Are there any Indy SPs that offer something similar to a Virgin Experience?

[cyberun]

Are there Indy SPs that offer something akin to the Virgin Experience found in the Netherlands?

Hi all,

As you might have guessed, I'm a virgin. I was wondering if there are SPs in our area that offer something similar to the Virgin Experience that is found in the Netherlands. If you're not familiar, you can take a look at the Virgin Experience service offered at Society Service. My goal here would be to have a good first time, to learn the ins and outs of physical intimacy and sex, and to hopefully better understand women's reality and gain some social skills. Basically to grow as a person, as Society Service claims. Now before I go further, I have not yet made the decision to lose my virginity this way, I'm here to gather some info and add it to my existing pile of info before I make that call.


Now, for background, if that's something you care about. I'm 30 year old virgin dude with a rough upbringing who finally managed to get out of a hell hole of a life. Managed to end my depression and my loser mentality, managed to start socializing and actually enjoy it. I'm at a point where I want to take control over my life an make it the best I can. I feel confident that I'll be able to hookup with a girl by the end of summer. Now of course, with me being a virgin at this age, you might imagine how all I know about intimacy and sex is all in my head, fantasy. My concern is if I lose my virginity in a one night stand, the moment they find out its my first time, it can go either way. Her being open and willing to explain me the basics, or her losing interest for having to teach me something I should know already, who knows? The idea of going with an SP would be that from my understanding, SPs tend to be much less judgmental, which would in theory lead to a better first time.

Alas, let me know what you think, just an ex-looser looking for info

Cheers,
Cyberun

PS: Any ex-virgins here who chose to hire an SP for their first time? How did it go? How was life afterwards?

 

[LC18]

Some of my peers are comfortable with taking virginity and have done it a few times. I think about @Julia Sky

The only issue is that it would set the bar very high for the next experiences in your life

 

[Julia Sky]

Thank you for the mention LC !

Indeed I've seen quite a few virgins. Seeing a pro might place the bar higher as LC pointed out since we are experienced, but it's also a safe and judgement-free way to explore. Just make sure you are certain this is what you want when you decide to take that jump! You'll be welcomed with open arms (and legs but that's a conversation between your provider and you hahaha).

Don't be shy to ask questions or let your provider know if you have any concerns, need a break, or even changed your mind and prefer to stick to a massage or anything else. Communication and consent is the most important thing and a good provider will take time to discuss her boundaries and yours, as well as to make sure/reconfirm you're comfortable a few times during the appointment. At least that's how I go about it and I'm sure many of my colleagues as well.

Good luck and don't overthink it- first times, while never perfect, are almost always scarier in theory than they actually turn out to be in practice

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I love seeing virgin as clients! Good for you for taking your own sexuality into your own hands

 

[Jacobisrael]

Are there Indy SPs that offer something akin to the Virgin Experience found in the Netherlands?

Hi all,

As you might have guessed, I'm a virgin. I was wondering if there are SPs in our area that offer something similar to the Virgin Experience that is found in the Netherlands. If you're not familiar, you can take a look at the Virgin Experience service offered at Society Service. My goal here would be to have a good first time, to learn the ins and outs of physical intimacy and sex, and to hopefully better understand women's reality and gain some social skills. Basically to grow as a person, as Society Service claims. Now before I go further, I have not yet made the decision to lose my virginity this way, I'm here to gather some info and add it to my existing pile of info before I make that call.


Now, for background, if that's something you care about. I'm 30 year old virgin dude with a rough upbringing who finally managed to get out of a hell hole of a life. Managed to end my depression and my loser mentality, managed to start socializing and actually enjoy it. I'm at a point where I want to take control over my life an make it the best I can. I feel confident that I'll be able to hookup with a girl by the end of summer. Now of course, with me being a virgin at this age, you might imagine how all I know about intimacy and sex is all in my head, fantasy. My concern is if I lose my virginity in a one night stand, the moment they find out its my first time, it can go either way. Her being open and willing to explain me the basics, or her losing interest for having to teach me something I should know already, who knows? The idea of going with an SP would be that from my understanding, SPs tend to be much less judgmental, which would in theory lead to a better first time.

Alas, let me know what you think, just an ex-looser looking for info

Cheers,
Cyberun

PS: Any ex-virgins here who chose to hire an SP for their first time? How did it go? How was life afterwards?

It depends if you really want to see an SP. Is it some sort of fantasy. In that case I would say go. If it’s because you don’t want the girl thinking your are virgin you could lie. You are probably not going to tell her you saw an SP if you decide to go with the choice of doing it. If it’s only for the girl not thinking you are virgin avoid it. Since you are virgin many might try to take advantage because you don’t know any better.
Good luck

 

[LeDodo]

Thank you for the mention LC !

Indeed I've seen quite a few virgins. Seeing a pro might place the bar higher as LC pointed out since we are experienced, but it's also a safe and judgement-free way to explore. Just make sure you are certain this is what you want when you decide to take that jump! You'll be welcomed with open arms (and legs but that's a conversation between your provider and you hahaha).

Don't be shy to ask questions or let your provider know if you have any concerns, need a break, or even changed your mind and prefer to stick to a massage or anything else. Communication and consent is the most important thing and a good provider will take time to discuss her boundaries and yours, as well as to make sure/reconfirm you're comfortable a few times during the appointment. At least that's how I go about it and I'm sure many of my colleagues as well.

Good luck and don't overthink it- first times, while never perfect, are almost always scarier in theory than they actually turn out to be in practice

I wish I had access to such knowledge and service back then. My first time was so crappy

 

[Rebaynia]

I have seen virgins as well.
You could bring it up to the provider you choose to see. It's actually more common than you think to be 30 and a virgin these days.