (for the very most part) really helpful and nice to us. To me its as derogatory as using one of the bad words to describe an escort. But we already had this conversation with Julia in another thread and she seem very stuck on it. At this point can only say agree to disagree.

 

[Julia Sky]

You never miss a chance to use the disdainful term "pimp" to characterize all agency owners and/or employees. Do you have equal disdain for the clients of agencies...or maybe your own clients?

I wouldn't have seen this comment had Mike not replied since I have you on mute (you should try it, stop torturing yourself and mute me already baby boo <3).

I don't know how you came to the conclusion that I hate my clients because I call a pimp a pimp - can you explain the thought process in details? Not that I'm likely to read your reply since, again, you're muted on my end, but it's a good thought exercise.

 

[jabbee]

Well at least you seem to have narrowed down your options to your preferred choice.

Please indulge in a little question, if I may ...

When you go to work, how many people do you feel are noticing or watching you?
When you go to meet your accountant for your income taxes, same question?
When you go meet a SW, same question, how do you feel in this case?
Of course this is very subjective but I'm sure you understand the nuance.

Chill out bro and enjoy the privileged moment you are offered.

"If you don't have anything to hide why are you so against institutionalized surveillance" type of comment

Let me indulge in a few responses if I may:
- I work remote
- I don't meet my accountant
- I take any necessary measures to not offer myself to cameras or people - often just means I'll go by car and only meet after 9-10pm

 

[jabbee]

I wouldn't have seen this comment had Mike not replied since I have you on mute (you should try it, stop torturing yourself and mute me already baby boo <3).

I don't know how you came to the conclusion that I hate my clients because I call a pimp a pimp - can you explain the thought process in details? Not that I'm likely to read your reply since, again, you're muted on my end, but it's a good thought exercise.

I wonder if you'd find it acceptable that someone else call you and your colleagues any of the many pejorative words for an SP, because a _ is a _...

We have a saying in French for that... c'est l'hopital qui se fout de la charité lol