DFK is absolutely and definitely not more normalized in Montreal than in other places, unless by "normal places" we mean American cities. As always, individuals make their own choices. YMMV.
Why isn’t “BJ only” a standard service?
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DFK is absolutely and definitely not more normalized in Montreal than in other places, unless by "normal places" we mean American cities. As always, individuals make their own choices. YMMV.
In Vancouver DFK is less common also than Montreal. I have only seen 3 Toronto providers and all of them did DFK but 3 is a small sample size. But in Vancouver DFK is definitely less common than in Montreal. What cities is DFK as "normal" as it is in Montreal. And yeah you're correct as am I about the US.
I lived in Vancouver for a long time. I would agree that DFK is not common among asian providers, any more than it is here. I would also agree that there's a hell of a lot of asian providers in Vancouver. lol. However, once you step outside of the asian providers DFK is more common in Vancouver than it is here, and while times are certainly changing and I won't speak to right this second, DFK was rarely charged as an extra. Also, DFK is completely normalized without much discussion, if any, on pretty much all the rest of the planet, at least in common mongering destinations. Europe perhaps a little less so.
I've never been to an Asian agency but yeah maybe my sample size is just not big enough.
In returning to the ‘BJ only w a commensurate rate decrease’ OP question, I agree that it’s not a common thing to see on menus, but I am seeing it more and more from Indy providers, esp ones that bundle it with massage services ( but also seeing it as a stand-alone service).
I get what you’re looking for, and in my opinion, the best strategy is to just ask. If you see a provider that appeals to you but she only has GFE/FS rates listed, just fire her a respectful message and ask her if she offers BJ only rates (I specify CBJ or BBBJ as that makes a difference, and I also make it clear I’m not looking for a hh or h session). Sometimes I’m in the mood for only that, sometimes I’m short on time, and I’ll sometimes use: ‘Hi, I find you really attractive but I’m pressed for time today, do you offer a blow-and-go rate?’ Often the response is no separate price, but often I’ll get a ‘sure, here’s the price for just that’. It will never be the ‘considerable price decrease’ you mentioned in one of your posts (for all the excellent reasons provided by the providers who’ve chimed into the thread), but to me it often makes the difference in booking a quick session and busting a nut and maybe making a good new connection, or passing altogether.
And while not the intent of my approach, an added bonus is that if they are a new to you provider you can test the waters - if it’s just mehh, you’re only out the reduced rate, if it’s great and you click there’s always the option to ask for an upgrade to FS if you’re feeling it, or if either of your schedules don’t allow it then and there, repeat with better knowledge of what you’re getting into.
TLDR: Just ask a provider that you’re interested in if they provide a BJ only rate. Many do.
I get what you’re looking for, and in my opinion, the best strategy is to just ask. If you see a provider that appeals to you but she only has GFE/FS rates listed, just fire her a respectful message and ask her if she offers BJ only rates (I specify CBJ or BBBJ as that makes a difference, and I also make it clear I’m not looking for a hh or h session). Sometimes I’m in the mood for only that, sometimes I’m short on time, and I’ll sometimes use: ‘Hi, I find you really attractive but I’m pressed for time today, do you offer a blow-and-go rate?’ Often the response is no separate price, but often I’ll get a ‘sure, here’s the price for just that’. It will never be the ‘considerable price decrease’ you mentioned in one of your posts (for all the excellent reasons provided by the providers who’ve chimed into the thread), but to me it often makes the difference in booking a quick session and busting a nut and maybe making a good new connection, or passing altogether.
And while not the intent of my approach, an added bonus is that if they are a new to you provider you can test the waters - if it’s just mehh, you’re only out the reduced rate, if it’s great and you click there’s always the option to ask for an upgrade to FS if you’re feeling it, or if either of your schedules don’t allow it then and there, repeat with better knowledge of what you’re getting into.
TLDR: Just ask a provider that you’re interested in if they provide a BJ only rate. Many do.
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