99% of sp and mp have a bf ?

[drew6987]

A former sp and a current mp told me that 99% of the girls in this industry have a bf. do you guys think thats true, does it bother you, do you really care or does it excite you.

 

[blkone]

I don't see why it would bother me, so I don't really care. Her personal life is none of my business.

 

[kingstrahd]

I don't care at all. Her personnal life is none of our business I think and it's between the two of them.

 

[voyageur11]

Good for them but its their personal life not of our business

 

[montreal_monk01]

A former sp and a current mp told me that 99% of the girls in this industry have a bf. do you guys think thats true, does it bother you, do you really care or does it excite you.

close to reasonable stats based on what most sps told me. no, i do not care since i am not looking for romance, just having fun with the lady without the drawbacks of a relationship

 

[drew6987]

yeah but they said that 90% of the guys have no idea that their girl is doing this. so it not really good for them, maybe for her.

 

[Killbill007]

My girl friend she's a well known sp/mp i know what she did as i told her i don't want know what she did with her clients and she earn much more money than me a week

 

[montreal_monk01]

yeah but they said that 90% of the guys have no idea that their girl is doing this. so it not really good for them, maybe for her.

you are right, that is what they told me too
but few are faithful nowadays. my own wife is surely making out with the milkman when i am not around.
it is not fun reality to face, but it is the reality

 

[Joe.t]

I personally don't give a rat's ass as long as they do what I hire them to do which is give me GFE service(awesome DFK to be specific).:nod:

On another note have you ever seen what some of these boyfriends look like, some of them look like they just got out of prison, but hey, if that's what they(Sp's) like as boyfriends more power to them, who am I to judge.

 

[Vajatron]

The term "boyfriend" can describe lots of relationships. Some SPs/MPs consider their pimp their bf. Some consider their sugardaddy their bf. Some consider their baby's father their bf. Some consider certain friends with benefits their bf. Modern boyfriend/girlfriend relationships can get pretty complicated.

 

[somebodymtl]

do you guys think thats true: no idea
does it bother you: not at all
do you really care or does it excite you: don't care

 

[TheDon]

I would never bring up the question of whether or not an SP has a boyfriend.

I am hoping that if they do have a boyfriend, he does not know about her SP ways and if he does then be a man and provide for her!!!

 

[hungry101]

Don't care.

 

[simonpaul]

Me also i don't care.The sp can have a private life.

 

[anon_vlad]

Quite a few have told me that they wish they had a boyfriend, but can't due to their occupation. They said that the type of guy who would tolerate it is not the type they want.

As for it mattering to me - only if it matters to the SP. In some cases, I have had great service from an SP who was dropped off by her boyfriend. In three other cases, I was told no more LFK or some other GFE activity as "I have a boyfriend now." In each of the latter cases, I never called her back.

 

[Merlot]

The term "boyfriend" can describe lots of relationships.

:thumb:,

Yes, the term is so loosely used in today's world it could be anyone the lady is being intimate with if only just for sex. That's not a boyfriend/girlfriend in my book.

It shouldn't matter if she does have anyone or not, though I personally have drawn the line against any lady I know is married. If we want to participate in this hobby we have to see it as a business relationship, not a dating scene where we start probing into their personal lives. So whether she does or doesn't is irrelevant.

However, just for the sake of numbers I find 99% ridiculous. It's possible, and I'm sure many clients try to cross the business line, so she has every opportunity if she wishes to pick someone. Still, I've know some of the hottest and most sought after escorts because of their service performance and charm and a number of them were often not in a real BF relationship at the time. They were dating, maybe wishfully hoping an intimate partner would turn out to be a BF, but it was often something transitory lacking that real SO connection.

I believe that for a significant percentage of escorts their situation is a lot like everyone else outside the hobby. They're looking, not looking, hoping, experimenting, think they have someone, unsure, just partying, etc. It would be only a guess to put a number on it, but for 99% of escorts to have a BF seems impossible. I think the real situation is much closer to how Vajatron described it, and similar to how it is for good looking girls outside the business...often transitory. Unless you define BF as just knowing someone to get it on with or someone they're just "hooking up" with it's not 99%.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[Tigers' WOOD!]

Would you volunteer as BF du jour if you get freebies?

 

[daydreamer41]

Most of them tell you that they don't have a boyfriend. I guess they want to create intrigue between you and them, which at the end will never happen.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Do not care either but it could be that they are saying this to keep away possible stalkers. Waitresses in bars put on fake wedding rings to keep the creeps away.

 

[loverboy]

Personally who the heck cares if the SP has a boyfriend?
You are both there for 1 thing only.SEX & a good time.
If the Bf is not aware what his GF is up to on her free time I fell sorry for the BF.If I had a GF that was doing this behind my back I would not feel comfortable & down right upset.
It's like cheating if the other party does not know what their partner better half is doing.