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Wow! Fantastic post.

Thanks for these informative responses on the agency percentage. It's an important consideration for me when tipping.

I'm sure this has been asked many times but what would you all say is the average percentage that Montreal agencies take? How much of the $250/hour (for example) that the client pays goes to the SP? I'm not merely being curious; it helps me to think about how much I tip the SP.

It's worth noting that the pill played a central role in the US feminist movements of the 1960s and 70s. The pill was seen as the key to reproductive freedom and sexual autonomy for women, and it remains for many an important way for women to have control of their bodies. But I get your point...

I was going to say something similar. I think especially of middle school and high school students who take their phones for granted (and laptops and iPads, etc). I was probably out of college before I owned anything as expensive as an iPhone--and that was my first car.

If posting here increases your anxiety, and especially if it's not helping you professionally, then "toning down" makes good sense. I for one, though, appreciate your candor and thoughtfulness, and I've never found anything you post to be off-putting. So thank you for all your contributions to...

Your comments came across as thoughtful, considerate, and ethical. I appreciate them. Respect!

Do you charge extra for an outcall to a 4 or 5 star downtown hotel? I do have my limits....

You're not intruding at all and I appreciate your response! I'm genuinely curious what part of my post seemed to raise a red or orange flag. I'm especially interested in what part seemed to push boundaries, since I am ALL about boundaries. I don't ever want to do that, in person or in...

I was being serious, and I love them, too!--though I meant it more as a general policy question. A lot of men seek acronyms and innuendo (CIM, MSOG, greek), and I've been there, but these days I often seek nonsexual experiences (in addition to playtime) that might not show up on an SP's website...

This is kind of off-topic and maybe a question for a mod but I've wondered about whether SPs can reach out to members, hoping for a date. (It happened to me a few times years ago but not recently.) Also, is it within MERB's policies for a member to post an ISO and encourage SPs to respond with...

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I had no idea. After I read your post, I did a search and found many articles on this situation, including a couple that discuss the use of AI and facial recognition. What a world. Anyway, I appreciate the education out here.

I know I'm being dense but why is traveling difficult for an SP? Also, to this morning's conversation, I like when escorts ask me questions. It shows an interest in me and not just my wallet or lusts. I know how to protect my privacy, so I'm not put off by it. Of course, I tend to like...

It makes total sense. I've used one agency for eight or nine years, and if I book an indy then the agency is always my back up. As I said above, I don't really consider that a "plan." To use your example above, it would be like saying that if the coffee shop is full, you can always stroll over...

Sure, that's easy! Like many, I enjoy the research. But I would never book more than one girl, with one as a backup. So if it's 7pm, I just got the cancellation notice, and I find myself high and dry in a hotel room, then it's an agency hail mary or I fly solo into the night...

I'd like to add a somewhat different perspective to the Plan B advice because it presumes that the one and only goal of a date is getting off. It's a version of "any port in a storm"; if your three-hour date with your regular falls through, then a last-minute incall with a random lady will have...

Wow. Just wow. I’ve enjoyed cbj for many, many years and I never knew any of this. Now I can’t wait for my next cbj! I’ll be more mindful and considerate of her experience… and that will make it even more pleasurable for me!

Thanks for responding, Luna! I remember buying flavored condoms many years ago: banana, grape, and mint. I'm guessing that condoms have caught up with the chic culinary times and now come in cilantro, quinoa, sun-dried tomato, and tamarind. And their sizes could follow the Starbucks approach, so...

Thanks, Giselle. I'm sure you're right that I mean lubricant. And, sorry, do you mean hold the condom tight so that it doesn't come off, or hold the taste in your mouth? I have found that most providers do come prepared--but not all! I once had a comical hour in Las Vegas with a provider as we...

I've often wondered about this. I play it very safe in my indulgences and actually prefer a cbj. I've only had one SP complain about it but I can certainly see that it may be unpleasant for a woman. Are flavored condoms any better? It has become harder to find condoms without spermicide--but I...