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I never said you could force people to not have racist preferences. I said you can't force people to pretend they're not racist preferences when they are. Then it's on them if they choose not to work on why or if they do nothing about it. Pretty basic stuff.

Of course we have the right to choose not to see certain clients. The men who think they're owed our time & we don't get a say in who we see because they're paying need to get a clue. Like most SP's I've known, I decline a fair number of requests. There's a big difference between declining an...

@Doc Holliday You had a great post earlier. I went to like it and got an error because you'd deleted it :( Anyway, I enjoyed reading it

You just literally described what stereotyping is...so, uh, thanks for saving me the trouble, I guess. :P

Awww, you're using a buzzword instead of thinking about a different point of view. Aren't you original! It's not really that complicated if you understand the difference between attraction and fetishization. and are capable of self-reflection as to why you might be fetishizing if this is the...

Not to say that many of the white men who seek WOC are not racist as well but simply express it by fetishizing instead rather than blacklisting. ;)

I think every SP has had far more of these experiences with white men. We've discussed this in the past. My clients are not 90% white. Screening and refusing clients based on race, ethnicity, or skin tone has nothing to do with safety. Any provider who claims this is either lying or dumb...

One of my favorite words ever, when someone deserves it, is to refer to them as a fucktwat. Lol I agree, twat is a great word. Anyway.. About Elon Musk's plans... You might find this thread interesting :

I don't think it's necessary at all to be throwing numbers. Some of us have other income and aren't interested in doing sex work full time and several bookings daily. We all have different reasons and goals. Some have big financial goals, and some find it convenient to be able to live...

Neither did I say that. I'm confused how you understood that I was saying that? Not at all what I was writing. I didn't take anything personal. That's literally the advice I gave on another post that was unrelated to yours or my response to it. Lol In my response to yours, I said weight/height...

Merb members are just a different demographic. I didn't go through all the posts, I got stuck on replying to the 2nd one lol but I wouldn't expect much variety in the answers. Don't take it personally. It's never been representative of clients in general and won't be any time soon. Too much...

This made me lol Guys, this literally doesn't mean anything whatsoever lol :p I guarantee you have been with women heavier than that but you had no clue & assumed they weighed less. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those women you claim were 140, genuinely weighed between 100-115lbs. A...

Your poll is very reasonable. You're excluding the 15-45 minutes in advance crowd. It still amazes me when someone assumes they can just come over 'now' or in 15 minutes. I can understand maybe *wanting* to, but *expecting*? Are there actually many (any?) providers who can drop everything to be...

Interesting. I had a few exchanges on reddit with someone who wanted to do this. Mind you, she'd had boyfriends, sugar daddies and had done everything imaginable sexually except for vaginal penetration. So she's was a virgin. But she was a very sexually experienced one lol I wonder if it's her...

It is so not a "muslim thing" lol I don't even know where to start

Nah I haven't had the opportunity in a very long time but wouldn't bother now. I did it as a kid because I was the only one who didn't like oysters, so my mother had me 'at least' try the juice. They had the oyster eating set up in a specific room so it was something to do instead of just...

The thread is about why some women do and some don't. How is the fact that some women find it gross irrelevant? That's the most relevant answer to the question. Why else? Read the several comments referring to oysters. What I might think is gross is relevant for me. Money doesn't change that and...

I'm Canadian. https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/health-concerns/diseases-conditions/sexually-transmitted-infections.html I'm not trying to start an argument either but I'm definitely not wrong on this. ;) The World Health Organization, The Public Health Agency of Canada...

Just a small correction. They're no longer called STD's but rather STI's Or to be accurate it's Sexually transmitted blood borne infections (STBBI) / En français: Infections transmissibles sexuellement et par le sang (ITSS). Just saying... Disease is more stigmatized. That's why it was...

Shocking. Providers work for money. That's so weird The day I see one of you do, I might consider... Nah I won't. Taste it, just on your finger. Then tell me you'd swallow a whole load. It is from your own body. Shouldn't be gross, right? Why don't you gulp it down and report back? :D...