I dont blame guys seeing escorts for asking for the possibility of bbfs with them. You are just straight up lying if you think bare is not 5 times better than sex with condom. It is very tempting and almost a primal urge to go raw.
although i don’t partake in the hobby anymore, the idea of asking for bbfs definitely crossed my mind. I would be lying to say i didn’t fantasize about it with some girls. That being said it was just fantasy and i never asked any of the girls i saw for bbfs. I didn’t want to risk ruining a good thing, for 5 or 10 mins of extra pleasure. But I think if any of them had ever offered i would have taken the plunge. Would it be a smart thing to do, probably not, but if it’s too consenting parties opting into it, the risks are their own and they have to live with it. I dont think escorts or clients should be shamed for partaking in bbfs, assuming of course no extortion was involved and both parties were consenting. Yeah there are risks, but there are risks with condoms too. If you think condoms are some full proof shield that protects u from all the STIs you are just flat out wrong.
Chances are most escorts in montreal has done bareback with a client, and i guarantee a significant chunk was propositioned by the girl. The girls will never admit it but they have done it. Some girls will do it for more money, others will do it to keep loyal clientele and some will just do it cause they really like the client and are fine with dropping that boundary, cause guess what, girls love bb too! I have had escorts during my sessions talk about bareback unprovoked, saying how much better it is ext. Very well reviewed girls too.
what you have to remember is, this is a community that puts bbfs in a taboo. You get blacklisted and shunned for partaking in it. So obviously no one will admit to doing it or trying to get it, especially the girls. They can’t afford to be blacklisted by merb or by their agency and lose all that revenue. There are people on this forum who probably fuck escorts raw every other day and you will never know, cause why would they risk telling you? You guys are in a thought circle where the only voices allowed to speak are those against bbfs, so obviously it’s going to sound like so few people partake. For all you know that escort you saw last week who checked the condom 3 times let her sugar daddy fuck her raw the night before.
You might be like, well they are dumb cause they are putting themselves at risk. Well guess what, risk is subjective, everyone values things differently. You think some 50-60 year old with his best days behind him cares if he catches something? Nah man, to him getting to fuck 10/10 20 year olds raw is well worth the risk, a risk that again was never gone, just lessened by wearing protection. The risk is always there, always.
i think i went on a bit of a tangent but essentially what i’m trying to say is bb is the shit and there will always be people looking for it or willing to partake in it regardless of whether or not it is “safe” or not and there will always be escorts willing to go bb, they just won’t advertise it. This community is an eco chamber and doesn’t display the real reality of what escorts and clients do behind closed doors. Not everything is talked about and not everyone is dumb enough to get caught.
edit: for the record, i’m not saying bbfs should be encouraged or the norm. Obviously it’s in everyone’s best interest to use condoms. Just wanted to point out that many people are willing to take those risks, clients and providers alike and that this community does not actually represent how rampent unprotected sex is in this industry.
although i don’t partake in the hobby anymore, the idea of asking for bbfs definitely crossed my mind. I would be lying to say i didn’t fantasize about it with some girls. That being said it was just fantasy and i never asked any of the girls i saw for bbfs. I didn’t want to risk ruining a good thing, for 5 or 10 mins of extra pleasure. But I think if any of them had ever offered i would have taken the plunge. Would it be a smart thing to do, probably not, but if it’s too consenting parties opting into it, the risks are their own and they have to live with it. I dont think escorts or clients should be shamed for partaking in bbfs, assuming of course no extortion was involved and both parties were consenting. Yeah there are risks, but there are risks with condoms too. If you think condoms are some full proof shield that protects u from all the STIs you are just flat out wrong.
Chances are most escorts in montreal has done bareback with a client, and i guarantee a significant chunk was propositioned by the girl. The girls will never admit it but they have done it. Some girls will do it for more money, others will do it to keep loyal clientele and some will just do it cause they really like the client and are fine with dropping that boundary, cause guess what, girls love bb too! I have had escorts during my sessions talk about bareback unprovoked, saying how much better it is ext. Very well reviewed girls too.
what you have to remember is, this is a community that puts bbfs in a taboo. You get blacklisted and shunned for partaking in it. So obviously no one will admit to doing it or trying to get it, especially the girls. They can’t afford to be blacklisted by merb or by their agency and lose all that revenue. There are people on this forum who probably fuck escorts raw every other day and you will never know, cause why would they risk telling you? You guys are in a thought circle where the only voices allowed to speak are those against bbfs, so obviously it’s going to sound like so few people partake. For all you know that escort you saw last week who checked the condom 3 times let her sugar daddy fuck her raw the night before.
You might be like, well they are dumb cause they are putting themselves at risk. Well guess what, risk is subjective, everyone values things differently. You think some 50-60 year old with his best days behind him cares if he catches something? Nah man, to him getting to fuck 10/10 20 year olds raw is well worth the risk, a risk that again was never gone, just lessened by wearing protection. The risk is always there, always.
i think i went on a bit of a tangent but essentially what i’m trying to say is bb is the shit and there will always be people looking for it or willing to partake in it regardless of whether or not it is “safe” or not and there will always be escorts willing to go bb, they just won’t advertise it. This community is an eco chamber and doesn’t display the real reality of what escorts and clients do behind closed doors. Not everything is talked about and not everyone is dumb enough to get caught.
edit: for the record, i’m not saying bbfs should be encouraged or the norm. Obviously it’s in everyone’s best interest to use condoms. Just wanted to point out that many people are willing to take those risks, clients and providers alike and that this community does not actually represent how rampent unprotected sex is in this industry.
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