The case of the missing 20$ - Anyone else got this ?

[felixLg]

This week I was lucky to finally book one the the "Always fully book girl". I wont name her,

But something happen that I am curious to see if it did happen to anyone else.

First, as already mention, I've been around for many years, So I know the drill in how to handle paiement, etc.

I got to the location fairly early as always, got the time to prepare the cash, I always prefer to count it before leaving my car, putting it in my pocket ready to be hand out when I get into the apartment. It was 280$, So I had 4x50$ and 4x20$

Got into the condo, I put the money on the counter, and counted in front of the lady , pointing to the 4 50$ and the 4 20$. Went to the shower, we did our thing, which was really great!

Then I headed back to the shower, came out of the shower, and with the money still on the counter, she tell me there is 20$ missing. Did not argue, gave her another 20$.

But I am absolutely certain I had the right amount,

First time this trick happen to me,

 

[urquell]

This week I was lucky to finally book one the the "Always fully book girl". I wont name her,

But something happen that I am curious to see if it did happen to anyone else.

First, as already mention, I've been around for many years, So I know the drill in how to handle paiement, etc.

I got to the location fairly early as always, got the time to prepare the cash, I always prefer to count it before leaving my car, putting it in my pocket ready to be hand out when I get into the apartment. It was 280$, So I had 4x50$ and 4x20$

Got into the condo, I put the money on the counter, and counted in front of the lady , pointing to the 4 50$ and the 4 20$. Went to the shower, we did our thing, which was really great!

Then I headed back to the shower, came out of the shower, and with the money still on the counter, she tell me there is 20$ missing. Did not argue, gave her another 20$.

But I am absolutely certain I had the right amount,

First time this trick happen to me,

you handled it correctly. No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe. It might have for you anyway. Paying the extra $20 was the way to go though. However, if I was positive about the funds then I would never go back to see her again. Since you can't prove it then you can't really make a public accusation either, but that wouldn't stop me from telling me friends about it quietly. Word gets around.

 

[2fast2slow]

when i give the payment, i prefer it gets taken and put away right away. The thought of it laying on the table throghout our encounter would bother me somewhat. Once i made a payment in a mp room, then the girl left the room to get something and left the cash on the table. Some girls are just lax, until there is a problem.

Could be a "trick" in your case. I know the feeling, you counted many times...

You could say "I prefer you put the money away now" with a smile.

 

[felixLg]

you handled it correctly. No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe. It might have for you anyway. Paying the extra $20 was the way to go though. However, if I was positive about the funds then I would never go back to see her again. Since you can't prove it then you can't really make a public accusation either, but that wouldn't stop me from telling me friends about it quietly. Word gets around.

Given I know how much money I had got out of the bank, the math also work to prove my point.

Actually the session was so good I would return, but will handle it differently.

 

[urquell]

Given I know how much money I had got out of the bank, the math also work to prove my point.

Actually the session was so good I would return, but will handle it differently.

I couldn't support someone that I knew had stolen from me, no matter how good the session was. Not a judgment of you, just my personal inclination

 

[Gazoo64]

I couldn't support someone that I knew had stolen from me, no matter how good the session was. Not a judgment of you, just my personal inclination

I agree with this. First of all, I think the OP did the right thing by giving her the extra 20 and not arguing about it.

Having said that, if the OP is certain that the amount he gave was correct, I would never see the SP again.

I can’t handle dishonesty, someone stealing from me, or being lied to. But that’s just me, to each their own!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe

She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

 

[Jacob Israel]

She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

If we don’t know who it is. This post is completely useless tbh. OP can have her by himself if he desires it.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I always put the payment on the counter after I take the shower to prevent situations like this. And I agree with Jacob Israel, it is a useless post without a name of who it was. Why write these kinds of things if you do not want to disclose who it is. Not the first time I see this.

 

[LeDodo]

She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

Yes at least I would have emphasized on the counting in front of her but I agree on not booking her again no matter how good it was ...

 

[Daniel86]

Personally, I count the money in front of her and I ask her to verify. I rather take a minute to avoid this kind of situation where someone might believe that the other tried to scam the other.

And, AFAIK, is she met you, it makes little business sense to burn a potential regular for 20. If you're absolutely sure that you were right, sorry for your loss but I had two bill that got stuck together often enough that I wouldn't feel confident to assume thief if it happened only once with a service provider.

 

[urquell]

She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

Question of personal perspective then. The argument I would have with her and the potential for eacalation wouldn't have made it worthwhile for me at $20. For a larger amount? Sure. But not for $20. If I'm putting a price on my time then the even 5-10 minute discussion over the discrepancy wouldn't have been worth my time either, at a total potential maximum value to me of $20 without discounting the hassle.

The OP has also said he doesn't want to name the SP and while I'd also prefer to know I'm not willing to discount the possibility of $20 falling behind the furniture/bill stuck together/ honest mistake either. While I believe the OP, the circumstances are such that a mistake is possible and I probably wouldn't publicly tarnish somebody's working reputation publicly over such a trifling amount. A few quiet "be carefuls" to others and never booking her again would be enough for me. In any case it's an academic exercise and the OP appears to have learned from it so at $20 I'd consider it to be a very cheap lesson.

 

[felixLg]

Just to clarify, I dont care about the 20$. I see about 2 girls per week, so its not about the $, wont make a difference.

I find It sad that a reputable girl, which is always book, would play this cheap game. And so you know, I got some direct DM, naming the same girl....

So maybe a pattern here.