Asking for a photo before meeting a new sp

[Numerati]

When I hobbied it was 95% in Montreal with reputable agenicies and indies so I didn’t have to worry about pics. Only once I rejected a girl but that was it. In Montreal it is very tough to screw up. In Vegas there are some women who are not afraid to post their pics or if you decide to see a porn star you already know what she looks like.

 

[What's My Name]

As been stated yeah more pics proves nothing, because she can send you different pics and from there I think we'll get the hint to not meet. The only time I may ask for pic are when there are no pics, and yes when there are not pics it's a RED flag. And there are pics on the ad why not just do a reverse image search.

 

[CydoniaNights]

I feel like if you even have to ask for photos it’s a red flag. Better off using reliable agencies or indies, for the sake of my wallet.

 

[chowzilla]

How can more pictures not prove something when the additional pictures contains an requested specific hand gesture?

Reverse image search is extremely inefficient, more often than not, the results are inconclusive (not hits online), hence end up being a waste of time.

Nowadays, girls are starting to learn how to crop their pictures so that they don't show up on reverse image search.
Asking girls to send you a gesture pic, most likely are going to get annoyed by you. I can tell you with certainty, asking for pics like this is NOT an industry standard.
If you manage to get a girl to send you that pic, congratz, but I'm pretty sure you've failed quite a few times before reaching a girl who was willing to share that.
An ad that requires you to ask for more pics, because she didn't provide enough pictures, is already playing with fire.
I also realize that you are playing a different game. Since you are asking for this, you are probably looking at ads that are new or unfamiliar. You are already in a low success rate portion of the hobby. To each their own for their experience but I understand your need to ask for these special pictures.
Personally I hate having to pay for bad experiences, so why even roam around the swamp?

 

[GabMart]

I'm surprised how it's interpreted that asking for a face pic should automatically mean that I'm TOFTTing on humpchies. There is for instance the scenario where I'm browsing humpchies or leo and find an interesting girl and then get confirmation here that she offers a service that meets my expectations... I could still have the desire to see her face to make sure she's good looking to me. Even though I think we can generally agree between us who's good looking and who's not there are some facial traits that one a person will find attractive and another will find unpleasing. For instance, I've seen some SPs well reviewed here that had way too much makeup to my taste, while they weren't by any means ugly I would of much prefered a more natural look. Having a face pic would of taken that small risk factor away.

 

[chowzilla]

I'm surprised how it's interpreted that asking for a face pic should automatically mean that I'm TOFTTing on humpchies. There is for instance the scenario where I'm browsing humpchies or leo and find an interesting girl and then get confirmation here that she offers a service that meets my expectations... I could still have the desire to see her face to make sure she's good looking to me. Even though I think we can generally agree between us who's good looking and who's not there are some facial traits that one a person will find attractive and another will find unpleasing. For instance, I've seen some SPs well reviewed here that had way too much makeup to my taste, while they weren't by any means ugly I would of much prefered a more natural look. Having a face pic would of taken that small risk factor away.

in your case its not a toft, but asking for more pics with the face revealed, does not increase the chances of the girl accepting your booking. Your situation is different as well, if she is known and popular, she doesn’t need your extra request to guarantee a booking for her. I know first hand that girls prefer simple bookings, rather than clients who ask extra information. Simple clients are generally easier clients. You have full right to ask for this extra information

the point of me replying to this thread is to point out that asking for extra pics, is not good practice. You can do it, if you get it, good for you, but merbites shouldn’t think this is how things work

picky clients are generally viewed as difficult clients. a lot of girls think this (fact). A lot of girls have accounts here and they are able to identify their clients based on their reviews and they do. Lotta Joes out here have overestimated their game on this review board. Example: A LOT of merbites (excluding vets) claim to have good experiences, know the ins and outs of the industry, have a lot of game with the ladies, yet they are getting ignored/blacklisted along their path... i see it non-stop... and it makes me facepalm and cringe

but hey by all means keep doing you. Whatever makes you happy

in turn you are increasing the value of us good clients

i rather have 10 very good bookings vs 9 bad/so so bookings + 1 cheap very good booking
im pretty sure the odds are worse

 

[Fradi]

There is also other reasons a lot of a girls don’t show their face.
Facial recognition can now be used by border security and they can be banned from the US for life if recognized as an escort during a routine border crossing.
There is also the little matter of not wanting their face circulating on the internet as many have kept this from family and friends and them finding out could cause serious problems.

 

[chowzilla]

And chowilla, you're now calling yourself a better client then me because I ask for proof pictures from pure TOFTT fly-by-night escorts while you don't even book them because you aren't a trailblazer and only stick to escorts that have been reviewed by other guys?

If an escorts is well reviewed, the only thing a client has to do is set up a time (assuming rates and services are known). Life is easy for a client like that lol.

No way man...just to not expect much from asking for more photos, in general. In fact you are opening yourself to girls who will say "arrk tu demandes trop de questions"