Asking girls for BBFS
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We should all have gratitude towards the ladies who stood up to these bastards and reported their disgusting behaviour as well as the agencies / mods who acted upon that information and outed / banned these members.
Hope everyone will also take the time to share these predators' information with Stella so they can include it in their Bad Client and Aggressors List. Let us not forget about the more vulnerable SW population these sick bastards may turn to after getting banned from here.
Actions speak louder than words with regards to these matters. If you care about these issues as well, don't be afraid to make a donation to Stella or to volunteer your services if you have a particular set of skills that can be useful to them.
Tao
Hope everyone will also take the time to share these predators' information with Stella so they can include it in their Bad Client and Aggressors List. Let us not forget about the more vulnerable SW population these sick bastards may turn to after getting banned from here.
Actions speak louder than words with regards to these matters. If you care about these issues as well, don't be afraid to make a donation to Stella or to volunteer your services if you have a particular set of skills that can be useful to them.
Tao
Hmmmm from a good number of text messages I received requesting bare back, there is one discriminating conclusion of these sad characters. They are not very bright. Maybe this is nature’s way of clearing them out in the evolutionary process. Like some sort of cleansing of the gene pool. Sad part is there maybe a good number of casualties along the way.
Like my friend Sharky said, there is always two sides of a medal!
If there is dudes asking/hunting, there is also girls accepting/offering!
I'm glad these irresponsible and selfish people get banned by the agencies and here on Merb in the last days.
They are a real threat for the entire community.
But what about the girls that accept or worst offer the service?
I hope these girls got fired immediately like James wrote in his original post or at least receive a serious warning by the agency (or the community for indies) to not repeat again and get tested ASAP!
Few years ago, I have been told the story behind this thread by one of ex-Euphoria SP that denounced another Euphoria SP sharing the same client (no need to ask or PM, I will not divulgate their identity, both are retired now). The client asked her for the service and replied to her after she refused that the other SP accept to provide the service to him!!!
That same story I heard it from different girls in others agencies over the year and I have no doubt this is still happening today!
For dudes and girls asking/offering, take note that one day someone else in the community will know and you risk to be denounced and have to face the consequence of your act!
Gents & ladies, please always use condoms in FS, get tested on a regular basis and don't hesitate to denounce any client or SP that ask/accept this kind of service. This is the only way to keep the hobby safe for everyone!
Sincerely MrP.
If there is dudes asking/hunting, there is also girls accepting/offering!
I'm glad these irresponsible and selfish people get banned by the agencies and here on Merb in the last days.
They are a real threat for the entire community.
But what about the girls that accept or worst offer the service?
I hope these girls got fired immediately like James wrote in his original post or at least receive a serious warning by the agency (or the community for indies) to not repeat again and get tested ASAP!
Few years ago, I have been told the story behind this thread by one of ex-Euphoria SP that denounced another Euphoria SP sharing the same client (no need to ask or PM, I will not divulgate their identity, both are retired now). The client asked her for the service and replied to her after she refused that the other SP accept to provide the service to him!!!
That same story I heard it from different girls in others agencies over the year and I have no doubt this is still happening today!
For dudes and girls asking/offering, take note that one day someone else in the community will know and you risk to be denounced and have to face the consequence of your act!
Gents & ladies, please always use condoms in FS, get tested on a regular basis and don't hesitate to denounce any client or SP that ask/accept this kind of service. This is the only way to keep the hobby safe for everyone!
Sincerely MrP.
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I've been troubled by the increasing number of requests I've been getting for bbfs. I always wondered if there are actually many escorts who accept. I can't even imagine why anyone would but if there are so many people requesting without any shame, does it mean that they are actually getting this frequently? It makes my head explode when I get asked for this. Recently someone took out some kind of contraceptive he described as sperm killer and he couldn't understand that I'm not worried about getting pregnant (I take care of this regardless) but that it was the risk of infections. He just didn't get it. Kind of like the guys who think as long as they don't 'put it in', rubbing their genitals on mine is safe.
I really wish we could post some information about these kinds of things.
I really wish we could post some information about these kinds of things.
Good reflection MrProfiteroles, I hope that there aren't too many agency girls who agree to give this service.
I thought this issue was more on the side of the girls who advertise themselves on AI, LL, Humpchies, A123, at relatively low prices.
These girls don't think about the consequences for themselves and their clients. We are in a time of pandemic, and we are still in a time of ITS.
And some men who have no brains ask and ask.
You have to denounce from both sides of the fence.
It is sad to see a thread like this, but yes, if clients ask about it, it is because some girls offer it. Some clients believe that because they pay us for a service, they have the right to do everything they want. Taking off a condom is rape. Constantly asking for it and making the girl feel bad about not offering it is rape. Crossing boundaries is rape. Some clients are disgusting, yes. But for them to beg for it, some other ladies out there offer it. It is not only about pregnancy, it is about STDS. Trying to rub your genitals in an unprotected way can make you can contract an STD. « I'm clean » is their answer when they ask for it. Most common STD'S aren't « showing », you can be infected without any symptoms. Pushing boundaries when the answer is « no » and the rules are clear is rape. Everytime you receive a request or someone asks for it during a session makes me uncomfortable, I will be firm and I won't be all sweet and lovely. When booking a lady, please remember, she is offering you her purest intimacy, her vulnerability, she accepts to share all of this with you, as you come to her and offer her the same thing. Sex is beautiful, sex is fun. Sex can be so overwhelming and sometimes we can't even describe how it feels. But we have to be safe. I get tested every month. Waiting for the results is always stressful. People do not understand this. And would I go through this for someone's little pleasure because they don't feel nothing with a condom? No, never. This is my health, this is my safety, this is my body, my home for the rest of my life. I do understand the risks of my job. This is why I get tested every month. This is why we are cautious, careful and we do safe practices. But please, put yourself in our shoes. It isn't easy.
I'm happy to see Euphoria and XO are taking girl's back and taking the matter in hands. Thank you for the safety of your girls and for the community. I've heard disgusting stories about certain agencies where their best clients are guys who force girls in BBFS or pushing boundaries. Where girls blacklist clients and they still keep them as clients. They are putting the girl's safety at risk for what 40$, 50$ an hour... Or they do not do nothing while knowing their girl is offering this service. She'll be one of the « top » of the agency...
We are a community. Let's all support each other, doing what we love, but by being cautious, careful and using safe practices. By respecting each other, by getting tested regularly if you are an active hobbyist/client. And SP's should also get tested on a monthly basis.
Thank you!
I'm happy to see Euphoria and XO are taking girl's back and taking the matter in hands. Thank you for the safety of your girls and for the community. I've heard disgusting stories about certain agencies where their best clients are guys who force girls in BBFS or pushing boundaries. Where girls blacklist clients and they still keep them as clients. They are putting the girl's safety at risk for what 40$, 50$ an hour... Or they do not do nothing while knowing their girl is offering this service. She'll be one of the « top » of the agency...
We are a community. Let's all support each other, doing what we love, but by being cautious, careful and using safe practices. By respecting each other, by getting tested regularly if you are an active hobbyist/client. And SP's should also get tested on a monthly basis.
Thank you!
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I really can't deal with this. It's just incomprehensible. I can't understand what the hell these disgusting people are thinking. It really gets to me because I get messages like this regularly.
I get this at least twice a week. I just don't get it.
I get this at least twice a week. I just don't get it.
Would I be right in assuming this is strictly coming from new/inexperienced clients?
I mean... I’ve obviously never been on your side of the fence, but it’s pretty hard to imagine a scenario where an established merbite would randomly drop that kind of request to a SP!!!
Don’t get me wrong: I don’t think there‘s ANY scenario where BBFS inadvertently becomes a reasonable request! But I’d be more inclined to believe a story where either:
#1. The request comes from a clueless noob (and complete f’ing moron) or...
#2. The request comes from some asshole veteran trying to pressure a new girl into it mid-session (his word against hers)...
Asking by text just seems so utterly stupid. You instantly flag yourself as a threat to the girls and the hobby AND you leave clear and obvious visual proof! Way to go!
A lot of clients are not merbites. Some of these requests could be bullshit but I'm assuming that these people who absolutely want BBFS don't want to waste their time and money meeting a lady who is probably going to say no way if they ask in person.
The most disappointing scenario, though, is a regular or someone I've already met and liked, asking after a few sessions.
With all the sketchy ads on humpchies, it's possible that they eventually do find someone desperate enough or high enough to accept? I really don't know what to think.
I've had the same person periodically text me the same message explaining and requesting regular meetings with BBFS. The first time I was polite and took the time to explain to him why it was crazy to even ask. He got super offended and started insulting me, telling me I was a terrible and selfish person for refusing. Lol I've received similar versions of the same message from him a few times and simply ignore them. But I'm encouraged by the fact that he still writes a it probably means that he hasn't found anyone crazy enough to go along with it.
I had a very polite request recently from a seemingly normal man who explained that he no longer had sex with his wife and was looking for someone. He said he preferred it "natural". Bye.
The most disappointing scenario, though, is a regular or someone I've already met and liked, asking after a few sessions.
With all the sketchy ads on humpchies, it's possible that they eventually do find someone desperate enough or high enough to accept? I really don't know what to think.
I've had the same person periodically text me the same message explaining and requesting regular meetings with BBFS. The first time I was polite and took the time to explain to him why it was crazy to even ask. He got super offended and started insulting me, telling me I was a terrible and selfish person for refusing. Lol I've received similar versions of the same message from him a few times and simply ignore them. But I'm encouraged by the fact that he still writes a it probably means that he hasn't found anyone crazy enough to go along with it.
I had a very polite request recently from a seemingly normal man who explained that he no longer had sex with his wife and was looking for someone. He said he preferred it "natural". Bye.
Spoiler alert: every single one of us does! It feels better. That’s just a simple fact. I mean it’s probably the single biggest sexual perk of being in a steady, exclusive relationship!
But to ask / expect it from a SP is... alarming at best.
The last post was on June 18, 2021. I am updating it because this thread will still be relevant.
Indeed the last merbite to be banned for this reason was last Tuesday.
Be careful and using safe practices. And I think once a month would be a very good practice to get tested for venerial diseases.
Indeed the last merbite to be banned for this reason was last Tuesday.
Be careful and using safe practices. And I think once a month would be a very good practice to get tested for venerial diseases.
It's called STI nowaday! Sexually transmited infections or STD, sexually transmitted didease. "Venerial disease" only points out to your age!
Isn’t monthly excessive? I’ve always held to a 3 month period
Yes it's true.It's called STI nowaday! Sexually transmited infections or STD, sexually transmitted didease. "Venerial disease" only points out to your age!
In french: ITSS infections transmissibles sexuellement et par le sang.
Go ask your doctor.
Whitin 3 months for the Joe is good enough except if your a wealthy gentleman that book SP multiple times within the week!
Yes, unfortunately there are still stupid and irresponsible people ( clients and SPs ) that think they are invulnerable or just fucking don't care!
A good friend that is not in the hobby anymore told me about a wealthy and good looking friend of him that ask multiple SP and got the service each time.
He told him he was a fucking idiot and to go get tested ASAP!!! Lol!
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