What's something you wish more SPs provided?
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It all sounds way more complicated than it should be. First of all what makes you think SP wants to see you on HER private trip?
If you are already a good client, you could ask her what she thought about it.
As you pointed out, taking SP to Japan would not make sense. Why don’t you just see girls from there?
If you are really keen to go on a trip with your favorite SP, I would start by going somewhere close for 1 or 2 nights.
Never said you had to do it, i just wish it was offered more often. And honestly, anything can be learned. I understand that some people dont like it and just dont do it and its OK but i just think it could be something more SPs could offer. It would make the scene a bit more kinky and open minded. I never talked about doing anything non-consensual, ever. Wtf....
To use your example, its as if someone started a thread asking what you wish restaurants offered more and then i said : "Bacon and eggs" and then you're like : "Well not everyone is confortable offering bacon and eggs!!! Are you trying to force them into making bacon and eggs?!"
I mean, why did we have to go down this path....
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"And honestly, anything can be learned. " It's not like learning to throw a javelin. There are physical limitations like IBS and other issues some providers have. Even if someone does get used to anal there are a wide variety of potential health complications like anal fissures and issues with the rectal muscles that can result. Even some gay male couples don't do anal or do it very sparingly due to the many complications.
In cinema anal looks easy or like it's just a matter of comfort or needing to loosen up with toys but in practice anal is not really possible for many providers and most providers aren't willing to divulge their full health/medical info to illustrate how anal is not really a matter of learning.
It's ok to have not known this. Everyone has things they can learn.
I know some sps that go on trips for pleasure and still work (and announce it). Would they rather see a rando in a foreign country (whose laws/treatment of sws/enforcement may differ from ours) rather than a regular they've seen before in their home country? Maybe, but it seems likelier that they would rather deal with a known commodity. As for why I would rather see someone I know rather than a rando in a foreign country, that's a preference I guess. I'm not looking to fuck everyone around the world. If I have a great time with an sp here, and there's a mutual connection, each subsequent visit gets hotter and hotter. Add a cool new place to explore together and I think that's the ultimate GF experience, no?
The sp is already visiting someplace they want to go, they get to offset some of their trip expenses by working a bit, AND with someone they *hopefully* already enjoy spending time with. IDK, seems like a win all around.
If a provider goes to another country and advertises it, isn’t it just touring?
Not going to lie it doesn’t sound convenient but the places I want to visit aren’t so popular I’m afraid
Not going to lie it doesn’t sound convenient but the places I want to visit aren’t so popular I’m afraid
Yeah, like I said, it's already a thing. Do more of that, please. All over the world so I can fly-myself-to-YOU.
I’m unfortunately too private to share that publicly
You should go and read your previous comments. Here Im gonna help you; you said : <Anal for sure, i really don't understand why an SP wouldnt offer it... i mean it's your job ! Why don't you do it fully ?> and <And as a sex worker i guess you could try to offer variety and get used to those things. You dont have to do it all the time but at least having it on the menu....>
So you are contradicting yourself now. Again, its OUR BODY your talking about. My job is not do to anal and I dont need to learn to love it either. And like : @jeffmathers said, there are physical limitations too. Im glad he mention IBS because I have it. Tell me how I can learn to not poop on your dick with IBS. Im waiting
Im glad he mention IBS because I have it. Tell me how I can learn to not poop on your dick with IBS. Im waiting
Who cares about IBS? He wants anal and we should all offer it no question asked
I’m totally joking
I should do it one time with a client who insist just to traumatize him and surely he will never ask that again lol
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Worth remembering that the back hole evolved to be an exit, not an entrance. Trying to circumvent this is stretching it (pun intended).
I'd be into doing art projects together, some bricolage, maybe if she plays an instrument, a little concert..we could even play together, or a book discussion group for regulars
During 3+ hours booking, with some clients it happened that we played videos games, dancing, spa or pool, eating, watch music videos, massages etc. I even trained 2 client's dogs during long booking hahaha
Edit: My comment was a reply to the comment above from Parmenides but I messed up lol
Edit: My comment was a reply to the comment above from Parmenides but I messed up lol
I think it's important to make it clear! I know if you are a multiple shot guy it must be frustrating if someone doesn't let you have a second round, but people don't offer it automatically for various reasons.. I think it all depends on what the SP can take and it also depends on the client.
That's my jam hehe
Honestly so many ppl have it or other issues and shoving anything up there will cause a horrible burning sensation.. lol it's not about ''learning how to take it''. I've tried, and I didn't like it.
I offer other things to compensate..
