How to quit the Hobby/Addiction?
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Ill just put my most recent experience on this, as you can see from my account, ive had it a while but never really posted.
Bottom line, last year i wanted to see SP's but i didn't feel good about myself so i started working on it, yet while seeing SP's, i just coudln't perform in bed, so i did the whole thing, work on myself, loose weight, get checked medically and yet there is one thing i never looked and it was my porn usage. Ive come to realise that watching porn and beating my meat for the past 20 years have wired my brain to only be excited by that. it was a daily usage and sometime more than once per day but it changed me... Now im in for the fight of my life to change that habit along everything else so that i can maybe be normal again? Idk it's kind of difficult to come to that conclusion that i might never have a normal sex life.
Bottom line, last year i wanted to see SP's but i didn't feel good about myself so i started working on it, yet while seeing SP's, i just coudln't perform in bed, so i did the whole thing, work on myself, loose weight, get checked medically and yet there is one thing i never looked and it was my porn usage. Ive come to realise that watching porn and beating my meat for the past 20 years have wired my brain to only be excited by that. it was a daily usage and sometime more than once per day but it changed me... Now im in for the fight of my life to change that habit along everything else so that i can maybe be normal again? Idk it's kind of difficult to come to that conclusion that i might never have a normal sex life.
It's happened to me more frequently as of late and I've figured out that it's mostly a blood circulation issue. I used to be self-conscious about my stamina, how long I last in bed so got to doing kegels every day and my stamina improved noticeably. But then I noticed that I have no trouble getting hard but it takes longer than usual to regain a boner once initially lost i.e. after I spend a lot of time on foreplay (I love to eat). Which wouldn't be a big issue if I had more than one hour at my disposal but clock's a-tickin'. So after reading up, I realized that I eat very little in the way of fruits and vegetables so my circulation isn't tip-top. What I now do is eat a bar of dark chocolate the day of and my performance shows a marked improvement. You should look into similar foods that boost the circulation, I wish you the best of luck.
Of course, a daily porno habit doesn't help things. Try to limit how often a week you set time aside for a sesh. I'm not advocating drastic, excessive approaches like NoFap (that's for serious addicts), what might be up your alley is something closer to LimitedFap.
Strategy to help quit the hobby
Much like one can ask Loto-Quebec to be banned from their establishments in case of problematic gambling (https://bienjouer.lotoquebec.com/en/self-exclusion) one could ask agencies to ban one's phone number. Not sure if anyone's ever done it.
Much like one can ask Loto-Quebec to be banned from their establishments in case of problematic gambling (https://bienjouer.lotoquebec.com/en/self-exclusion) one could ask agencies to ban one's phone number. Not sure if anyone's ever done it.
Another strategy is to get off Merb entirely and save the money you would have spent on SP to book yourself a nice vacation in a warm location for a week this winter.
That may not work... You easily get the impulse to book especially on vacation.
I guess I don't understand. I was going to type something, but I decided against it.
Maybe save the money and donate it to somebody you know who needs it, or to an organization that helps underprivileged people.
Or buy your mom, your wife or your kids a really nice present.
Still, get off Merb.
"What can change the nature of a man?" is reference from an old (1999) role-playing video game Planescape: Torment. one of the best ever; although with "text walls" that were not easy unless you were a hardcore fan, kind of think about a predecessor of "Disco Elysium"
It was the central philosophical question explored by the game and the ultimate answer provided by the protagonist,, is belief:
whatever you truly believe can change a man's nature, does.
my personal choice was "regret" ... you had to pick yours, from a list of like 15, but it didn't matter which you pick gamewise
So if the OP sincerely believe he can quit. then he definitively can
As per myself: I need sex at least 2 or 3 times a month, and I am kind of a loner, so sex work fits perfectly. I know that if sometime I fall in love, I will quit and become a one-woman-only man, I tend to hope I will
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