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There's no "real rape" vs "fake rape", so please stop saying that. I've already explained how sexual assault legislation works and there's nothing about rape in the criminal code anyway. It's also not your place to determine what "real" rape is or isn't. We wouldn't be "adding a new type of...

I mean, if you see being a rape apologist as a difference of opinion, sure. That's what rapists can tell judges going forward: Your Honor, Christian32 from merb has a different opinion. The use of the laughing emoji by @CLOUD 500 and yourself, considering the topic, is really disturbing and...

Are you sure about that? Like, are you really really sure about that? Maybe at least try a quick google search before your confidence leaves you looking a bit silly with your foot up to your ankle lodged into your mouth. Several of you have outed yourselves as clearly unsafe and...

I should mention that not every situation feels the same. At least, for me it didn't. I've had 3 incidents and I can say that only the last of those experiences felt like sexual violation. I had no strong opinion about it beforehand although I did believe the providers who did feel it was sexual...

I was not making assumptions and gave you the benefit of the doubt by asking what you meant. If you write something that is offensive and objectionable, are offered the opportunity to clarify but decline, then you can't blame others for what they make of your words. It's great if you've always...

That's so disingenuous and condescending. No, you do not support us and I'm not sure how your words were misinterpreted as what you gave us is a big bowl of word salad. If your intention was not to argue, you would have done as others have and....not argued. I think it was wise for you to move...

. Ok now that I've read the reply addressed to me, I'm a little more clear on some things but your comments are still very ambiguous. Some of the points you've tried to make in both replies by using different wording appear to confirm some of my initial interpretation of the reply addressed...

. . I'm super confused about what exactly you're saying. It would be appropriate therefore you agree with us? But then, what does this mean: This sounds completely fucked up but I'm not sure what exactly you're trying to say. You totally lost me. So I actually have no idea what you're...

I've explained it. I've provided a parallel example (stealthing) that is considered sexual assault & I've communicated that many others who have experienced it also see it as non consensual sex (aka sexual assault) & process it similarly to other types of sexual violence. I'm not sure what...

I'm really glad your situation was resolved. I'm curious. Are you in Montreal? The issue is the person could not even have the money so while they can charge him in theory, many worry about outing themselves in the process. Or if it's an incall, drawing attention to themselves by having the...

I know, I realize that. But that's the least common type of sexual assault/rape. So I think it's important to detach from that idea. It's a spectrum and not only the most extreme and violent assaults are important. In fact, a lot of the "non brutal" rapes are committed by people already known...

I don't think anyone said it's a brutal rape. Where did anyone say it was they equivalent to being beaten and robbed? And is seems to be the only scenario some men think of when they think of rape and sexual assault. That's not the case. I'd like to point out that my body is still my body and...

You're doing something illegal, but give it a try. But why would it have anything to do with sexual assault? It'd be theft or fraud. If you were doing something legal. :p

Totally different situations. Why would they think of money. Money has nothing to do with the dynamics in that context. What would stealthing be called then? A prank? It's (client not paying) never been tested in court but one day it might be and who knows. Stealthing wasn't considered sexual...

It most definitely is. Consent is conditional on payment. If you know she would not engage in sex if there was no payment, I'm not sure how you can ignore that no consent exists where payment is not made. It is NOT a one night between consenting adults ;) Supreme Court majority confirms...

There are different levels of severity of sexual assault. From what I understand, that's how the criminal code in Canada is created. Rape doesn't exist as a charge. It's all sexual assault, and the severity determines the specific charge. I'd do a bit more reading about it because it isn't a...

Yes it's happened to me in Montreal. I worked several years in Vancouver, Calgary, Edmonton & other cities and never had this happen before. If stealthing is Sexual assault (it is), so is this. No consent = sexual assault. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Consent is 100% dependent on...

. . It's in Toronto. It'd be interesting to see the police do it in Montréal. Link to original Please just discreetly pay your provider up front & don't make them have to ask. xx

I don't get it. One of you is saying she was dressed in different clothes so that means she doesn't shower between appointments....and the other is saying she was dressed in the same clothes so that means she doesn't shower between appointments.. Which one is it? And how does what she's...

6-12hrs is definitely reasonable for people who are available same day. 15 min is not lol It's really different for everyone. Someone who is in school, has a civ job, has to drive 2hrs into Montreal for incalls, other things going on... all situations that can affect how much in advance someone...