I had my worst day in my 16+ years in this business. Had to happen one day.

Fradi said:

If you made a deal with the agency then why are you bringing it up.
I doubt they think part of the deal was for you to vent on Merb about it.

Personally if I feel bad enough to vent then I will name the SP otherwise my venting is of no benefit to anyone else.


You had one bad experience in 16+ years seems to me for someone who is no Brad Pitt by his own admission is a pretty good batting average.
I doubt any SP could say the same about the clients they get to see lol.

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I do not mention names, so it does not hurt their business in any shape both the agency and the SP.

You do understand the concept of "venting" right? There is threads in the lounge made about everything and anything. Its not the goal to "benefit to anyone".

I had "bad experiences" in the past, but nowhere "this bad". I mean meeting that were disapointing for various reasons but services were still provided etc. That said it was only a few thanksfully.

CLOUD 500 said:

Lol This is what I do not get. This defeats the purpose of a review board. She gave you a crap service, she insults you in the worst possible way by saying she does not like your dick and here you are concerned to protect her reputation?? She deserves to be outed. The agency is no better because they gave you money to silence you.

This folks is why these days the service is getting worse and will keep on getting worse. I seen a rising trend of Johns protecting the SP even though she gave a bad service then comes to Merb to complain. This thread should be deleted or at least closed. It serves no purpose.

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I accepted the deal so i am gonna respect it. I could had refuse and it could have became a thugwar of escalation. But ultimately its preferable it ended this way. I still lost some money but not "too much". Think it this way. If it was really just a me problem, then some other guys may have fun with her and all is good for them. She will keep working and great for her. If she end up doing something similar to other clients, then who knows maybe she won't stick in the business because agency may fire her, or she may want to quit herself, i dunno. According to her it was the first time something like that happened. So lets say she is getting a second chance (not by me but in the business i mean). Maybe she will learn from it (and on my side i learned a lesson too).

Fradi said:

I fully understand venting lol but do it only when there is a reason and I don’t vent to total strangers as they don’t give a fuck anyways.
To me a bad encounter is a complete bait and switch or when you are in danger of being robbed or blackmailed.

The fact that a girl may not like my personality or looks I put it down to life or shit happens and will even consider that I am the problem before complaining.
Luckily I can afford to lose a couple of hundred bucks and for sure I will not be seeing someone again that didn’t work out so I don’t consider it a big deal.
Big deals are things that effect your family or health, anything I can solve by throwing money at it I consider an annoyance and something easily solved.

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I was alone in my hotel room and this board was the only place i could do it. Im not gonna put that kinda stuff on my personal FB or call my mother ... lol. Its an escort board, we talked about bad experiences before, its just they didn't happened on the spot. It was my turn to have one. Thats just it really.

I am not easily impressed (good luck to someone that would threat my security ...) and i would refuse an obvious bait and switch on the spot. As for blackmail bah .. in my case there is nothing to blackmail really. So these are not situations that i can see be a big issue. I always prepared myself being turned down by an SP and im not gonna say it would not hurt my feeling but at least i wouldn't lose money. What bothered me in this case was that it had "started" and money was already banked.

As for the money aspect well thats the difference between you and me. 300$ for me is money i saved for a meeting for a while. Nowadays i try to wait til i have enough for 2 so i can make 1 trip and save on transport and hotel etc but you get the picture. Obviously health is the most important part, but money is a big thing for me indeed.