Asking for a photo before meeting a new sp
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No I pick reputable ladies who all have a web sight with plenty of photographs and solid reputations.
I don’t book women from Leolist or Humpchies or any of the sights that are full of scam artists.
My choices are usually Merb advertisers or from Indy companions who also advertise on Merb.
I don’t book women from Leolist or Humpchies or any of the sights that are full of scam artists.
My choices are usually Merb advertisers or from Indy companions who also advertise on Merb.
Several years ago, this was not something we were wondering, and in the past, I wasn't on Merb.
When the girl opened the door and she didn't represent her description at all, I left, I was younger so invincible.
My sentence was: "you brought me once, but not two"
Now I'm on Merb, and I never ask to see the girl's face.
The face may be misleading, a beautiful face isn't a sign of excellent service.
I understand when the girl is super beautiful, we are more open to forgive a less good service.
When the girl opened the door and she didn't represent her description at all, I left, I was younger so invincible.
My sentence was: "you brought me once, but not two"
Now I'm on Merb, and I never ask to see the girl's face.
The face may be misleading, a beautiful face isn't a sign of excellent service.
I understand when the girl is super beautiful, we are more open to forgive a less good service.
If the description of the girl is of interested to me and there are no photos on her profile I will ask for it otherwise I never had a need to ask for one. I only will refuse reputable agencies on Merb where I know the service will be GFE and the photos will be real. Leolist and Humpchies is mostly scams. Fake pics and non-GFE service.
I Never use that leolist stuff. Would imagine there are some really good providers on there, but like special arrangement, it’s too much work. Found pics to be pretty representative in MTL. I’m not fussed on face pics, some pics don’t do justice and some are very flattering, this is in hobby life or real life on a hook up site.
Leolist and Humpchies is much worse then SA and cannot be compared. Humpchies\Leolist is 90% scams. 95% fake photos and girls rarely deliver services are promised. SA is different kind of like dating.
SA is where the girls pretend that they are not screwing you for money and somehow feel much better about it.
I much prefer a gorgeous escort none of that pretend that I am better then them BS with them.
Yeah it is like real dating my ass when was the last time a girl dated someone twice her age for real.
i dont often get much success asking for photos, if ever i do venture into the wild of leolist or humpchies.
either they send you the same photos, or they block you for being too pushy
mind you the ones who give you a hard time for photos, are usually the scammers.
as Fradi said, I stick to known talents, so I dont even have to do that.
either they send you the same photos, or they block you for being too pushy
mind you the ones who give you a hard time for photos, are usually the scammers.
as Fradi said, I stick to known talents, so I dont even have to do that.
I never wrote like conventional real dating but it is kind of like dating in the sense that you got to talk to a lot of girls go on dinners till you find the right one. But if you want to have sex right away then yes escort is the way to go for you. See Jalimon got banned from SA for asking for sex. You got to remember that SA is not an escort site. As for twice her age ever heard of mail order brides? Or just see many men in their 40s or 50s going to other countries seeking a wife? Almost always twice as young as them. Actually there was a girl that I spoke to on AfroIntroductions and I got her on my Facebook. Nothing ever came of that. Not my thing to travel so far away. But she found some old 50yr old man from England and now has a kid with him. They are married.
I never understood why anyone would go that route? It is so risky. I saw Jasmine today and I know I was going to have a good time plus I was not going to get ripped off. First thing is first I noticed how she did not ask to be paid upfront even though I left the donation on the table. Even after we were done I had to remind her to take it. With Humpchies girls the first thing they do is ask to be paid upfront and they will count it. Then after they get paid you got no certainty that she will deliver as promised and there is nothing you can do about it.
In Europe a lot of agencies give their regular clients a passcode on the website which has unblurred photos.
100%
some guys like:
the thrill of TOFTTing and possibly finding a gem
to spend less $
finding someone more local
it used to be fun for me, but then I realized in the long run, I would waste a lot of money doing this.
It only took me 2 girls on Backpage to realize that they are a waste of money ( Fool me once right?). The girls were very beautiful, but they kicked me out of the door after 20 minutes for an one hour session. I feel bad for all of those gents out there who do not know about this forum.
I know you didn’t mean conventional dating and I am well aware of mail order brides
Almost all of them usually involve men twice the age of the women and it is just a way more complicated form of prostitution as far as I am concerned.
Most of these “brides“ can’t wait to get out of the poverty of their countries and the life they have without a future,
Almost none of these end up as a lasting relationship and the men involved end up getting fleeced.
No thanks I will stick to the uncomplicated world of gorgeous Montreal escorts, no hassles, no pretences, all your fantasies fulfilled for the right price.
I was lucky enough to live a life with the woman of my dreams, now I will stick to the gorgeous women that advertise on Merb and Indy companions.
What makes anyone think that if the ad pictures are fake that a request for additional pictures will get you anything but more fake pics ? IMHO the SP real or not will NOT share additional pics with someone replying to an ad. I have seen many who turn out to be false, sometimes better and I will stay, sometimes not better and I just leave, the choice is always up to the client.
If I suspect that the escort isn’t being honest then obviously not going to trust any photo from her. Long gone are the days when one could find hidden gems. These days, young ladies know what they’re worth and how to best cash in on their looks. It’s more cost effective to go w/ the established agencies & indys.
it doesn't hurt to ask obviously but i truly can't picture that many women agreeing to do a unique pic for you, unless she is desperate to book which is not a bad thing but really limiting your hunt imo.
as merbites, we should all know how to do "homework", so you know the consequences of TOFTTing, chances are higher for bad experiences hence the goal of MERB in the first place.
TOFTTers are heroes for reporting back bad experiences
TOFTTers are heroes for sharing gems
TOFTTers should receive sympathy when things go bad? this doesn't make sense to me, that's what they signed up for. Lotta trial and error, big risk high reward.
do you feel bad for someone who didn't win the lottery?
my 2 cents
I will not do a TOFTT on an unknown escort. I know a handful of SP that are amazing and I am sure I will have an enjoyable time with them.
If I still feel that I would like to be with someone I have not seen before, there are at least fifty others with excellent reviews I can chose from, I am not interested in hidden gems or the thrill of the hunt, living dangerously was fine when I was young now I like the comforts of the known.
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