Bbl surgery

[minutemenX]

Can we normalize appreciating all body types women can have? I think it's normal to have preferences. Not denying that. But saying ''skinny is in'' or ''men only like hourglass figures'' isn't really pleasant for us to see.

Exactly. Some women with features that may be considered well below beauty standards have tremendous sex appeal. I can’t formulate exactly where it comes from, but it seems to reflect general intelligence, humanistic inclination and of course sex drive

 

[Jordd]

Can we normalize appreciating all body types women can have? I think it's normal to have preferences. Not denying that. But saying ''skinny is in'' or ''men only like hourglass figures'' isn't really pleasant for us to see.

Sorry, I was going to include that at the end of my last comment, but thought it was generally understood. Of course all body types are appreciated out in the real world. The other stuff is media driven, as you said. That’s why it takes a confident person to be comfortable in one’s skin.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

We get very heavily criticized on our physical appearance and literally on everything in this business so I don't see why it's surprising that many of us get surgeries. I've seen comments criticize girls who get surgeries, and some criticize girls who DON'T.

 

[Fradi]

We get very heavily criticized on our physical appearance and literally on everything in this business so I don't see why it's surprising that many of us get surgeries. I've seen comments criticize girls who get surgeries, and some criticize girls who DON'T.

You are 100% correct in everything you say however you also need to be realistic.
The profession you have chosen 90 % or maybe even more of the time first contact is purely based on looks, not your personality your kindness or anything else. This is not being critical it is just the way it is.
That has a lot to do with having a connection and repeat visits, but without your looks generating the initial contact you would never meet that person.
It takes a strong individual to look past this and not let herself be swayed or bothered by it.
People shouldn’t criticize for sure but there is nothing wrong with having a preference and choosing someone who meets that.

The 2 ladies I have been seeing are very different in this regard, my ATF is 100% natural no tattoos piercings and I think she is absolutely gorgeous.
The other lady has had some work done has quite a few tattoos and piercings. I thought she was amazing before she had the work done and just as amazing after. What matters is what she wants and how she feels and if in her eyes she feels more beautiful and confident then it was the right thing for her.
The reason I have been seeing both these ladies for over 5 years is definitely not just because they are gorgeous in my eyes but because they are amazingly kind and we have become friends and I genuinely care about them and would really miss not having them in my life.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You are 100% correct in everything you say however you also need to be realistic.
The profession you have chosen 90 % or maybe even more of the time first contact is purely based on looks, not your personality your kindness or anything else. This is not being critical it is just the way it is.
That has a lot to do with having a connection and repeat visits, but without your looks generating the initial contact you would never meet that person.
It takes a strong individual to look past this and not let herself be swayed or bothered by it.
People shouldn’t criticize for sure but there is nothing wrong with having a preference and choosing someone who meets that.

The 2 ladies I have been seeing are very different in this regard, my ATF is 100% natural no tattoos piercings and I think she is absolutely gorgeous.
The other lady has had some work done has quite a few tattoos and piercings. I thought she was amazing before she had the work done and just as amazing after. What matters is what she wants and how she feels and if in her eyes she feels more beautiful and confident then it was the right thing for her.
The reason I have been seeing both these ladies for over 5 years is definitely not just because they are gorgeous in my eyes but because they are amazingly kind and we have become friends and I genuinely care about them and would really miss not having them in my life.

I've never said it was abnormal for us to be chosen based on looks, but people have different tastes. I never said it wasn't okay to have a preference.

 

[Fradi]

I've never said it was abnormal for us to be chosen based on looks, but people have different tastes. I never said it wasn't okay to have a preference.

I never said you did.
Just trying to explain what you probably already know for sure that you will always be chosen first on your looks and some will unfortunately criticize it instead of just moving on and choosing someone more to their liking.
It must be very difficult to not be affected by this or by the competition of other ladies with different looks.
Learning to like the way you look and to be comfortable with who you are and to have confidence in yourself is always a challenge for most people, not just SP.

 

[LC18]

It’s a forum about reviewing women you’ve slept with. I think men are going to be very vocal about their body preferences and what they think is “in”.

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

We get very heavily criticized on our physical appearance and literally on everything in this business so I don't see why it's surprising that many of us get surgeries. I've seen comments criticize girls who get surgeries, and some criticize girls who DON'T.

IMHO, you definitely don't need any surgery.