Hello all,
I know many of you deal with more elite agencies which, I am sure, are more accommodating since they I less likely to try to book their ladies one hour after another all night long. Yes, so it is my task to deal with whatever may come from dealing with LDL agencies. Still, during my last few visits the question of deciding on the number of hours has come up often enough to qualify in my view as a "trend".
I seem to be in the minority in this experience, but not alone. It is hard to believe that so few of you have ever been asked to decide how many hours you want with a fairly unknown new you have never met and were never ambivalent about making a firm commitment without before a first meeting. It seems I have read many posts over five years where someone has said they were not sure how many hours they wanted with someone new. If the agent never then said, okay I have to know now how long you want to keep her: then I and a few others have had rare experiences.
Korbel,
One of the lessons I've learned in this hobby has been that picking women at random leads to random results. I remember several years back how Tom of First Time (agency that was since disbanded) sent over a Kim he advertised as 34B-24-34 over the phone. I had read of a well-reviewed Kim from his agency. The Kim who arrived was Rubenesque, upon taking off her heavy winter coat, and at the same time pleasant and sweet. Physically, she was not my type but I went through with the session and didn't pursue certain acts.
One of the more challenging aspects of being a hobbyist is exercising self-discipline and staying within budget. It's tremendously subjective. I dislike throwing away hard-earned money on encounters that are anything less than very memorable or pleasurable. So that narrows the field for me. The type of lady I'll seek out is typically 8+/10 across the board on looks/service/attitude/skill/enthusiasm. Based on posts I've read and pictures viewed, If I were to seek out one of the Asservissante ladies, for instance, I'd probably narrow the field to Caroline, Marie-France, Marie-Eve, and Channel. I'd be willing to pursue 2+ hours with any of these gals. For an unknown woman, if I ever went that route, I'd very likely keep it to 1 hour. If we clicked, there could always be a second encounter downstream. Seeing unreviewed gals sight-unseen often results in many average and below-average experiences. And an occasional dreadful experience.
The superstar ladies tend to be well-known, oft-reviewed, and routinely very deserving of their accolades. Applies to forums like Captain69, ignatzmice, and the Montreal forums. Samy, for instance, is one Montreal woman who has the Richter Scale equivalent of being exponentially more powerful and desirable than her typical peer in this pursuit. Just like an 8.3 earthquake on the Richter Scale has 10 times the ground-shaking movement of a 7.3 quake, Samy is in many ways head-and-shoulders above her peer group, in my very humble opinion. Looks, physique, "mileage", skill, enthusiasm, dedication, personality. You name it. Yet some guys will pick out the most minor physical flaws in gorgeous women and focus on that rather than revel in the unique beauty that the lady brings to bear.
My mentality is that less is sometimes more in this hobby. Sabbiticals are a great way to avoid becoming addicted to this hobby. I once dated a woman who was a genuine 9.5+/10 for both face and body, without exaggeration. Absolutely stunning. With lots of character and inner beauty too. She was in her 20s at the time. She could have easily been a Playmate of the Year in the pages of Playboy. Hands-down. Awesome C-cup breasts with a shape and lift that men quickly noticed. Akin to the famous Nanci Li Brandi centerfold picture in Playboy in the mid-1970s (do a web search), if not more stunning. But she was somewhat reserved and modest. She'd never go the Playmate route. Guys would throw themselves at her. One guy that she treated platonically wanted her romantically; he saw me as a competitor for her affection and wouldn't so much as acknowledge me. A few guys would even drop to their knees and propose marriage upon first sight. And this was while I was dating her. The sad part was that she was physically abused by a couple guys and went through many years of repeated heartache in her relationships, including multiple divorces. I hear she's happily married now and doing well. I mention this because our views in this hobby are rather skewed by our personal experiences. In the real world, extremely beautiful women sometimes have very complicated personal lives. As for the Montreal escorts we've all had the good fortune to meet, we should thank our lucky stars.
Cheers,
Jim